People who are given an inch but always take a mile

[Aceofspades404]

I'm a nice person but now I show my kindness to when I volunteer every week at a shelter

Most people will take advatange of you in life, only person there for them and will stab you in the back.

I always remember when I lent someone money. Not even their own family had money to lend, out of the kindness of my heart I lent, never even got a cent back.

Similar situation. I had a friend who I let borrow $330 (wasn't all at once) b/c she constantly needed money to pay her bills. Never mind the fact that, when she got financial aid, she would literally blow it all on stupid things and would come for me to rescue. I remember one time, it was spring break and she was broke. Out the kindness of my heart, I took her shopping, we went to the movies, and dinner. And this is on top of me just giving her money here and there for gas. All I wanted was the $330 I let her borrow.
The summer after i graduated undergrad was one of the worst periods of my life. I had no job and no money and she knew since she was my roommate. She was working two jobs and had financial aid. She never once asked me if I needed help, took me out to lunch, or even bothered giving me any money back. She would go grocery shopping and would sit there and eat in my face without offering. There were days when I slept in b/c I was just that hungry and when I would log in to instagram, she had all these pictures of her buying new things and having drinks with friends.
This is the same friend who I wrote about on here before who is sleeping with her best friends ex boyfriend. I didn't even catch on to her ways before it was too late. I remember one day, I sat there and cried in my bed because I let someone treat me the way she did. She
1. Didn't come to my birthday dinner b/c someone she didn't wanna see was gonna be there (it was a guy who was friends with her best friends ex boyfriend)
2. She didn't come to my graduation b/c she had to work but spent the whole memorial weekend in atlanta with said best friends ex boyfriend
3. Every time I would ask her to take me grocery shopping, she would ask me to buy her something (her manipulation tactics)
4.One time I asked her to pick me up from school ( I was a volunteer for the football team at the time) and I didn't get off until 11 at night. Mind you I was there since 8 in the morning so I was really tired and my feet were hurting. She picks me up and stops by waffle house and makes me get out the car b/c she knew someone who worked there and didn't have good clothes on. I got home and complained about it and my other roommate (her other best friend) was like why am I complaining when she's doing you a favor?
5. I bought her a key chain souvenir when I went to Paris, she left it on the table and ended up throwing it in the trash when she moved out because it wasn't "good enough for her"
6. Between her, my other roommate and the guy, messed up my laptop but non of them took responsibility for it.
I could go on and on but yea, I didn't think it was possible to meet someone so destructive until I ran into her.
Thank God, I was delivered out of that hell hole. I no longer speak to all 3 of them. I'm in a much better place with great blessings.

 

[Dwolf]

Similar situation. I had a friend who I let borrow $330 (wasn't all at once) b/c she constantly needed money to pay her bills. Never mind the fact that, when she got financial aid, she would literally blow it all on stupid things and would come for me to rescue. I remember one time, it was spring break and she was broke. Out the kindness of my heart, I took her shopping, we went to the movies, and dinner. And this is on top of me just giving her money here and there for gas. All I wanted was the $330 I let her borrow.
The summer after i graduated undergrad was one of the worst periods of my life. I had no job and no money and she knew since she was my roommate. She was working two jobs and had financial aid. She never once asked me if I needed help, took me out to lunch, or even bothered giving me any money back. She would go grocery shopping and would sit there and eat in my face without offering. There were days when I slept in b/c I was just that hungry and when I would log in to instagram, she had all these pictures of her buying new things and having drinks with friends.
This is the same friend who I wrote about on here before who is sleeping with her best friends ex boyfriend. I didn't even catch on to her ways before it was too late. I remember one day, I sat there and cried in my bed because I let someone treat me the way she did. She
1. Didn't come to my birthday dinner b/c someone she didn't wanna see was gonna be there (it was a guy who was friends with her best friends ex boyfriend)
2. She didn't come to my graduation b/c she had to work but spent the whole memorial weekend in atlanta with said best friends ex boyfriend
3. Every time I would ask her to take me grocery shopping, she would ask me to buy her something (her manipulation tactics)
4.One time I asked her to pick me up from school ( I was a volunteer for the football team at the time) and I didn't get off until 11 at night. Mind you I was there since 8 in the morning so I was really tired and my feet were hurting. She picks me up and stops by waffle house and makes me get out the car b/c she knew someone who worked there and didn't have good clothes on. I got home and complained about it and my other roommate (her other best friend) was like why am I complaining when she's doing you a favor?
5. I bought her a key chain souvenir when I went to Paris, she left it on the table and ended up throwing it in the trash when she moved out because it wasn't "good enough for her"
6. Between her, my other roommate and the guy, messed up my laptop but non of them took responsibility for it.
I could go on and on but yea, I didn't think it was possible to meet someone so destructive until I ran into her.
Thank God, I was delivered out of that hell hole. I no longer speak to all 3 of them. I'm in a much better place with great blessings.

Good

 

[MikelArteta]

Thank God, I was delivered out of that hell hole. I no longer speak to all 3 of them. I'm in a much better place with great blessings

same here, its like that scene in a bronx tale



C: This guy “Louie Dumps” owes me 20 dollars. It’s been two weeks now, and every time he sees me he keeps dodging me. He’s becoming a real pain in the ass. I mean, should I crack him one or what?

Sonny: What’s the matter with you? What have I been telling you? Sometimes hurting somebody ain’t the answer. Is he a good friend of yours?

C: No, I don’t even like him.

Sonny: Well there’s your answer right there. Look at it this way… It costs you 20 dollars to get rid of him. He’s never gonna bother you again. He’s never gonna ask you for money again. He’s out of your life for 20 dollars. You got off cheap. Forget it.

 

[Suicide King]

Similar situation. I had a friend who I let borrow $330 (wasn't all at once) b/c she constantly needed money to pay her bills. Never mind the fact that, when she got financial aid, she would literally blow it all on stupid things and would come for me to rescue. I remember one time, it was spring break and she was broke. Out the kindness of my heart, I took her shopping, we went to the movies, and dinner. And this is on top of me just giving her money here and there for gas. All I wanted was the $330 I let her borrow.
The summer after i graduated undergrad was one of the worst periods of my life. I had no job and no money and she knew since she was my roommate. She was working two jobs and had financial aid. She never once asked me if I needed help, took me out to lunch, or even bothered giving me any money back. She would go grocery shopping and would sit there and eat in my face without offering. There were days when I slept in b/c I was just that hungry and when I would log in to instagram, she had all these pictures of her buying new things and having drinks with friends.
This is the same friend who I wrote about on here before who is sleeping with her best friends ex boyfriend. I didn't even catch on to her ways before it was too late. I remember one day, I sat there and cried in my bed because I let someone treat me the way she did. She
1. Didn't come to my birthday dinner b/c someone she didn't wanna see was gonna be there (it was a guy who was friends with her best friends ex boyfriend)
2. She didn't come to my graduation b/c she had to work but spent the whole memorial weekend in atlanta with said best friends ex boyfriend
3. Every time I would ask her to take me grocery shopping, she would ask me to buy her something (her manipulation tactics)
4.One time I asked her to pick me up from school ( I was a volunteer for the football team at the time) and I didn't get off until 11 at night. Mind you I was there since 8 in the morning so I was really tired and my feet were hurting. She picks me up and stops by waffle house and makes me get out the car b/c she knew someone who worked there and didn't have good clothes on. I got home and complained about it and my other roommate (her other best friend) was like why am I complaining when she's doing you a favor?
5. I bought her a key chain souvenir when I went to Paris, she left it on the table and ended up throwing it in the trash when she moved out because it wasn't "good enough for her"
6. Between her, my other roommate and the guy, messed up my laptop but non of them took responsibility for it.
I could go on and on but yea, I didn't think it was possible to meet someone so destructive until I ran into her.
Thank God, I was delivered out of that hell hole. I no longer speak to all 3 of them. I'm in a much better place with great blessings.

She got you if you are still emotionally invested. You made peace and move on, they you won't keep abusing you.Indeed, you should only deal with people with honor.