Perfect example of the difference between a Mother and Father

[UpAndComing]

Bron like fukk that happy shyt

 

[Ahadi]

Yup.

Can’t be passive with black boys.

 

[UnQuantized]

That sense of direction is very important even if you don't make it at that level, the journey in pursuit could be valuable in attaining other goals.

 

[Remote]

That sense of direction is very important even if you don't make it at that level, the journey in pursuit could be valuable in attaining other goals.

That's the thing that I feel a lot of parents don't understand.

It's easy to throw your hands up and sit back and let your kids do "whatever they want to do"

But in real life that's just not good. You have to put some kind of structure and discipline in place so that they learn how to focus and develop a drive to see something through.

Because that's what will push them forward when they are in a situation where they have to do things they don't want to do.

This is something I see everywhere now, even within my own family. There are people who never finish anything. All their successes and failures (not just in work, but even in relationships) hinge on how they "feel" at a particular time.

It's self destructive, in my opinion.

 

[Apollo Creed]

That sense of direction is very important even if you don't make it at that level, the journey in pursuit could be valuable in attaining other goals.

This why society is in shambles. So many boys without fathers just wandering the world seeking for things to “feel good”.

 

[Complexion]

Women are ambiguous. Men should be focused.

Welcome to the Game... Play your position or be played by the System.

 

[BigMan]

 

[DaPresident]

You need BOTH tho. That balance is key.


Moms pushing you to “be happy” and connect with your feelings. Dad is pushing you to be great. How can you lose when both parents actively play a part in your development?

Moms wants you to be successful in whatever you do, dad is there to push you and help build/mold your greatness. You need mom to make sure he’s enjoying the process and dad to make sure they complete it.

Again, balance!!

 

[Don Snow]

Pops keeps him focused

Moms is there to help him through the rough times when things don’t immediately flesh out tell Him things are ok


Black Love Black Families >>>>>

It’s beautiful

 

[King Poetic]

Bron knows

He want his sons in the league or any other sport, but he also knows if he doesn’t make it there he can fall back on something else..

 

[Ziggiy]

That's the thing that I feel a lot of parents don't understand.

It's easy to throw your hands up and sit back and let your kids do "whatever they want to do"

But in real life that's just not good. You have to put some kind of structure and discipline in place so that they learn how to focus and develop a drive to see something through.

Because that's what will push them forward when they are in a situation where they have to do things they don't want to do.

This is something I see everywhere now, even within my own family. There are people who never finish anything. All their successes and failures (not just in work, but even in relationships) hinge on how they "feel" at a particular time.

It's self destructive, in my opinion.

You’ll be a good father

 

[Still Benefited]

That's the thing that I feel a lot of parents don't understand.

It's easy to throw your hands up and sit back and let your kids do "whatever they want to do"

But in real life that's just not good. You have to put some kind of structure and discipline in place so that they learn how to focus and develop a drive to see something through.

Because that's what will push them forward when they are in a situation where they have to do things they don't want to do.

This is something I see everywhere now, even within my own family. There are people who never finish anything. All their successes and failures (not just in work, but even in relationships) hinge on how they "feel" at a particular time.

It's self destructive, in my opinion.

And this is how we become slaves


What is all this structure and discipline being geared toward? Becoming a good cog within the white supremacy wheel?


Im okay with slavery under the right circumstances,with the right person in charge. But brainwashing your children to become indoctrinated by the European. And fit into the Europeans box of what "success" is? Thats what so called "good parents" do in this country.

 

[Remote]

And this is how we become slaves


What is all this structure and discipline being geared toward? Becoming a good cog within the white supremacy wheel?


Im okay with slavery under the right circumstances,with the right person in charge. But brainwashing your children to become indoctrinated by the European. And fit into the Europeans box of what "success" is? Thats what so called "good parents" do in this country.

I don't think we're talking about the same thing.

 

[Apollo Creed]

That's the thing that I feel a lot of parents don't understand.

It's easy to throw your hands up and sit back and let your kids do "whatever they want to do"

But in real life that's just not good. You have to put some kind of structure and discipline in place so that they learn how to focus and develop a drive to see something through.

Because that's what will push them forward when they are in a situation where they have to do things they don't want to do.

This is something I see everywhere now, even within my own family. There are people who never finish anything. All their successes and failures (not just in work, but even in relationships) hinge on how they "feel" at a particular time.

It's self destructive, in my opinion.

So many parents are disconnected from their kids they cant identify their kids talents that they can refine and optimize in order for the child to be productive from it. They think paying bills os all it takes.

 

[Elle Seven]

And this is how we become slaves


What is all this structure and discipline being geared toward? Becoming a good cog within the white supremacy wheel?


Im okay with slavery under the right circumstances,with the right person in charge. But brainwashing your children to become indoctrinated by the European. And fit into the Europeans box of what "success" is? Thats what so called "good parents" do in this country.

Interesting perspective. I do think I understand what you are trying to say. What do you think the missing component is? The bolded immediately made me think of Dr. Amos Wilson and him saying the indoctrination of most is to help solve the problems of another community rather than our own.