People hype up being single these days. Anyone not like being single?

[stepbackj34spud]

Being single and having money is everything. I get lunch for myself $10-$20 tops. I take a girl out for some grab and go Tacos.. $60

Being expected to pay for everything, or taking care of a woman like a child just for p*ssy in this economy is trash. I feel sorry for dudes who dont make real money.

 

[Henny and_ HotWings]

Theres nothing wrong with it... it irks me that people look at you like a weirdo for wanting to be alone at times. Dating market is trash these days.

Facts! I been single for almost a year now and tbh … I don’t know when I’ll be ready for another relationship but I know it ain’t no time soon.

One of my boys and his wife be tryna force me to be in a relationship, always bringing that shyt up, bringing my ex up etc.. they just assume that I hate being single and that I’m lonely ..

And I just be

Cuz they couldn’t be anymore wrong in their assumptions

I’d rather be single and have my peace than not be single but constantly be stressed/annoyed

 

[Redwood]

TBH, I'm not even envious of the guys in relationships. The good relationships mainly raises one's ire

 

[Dameon Farrow]

Be chronically bored wirh yourself, brehs. Being single is the truth but I have hobbies so I guess that makes the different. If all you do is go home go to work and watch the news you'll feel unfulfilled even with a partner. Work on you. Educate yourself in something new. Fulfill yourself.

 

[Mike Ock]

Eclectic music taste (which says alot to me).
Also plays instruments.
Reads a variety of books.
Different hobbies.
Open minded.

A mirror of me, which is why we get on so well.

Edit: most importantly, she has a genuine self-deprecating sense of humor. Not forced or try hard. Just naturally funny.

Bruh, you didn't even need to write all this to validate where you wanna take your relationship to someone who seems to be anti-relationship.

Some of yall dudes are bragging about things some of us married folks already have done before getting married and still doing (maybe not as much) with our family. I havent seen anyone single in here mention any extrodinary things they are doing with their lives. At this point in my life, going out for a drink with my single boys just isn't appealing as it used to be. They are on the hunt for females, when I'm not in that frame of mind anymore. Some of yall married friends may feel the same way but will never mention it to yall. Hanging out with my married friends is much more fulfulling, seeing as we grew from kids to family men...and yes we discuss and joke about the shyt our wives and kids do that mighta aggrivated us at the moment but that doesnt mean we are miserable. Whats fulfilling for me now as a dad may not even have crossed my mind when single. I am 41 and maybe in my early 30s it clicked to me that I wanted a family and was ok with life not being all about me. I did alot of traveling and hook-ups at that point and was ok for life to go into the famiily man direction. Also realized money is just a tool and we'll never feel we have enough of it.

As far as relationships... just gotta be open to living and seeing what comes from it. Everything in life is a gamble. Views on things will change as you age and experience more. Being single or married wont guarantee hapiness because most of the time it needs to come from within.

 

[UpAndComing]

I’m cool with being single for now. I like being alone.

Plus…

This man is speaking the gospel right here

The amount of savings and disposable income I have is unmatched when you are single

 

[Westbama Heartthrob]

It's pros and cons like anything else

At the very least, would rather have nothing than be in a stressful relationship

Some of yall catching hell judging from the outside looking in

Plus, it's usually for the best. Personally, need to heal first. Realize I base too much of my self worth into how I make women feel

Not even just sex but the overall way of treating a woman well. It's like if I don't have a woman in my life to care for or direct any energy for, I don't feel right

But aint really meeting any real prospects that I could take serious

Some of these freaks look tempting, wont lie

But the inevitable headache to follow aint worth the disturbance of my peace. So I'mma keep fasting in the meantime

 

[Womb Raider]

Rather be single than in a bad relationship

 

[Westbama Heartthrob]

Be chronically bored wirh yourself, brehs. Being single is the truth but I have hobbies so I guess that makes the different. If all you do is go home go to work and watch the news you'll feel unfulfilled even with a partner. Work on you. Educate yourself in something new. Fulfill yourself.

This.

Relationships are supposed to add to our lives. Not be the source of our fulfillment

That's what self realization is for

 

[Koli_Kat]

Being single and having money is everything. I get lunch for myself $10-$20 tops. I take a girl out for some grab and go Tacos.. $60

Being expected to pay for everything, or taking care of a woman like a child just for p*ssy in this economy is trash. I feel sorry for dudes who dont make real money.

Yall don't be with women that don't mind picking up the check every now and then? Damn

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

Aren't human's are social by nature?

this is hilarious to me coming from this cite because it seems like most guys on here dislike most women except the one that is giving them their needed level of validation. that's like the clinical definition of anti-social. just because you pick one to shack up with doesn't make you a social butterfly

plus in my post i mentioned like 200 other people i'm interacting with this week. thats insane to think that someone that is not laying down at night with someone must be lonely..... unless you are just antisocial like that, but nah there's plenty of other relationships to foster in life for a normal person.

 

[Jasonmask]

I like it. I know it’s cliche to say but I have a couple of ex’s damn there begging me to come back

 

[DJ Paul's Arm]

“Relationships? Nah them is way too expensive tho but being sprung? I just wanna break ya hoe!” - Mac Mall

 

[Ghost Utmost]

It sucks in plenty of ways.

But you gotta be with the right person for the relationship to be good.

SOHH like, if I could have HER back, I'd do it. But starting a new bish feels exhausting and ho hopping has its drawbacks as well.

 

[UpNext]

I think since I was 12 I've maybe lived 3 total years of my life single (36 now and married). So nah, I don't like it, at all. If I'm going to be dealing with women on the regular, I'd just rather it be with someone I genuinely like being around and I'm not about that celibate life.

If I genuinely like being around you I'll just go ahead and give a relationship a shot and see where that shakes.