People who are given an inch but always take a mile

[O.iatlhawksfan]

How do you avoid people like this? What traits do they all have in common? People like this get me heated bc yu go out of your way to help them and they always do that extra shyt that makes you not wanna help anyone.


Example yesterday my co-worker been talking to this girl. She just bought a car, and my co-worker asked her if he can use it to make a quick run. So this dude gets the car and is gone for 6 hours. This dude drive all over the city going by his ex girlfriend, going by his homeboys, and returns the car with practically no gas.m it bought flash back of people doing shyt like that to me

 

[KravenMorehead™]

The only thing you can control is how much you allow yourself to be a part of their bullshyt.

I'll expound this later.

 

[jeh]

Its always gone be a man or woman who piggyback off you. Or take your kindness for weakness. Once it happens, that first time. Nip it in the bud.

 

[O.iatlhawksfan]

Its always gone be a man or woman who piggyback off you. Or take your kindness for weakness. Once it happens, that first time. Nip it in the bud.

Yu right. It's always desperate needy people who have nothing going for themselves. But there's people who are actually good at heart. How do you distinguish the two?

 

[mtu wa chuma]

How do you avoid people like this? What traits do they all have in common? People like this get me heated bc yu go out of your way to help them and they always do that extra shyt that makes you not wanna help anyone.


Example yesterday my co-worker been talking to this girl. She just bought a car, and my co-worker asked her if he can use it to make a quick run. So this dude gets the car and is gone for 6 hours. This dude drive all over the city going by his ex girlfriend, going by his homeboys, and returns the car with practically no gas.m it bought flash back of people doing shyt like that to me

Well obviously all she can do now is make sure she never lets him get near her car anymore. If you keep doing it knowing what they're like then it's your fault isn't it?

 

[MikelArteta]

I'm a nice person but now I show my kindness to when I volunteer every week at a shelter

Most people will take advatange of you in life, only person there for them and will stab you in the back.

I always remember when I lent someone money. Not even their own family had money to lend, out of the kindness of my heart I lent, never even got a cent back.

 

[O.iatlhawksfan]

I'm a nice person but now I show my kindness to when I volunteer every week at a shelter

Most people will take advatange of you in life, only person there for them and will stab you in the back.

I remember when I lent someone money. Not even their own family had money to lend, out of the kindness of my heart I lent, never even got a cent back.

Yea that happen to me recently. I loan this dude 200 for some Jays and never heard from him again. I'm not really trippin cuz I got the Jays but still who do people keep turning to when they keep burning bridges. most people are not going help yu.

 

[Solano707]

I'm a nice person but now I show my kindness to when I volunteer every week at a shelter

Most people will take advatange of you in life, only person there for them and will stab you in the back.

I always remember when I lent someone money. Not even their own family had money to lend, out of the kindness of my heart I lent, never even got a cent back.

I did the same with my parents-in-laws... wifey was always nagging them on when they were going to repay us back. Never happened. I just told her don't worry about its a wash, but never again.

 

[jeh]

Yu right. It's always desperate needy people who have nothing going for themselves. But there's people who are actually good at heart. How do you distinguish the two?

Good question, that im learning the answer to everyday. Every single day. Im at the point in my life, where trust isn't a luxury I can't afford. Meaning I trust you as far as I can see you. Loan or "borrowing," is something I only do with family, and peeps I know when it comes down to it. Wont betray me. I learned from, correction. Im learning thru experience:
I loan you something and you were late returning what I loaned. I tell them don't ask me for nothing again no matter how big or small. Of course, some people have a career of being con(fidence) Men/women. But if it sounds good, too good. I'll say no thank you. And pass. You might say, how come people would hustle me or try and sell me a dream. A sucker is born every minute in this world. So, lot of times, people are dealing with like you said desperation. And desperate times call for desperate measures. When someone sees what you have, what you worked hard for. Their insecure, foolish, and JEALOUS. I had a raiders starter coat back in grade school. And dudes would be like, "breh, let me wear it to such and such period. Or hear, wear my coat, and I'll wear yours.
Nikka please. Its funny actually, now that I think on it. I avoided alot of stuff like that. I've had my share of what was I ththinking moments, . I was influenced by peeps that wasn't my peeps. Just snakes, rats, and birds looking for a meal tickets, a come up. learning everyday breh. I will say, if someone is always asking, for this and that. Favors, borrowing. Even, sometimes family depending on the situation. My apologies for the long response.

 

[Godless Socialist CEO]

How do you avoid people like this? What traits do they all have in common? People like this get me heated bc yu go out of your way to help them and they always do that extra shyt that makes you not wanna help anyone.


Example yesterday my co-worker been talking to this girl. She just bought a car, and my co-worker asked her if he can use it to make a quick run. So this dude gets the car and is gone for 6 hours. This dude drive all over the city going by his ex girlfriend, going by his homeboys, and returns the car with practically no gas.m it bought flash back of people doing shyt like that to me

What kind of dumbass just lets someone borrow their new car in the first place? I feel no sympathy for someone stupid enough to do this

 

[Poetical Poltergeist]

What's that saying, don't loan what u won't miss.

Dude who drove that car around all day and put in no gas is just disrespectful. U would have a little more respec t for dude if he filled your shyt up.

 

[Diondon]

It sounds like you're non-confrontational. It aint a matter of avoiding them, cause you'll never leave the house.
You gotta let them know you aint the one to play like that.

 

[thoushallhustle]

people like that are easy to spot because they are just so damn THIRSTY to come up. You can see them doing the math in their head to see how much money you got. They have ZERO shame about begging. They will straight up ask you how much you paid for something, how you can afford it, what you do, how much money you make, etc. When you come around with some fly shyt they act real chummy but when you broke they get ghost.

Don't get caught up. Tell them no straight up and if they can't figure it out on their own, let them drown..

 

[Suicide King]

They have ZERO shame about begging.

I've been saying this for years, people who really needs your help never asks for it, they rather make sacrifices.

If you got someone asking for help all the time, they don't really need it, they are just leeches.

The dudes/chicks that get embarrassed when you offer are genuine and deserve your generosity.

 

[b. woods]

Good question, that im learning the answer to everyday. Every single day. Im at the point in my life, where trust isn't a luxury I can't afford. Meaning I trust you as far as I can see you. Loan or "borrowing," is something I only do with family, and peeps I know when it comes down to it. Wont betray me. I learned from, correction. Im learning thru experience:
I loan you something and you were late returning what I loaned. I tell them don't ask me for nothing again no matter how big or small. Of course, some people have a career of being con(fidence) Men/women. But if it sounds good, too good. I'll say no thank you. And pass. You might say, how come people would hustle me or try and sell me a dream. A sucker is born every minute in this world. So, lot of times, people are dealing with like you said desperation. And desperate times call for desperate measures. When someone sees what you have, what you worked hard for. Their insecure, foolish, and JEALOUS. I had a Raiders starter coat back in grade school. And dudes would be like, "breh, let me wear it to such and such period. Or hear, wear my coat, and I'll wear yours.
Nikka please. Its funny actually, now that I think on it. I avoided alot of stuff like that. I've had my share of what was I ththinking moments, . I was influenced by peeps that wasn't my peeps. Just snakes, rats, and birds looking for a meal tickets, a come up. learning everyday breh. I will say, if someone is always asking, for this and that. Favors, borrowing. Even, sometimes family depending on the situation. My apologies for the long response.

You brought me back, breh.