People in their 20s getting married

[Jahmal]

nope, all the real business men i know play the game strict....they find a loyal woman, because they know being a playa will hurt their pockets....divorce, baby mams, child support, gold diggers etc..........

real hustlers dont play that shyt,those are my role models....I dont fellow broke ppls philosophies anymore......thats why our community is broken...nikkas have multiple kids and abandon them....we have no family structure, because the whore and playa lifestyle is glamorized...thats self deductive

Every real business man that I know is smashing thots everytime they take a business trip out of town.

 

[Serious]

not everybody lives the life you want to live...

congratulate them for finding a partner who will provide a second income and help them become financially stable while they each pursue their career goals instead of wasting 40 percent of their weekly check hitting the club or buying Jordan's to impress basic bytches, going out and overspending at restaurants

with that said, ain't you in your early 30's still unmarried

 

[Slystallion]

with that said, ain't you in your early 30's still unmarried

Just had a child and live with my girlfriend im practically married lol

 

[Elle Driver]

Married people live longer, allegedly.

 

[EndDomination]

If you marry someone worthwhile, and who can you live with long term, there should be problem with getting married in your 20s.
Its "ain't shyt" nikkas and "ain't shyt" hoes who try to get married in their 20s that have the issues.

 

[Serious]

Married people live longer, allegedly.

 

[Elle Driver]

I said allegedly.

 

[Redeem87]

I dont see anything wrong with it just protect your money with a contract or some type of agreement

So if you get a divorce you will be cool

 

[L&HH]

I've been seeing this lately and I don't get it. Some people are religious and some ppl do it for military benefits

 

[Shadow King]

I've been seeing this lately and I don't get it. Some people are religious and some ppl do it for military benefits

Yeah I have 2 homies that married early and both are military.

 

[BlackAchilles]

From her perspective I can see it, cause women have to deal with that biological clock shyt

But in 2015 I say marriage before age 30 for a dude= near automatic L ... You'll almost certainly be better established and still have a solid window before your date with the Grim Barber

 

[Solomon Caine]

Take it from a nikka who been there twice in his early 20s. Don't do it. Enjoy your life while you still young.

 

[agnosticlady]

u wont be alone...u have to find a man that value the same things that u value...and make a spiritual connection....but must ppl are too shallow and cant get past physical appearance

Yep most people are shallow. When I think about it I wonder if social media plays a role in this. I think most people are too embarrassed to wear their heart on a sleeve. I don't understand what is so bad about showing someone that you care for them. We have this I don't have feelings culture going on. I don't get what's funny and lame about marrying in your 20's. A lot of people that I know hot married in their 20's and they are doing fine today. With that being said I am not knocking those who marry in their 30's and 40's

the worst is when they're getting married and they're both mcdonalds/starbucks/minimum wage workers

i just sit there like

No the worst is when you have kids with that wage. You don't have to have a big wedding, and do all that extra stuff. Both could be in school getting higher degrees that lead to better jobs. If they are both full time or even part time they can make it worth even without government assistance. I've seen it done before.

People get married for the wrong reasons these days.

If you getting g married cause you found the one....and feel its the thing to do...by all means more power to you.

If you getting married for facebook likes and updates....yeah you fukked up.

Honestly, I see nothing wrong with getting married in your 20's as long as you have the right mindset. I don't want to marry a man who spent his 20's dabbling with hoes and built nothing for himself. A lot of men say they can balance both but nah. I also wouldn't marry a man that already has a kid

 

[JMill782]

i know this old dude who was with his wife since high school. he got married at 28 and smashed plenty of other chicks on the low before he actually committed and proposed to his wife. from ages 18-25 he was cheating and then he just got tired of it and just wanted to be committed. now his wife and him spent 18 years together.

some people just can't handle being in a committed relationship in their early 20's. i believe people should be getting married in their late 20's to early 30's, and you shouldn't rush marriage tbh. Denzel Washington met his wife at the age of 21 and dated her for 8 years then proposed and got married at the age of 29. you just got to wait and mentally prepare yourself for that shyt, think to yourself damn am i financially stable to get married, is the person i want, etc.

my bad if i make no sense at all.

 

[DIMES]

I got a little cousin who's 23 that got married two weeks ago

Why is that bad?