People That Say "Bad" When U Ask Em How They Are Unappreaciation

[BocaRear]

What the fukk is wrong these kind of people?

I text this broad from time to time and whenever I ask her about her day, without fail she says "it was shyt" ,
Muthafukka Idc if you're day was shyt pretend it was good, I don't wanna hear ur damn problems

Or sometimes when I casually ask a person "whats up" they go into a long detailed story of how shyt is going bad, nikka nobody cares about your problems round here, we all got problems

The correct social protocol is to say "good what about you" and keep it moving, don't be that person

 

[No Sleep]

I always say "not too good"... Just to see the other person reaction.

 

[BocaRear]

I always say "not too good"... Just to see the other person reaction.

What's the logic behind this?

 

[Black]

"I can't call it"

 

[No Sleep]

What's the logic behind this?

I always say "not too good"... Just to see the other person reaction.

 

[BocaRear]

@No Sleep you realise the majority of people are just going to pretend to care right?

No ones actually gonna give u the ""

 

[No Sleep]

@No Sleep you realise the majority of people are just going to pretend to care right?

No ones actually gonna give u the ""

Right, just like they don't really care when they ask. Most expect to hear something positive.

 

[My Name Is My Naaame]

this thread

Hey how u doin

Man I'm just tryna take it one day at a time

Yup yup we got tu

 

[Cake]

Yea I think of it like someone is asking me what type of person i am. So my answer is always perfect or great. Never bad.

 

[NotAnFBIagent]

One of those fake ass social protocols

 

[Larry Lobster]

That's usually annoying old people.

 

[Mr.Logic]

What the fukk is wrong these kind of people?

I text this broad from time to time and whenever I ask her about her day, without fail she says "it was shyt" ,
Muthafukka Idc if you're day was shyt pretend it was good, I don't wanna hear ur damn problems

Or sometimes when I casually ask a person "whats up" they go into a long detailed story of how shyt is going bad, nikka nobody cares about your problems round here, we all got problems

The correct social protocol is to say "good what about you" and keep it moving, don't be that person

(1) I am an authentic person, if you ask me "how are you?" and I am not doing good, I will tell you EXACTLY how I feel...If you give me the generic "Don't be so negative" answer, then I know you ain't the type of person I need in my life...

(2) I worked in a mental health facility, and people in trouble feel better when they speak to somebody who is nonjudgmental and doesn't MINIMIZE their troubles...

(3) Ultimately, isn't this what we are all looking for? To understand and to be understood...

(4) Conclusion, if you don't want to know, DON'T ask...Being authentic is BETTER than being polite...

I have stopped asking people "How are you?" and saying "Good morning"...I just say "Hello" or "Hi"...Because I realized when we ask "How are you?" we don't really care about the answer...Also, someone may not be having a "good morning"...So, it makes sense to just say "hello" be NEUTRAL and keep it moving...

Better than pretending to care, when we don't...

 

[SemiEnlightenedBum]

stop asking if you can't deal with honesty..

 

[ndthentherewasx]

Small talk is the worst.

Why even ask, say anything at all?

Just nod "what up"