People who hold on to anger

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Do you know people who hold on to baseless anger despite it having a negative outcome for all?


I know someone who refuses to let go of her negativity even though it is now affecting the next generation, talking to her is like talking to a donkey and it’s affecting the entire family. I wanna punch her in the throat.
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I rather be angry than any other emotion.

If its fukk you now then its fukk you forever
 

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Do you know people who hold on to baseless anger despite it having a negative outcome for all?


I know someone who refuses to let go of her negativity even though it is now affecting the next generation, talking to her is like talking to a donkey and it’s affecting the entire family. I wanna punch her in the throat.


Holding onto anger causes cancer
 

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Everybody gets angry over legit stuff, but i've found that people with anger issues usually suffer from mental illness mainly depression.

I work with an older white woman and she straight up confided in me that she suffers from depression and last year she wasn't so bad. However this year she stays on angry mode and it's the smallest stuff that can set her off and then she stays mostly angry the rest of the night. shyt is annoying as fukk. Started bringing my bluetooth headphones to work to block her out when she's on the warpath with her ranting and raving.
 

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I'm telling y'all, if you don't resolve it....it's not the other person who suffers, it's YOU.

There are threads here about bad interactions with cops..

and the general post was "it happened, I'm angry .....imaginary threats, cyber protesting, and go on about with your life". I was shocked to read that people didn't file complaints with internal affairs or do anything except take it.

fukk all that...that anger from your encounter with police didn't evaporate.

I always file complaints, keep records and follow up...maybe something gets done, maybe nothing gets done..but the day that same cop crosses the line and hurts somebody physically, there are past complaints on his jacket.

cops and anybody else, I refuse to just go out like that.
 

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I know people, friends included, that are so angry and petty, they walk around constantly desperate to demean someone or "beat" someone, and create imaginary enemies. That is unhealthy and not constructive.

I think anger is fine, but, the difference between righteous outrage and anger at social injustices, police brutality, inequality and someone who offended you in 2008, or a girl who didn't text back last month is vast.
 

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I don’t believe in holding onto anger or grudges, but a lot of people like to fukk others over and then say “that was back then, you should forgive me and stop being immature.” Nah, fukk that. I ain’t in my crib thinking about you all day, but I don’t owe you a second chance to be around me.
 

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Being mad/angry is tiring and a waste of energy. I get mad from time to time, but cut that shyt out quick. I find myself having petty thoughts but check myself real quick. Meditating helps a lot with all the negative energy. I use to be a hating ass kid in hs but I’m good now.
 

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Do you know people who hold on to baseless anger despite it having a negative outcome for all?


I know someone who refuses to let go of her negativity even though it is now affecting the next generation, talking to her is like talking to a donkey and it’s affecting the entire family. I wanna punch her in the throat.


 
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