Pedophilia is a mental disorder that will never be fixed.

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Pedophilia needs to be separated from any other sexual deviance.Society doesn't take serious enough how far reaching it is.1 in 4 girls will have been abused or sexually assaulted by 18 and 1 in 6 boys.
Funny how Western countries like the UK and US were in a hoopla about the rape cases in India.Rape and sexual abuse is an epidemic here just as much.

We should have movements and be marching in the streets,trying to change the SOL(statute of limitations) in each state.
Many states during the late 2000's changed the SOL to 25yrs after 18 yrs old,but some have not.
Prior to this shift,a common SOL for sexual abuse was 4 yrs after the crime.Most victims don't attempt to report until 14 yrs after the crime.


We shouldn't be trivializing such a heinous crime with the religious zeal I know a lot of you are driven by when you make the connection between homosexuality and pedophilia.
 

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you can't really find reasons that prove homosexuality or transexuality are absolute wrongs without injecting personal opinion or religion, while you can find absolute wrong in non-consentual acts

Define consent.

(Which is why I brought up the 'all sex with white women is rape/black women can't be raped/common law is 13' standpoints earlier.)

Unless you want to define 'absolute' as 'whatever the laws of land say at the time'.
 

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A gay male being a rapist is irrelevant to homosexuality.Just as a hereto man being a rapist is irrelevant to heterosexuality.It means they're both just...rapists.
A male pedophile who preys on males,again,places no conditions on whether homosexuality is consensual or not.


All pedophiles are engaging in nonconsensual sex (ie rape).
Most homosexual men are engaging in consensual sex.In cases when they are not,well then they are pedophiles or rapists.Just as a hetero man would be when he is no longer engaging in consensual sex with a grown woman.
In the earlier post you were trying to marry the definition to homosexuality with consent is the only way to distance yourself from pedo's. but to do that you have to muddy the definition of consent. it doesn't count if isn't 18+? So does that make high school kids having sex rape?

But regardless, rape is a crime of consent specifically the lack of. If a gay man can rape it means sexuality is independent of consent (gays being "born that way") in spite of what you said earlier. Otherwise pedo's can use the same born this way politics to weseal in their agenda's like they do.

tldr you cant have it both ways
 

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No, I like Science I just don't agree with the Evolution theory. Because it would be weird to believe in a Big Bang and believe in some type of God too

I'm just curious....how does a Big Bang make God wierd? Actually it lines up in my eyes. The Big Bang states that in the early part of the Universe's history, an expansion occurred from a Singularity....all was dark and yet all of the building blocks were there. Eventually we left the Dark Ages, as it is called and we ended up with stars that gave us light. Sound familiar? Stars gave way to galaxies. We came along. As far as the 7 day talk, I take very little of the Bible literally...much and I mean much of it is parables...sit down with your pastor and he will tell you this.....but I digress slightly... The expansion continued. It actually continues to this day and yes there is visual proof of this phenomenon. Something that is expanding, by the laws of common sense, has to have been at a smaller point at some time, this is how the Big Bang Theory came about in the first place... I'm always fascinated by people who say you can't believe in the Big Bang and believe in a God. Not saying this is you, breh......but every time I have confronted someone on this after they have said it, they show their real hand....they have no clue about the Big Bang theory and have a beef with it on some kind of general principle.

If you study many origin stories from various religions, it is actually uncanny how well they line up with the Big Bang.....but there is some real push to deny this...unless you look for yourself you would never really know....most folks are happy to be spoon fed info on the origins of the Universe...

As far as evolution...I mean a 98+% DNA matchup with the Great Apes cannot possibly just be a coincidence, we're not even remotely linked that closely with any other group of animals, but I let folks cook on that one....people who don't accept it in regards to humans tend to accept it amongst every other animal walking the face of the planet with no issue....
 
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I can def see the age of consent being lowered in the future. homosexuality and being trans were in the same bracket as pedophilia, and look at us now. we no longer consider these things sick and juvenile. a lot of people dislike it being compared to homosexuality but it was all once under the dsm. I can see it going from an mental illness to a sexual orientation maybe 5 years from now and it being accepted. parents are going to have a tough time in the future, im not sure if i even want children at this point.
 
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So your argument in a nutshell is: America 'has a worse pedolphilic problem than Ancient Greece' because a nation of 300 million is statistically more likely to have pedophiles than one of roughly 13 million (DUH). If you can't see how stupid that argument is just by reading it back to yourself I can't really help you :yeshrug:

considering all the people that have been sexually abused as children I dont understand how you can under estimate this.
 
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dude being gay is like being straight except you like the same sex
you can't be born a pedo because you were not born an adult
gay people like people of the same sex, that's it
they could like 18 year olds or 50 year olds or fat guys or thin guys or ugly guys or handsome guys or rich guys or funny guys
pedos like children
the same children that pedos like, they would not like when the children get older
you aren't born fetishizing age and innocence

theres plenty of evidence out there that proves a lot of these men/women can't help their attraction to children. theres centers that are specifically for pedos, and a lot of them claim that it its a lost cause. just like there use to be camps to get rid of homosexuality but its viewed as crazy now.i believe theres some people that are attracted to adults and also children, just like theres people attracted to both genders. you have to really be a critical thinker. these people exist, they're out here and unfortunately ive had encounters with them.
 

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MAKAVELI25 said:
Oh yeah? pull up some statistics.

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“Until the late 20th century U.S. age of consent laws specifically names males as perpetrators and females as victims. Following English law, in which the age was set at 12 in 1275 and lowered to 10 in 1576, ages of consent in the American colonies were generally set at 10 or 12. The laws protected female virginity, which at the time was considered a valuable commodity until marriage. The theft of a girl’s chastity was seen as a property crime against her father and future husband. If two people were married and had sex, no matter what their age, no crime was committed because a woman was her husband’s property. In practice, too, the consent laws only protected white females, as many non-white females were enslaved or otherwise discriminated against by the legal system.

~Sex and Society, Vol. 1, pg. 54.

“United States, the age of consent was much lower. For example, in New York, the age of consent was ten years until 1885. After 1885, age of consent laws changed around the country, reaching 16 in New York in 1889 and 18 in 1895. Prior to these changes the age of consent in most places in the United States was 10 or 12 years.

~Prostitution and Sex Work, Introduction
 
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Pedophilia, like incest, has always come off to me as gross and disgusting.

You can't tell me that a grown man trying to force himself sexually on a young boy or girl who can't even consent or know what's going on is acceptable.
 
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Define consent.

(Which is why I brought up the 'all sex with white women is rape/black women can't be raped/common law is 13' standpoints earlier.)

Unless you want to define 'absolute' as 'whatever the laws of land say at the time'.
absolute as in you can prove that there is something something wrong with it in a way that violates somebody as a human being

theres plenty of evidence out there that proves a lot of these men/women can't help their attraction to children. theres centers that are specifically for pedos, and a lot of them claim that it its a lost cause. just like there use to be camps to get rid of homosexuality but its viewed as crazy now.i believe theres some people that are attracted to adults and also children, just like theres people attracted to both genders. you have to really be a critical thinker. these people exist, they're out here and unfortunately ive had encounters with them.
developing a fetish for kids based on a lack of mental development and or trauma is not the same as being born homosexual or trans
 
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