Peridot Cares: Step 1 - Early Stages

[PeridotPuss]

oh to be chosen*

Your posts be so on point.

 

[Mac Brown]

I've been with my wife for 7 years and still don't understand her

Man I understand. I'm breaking up and moving apart after 8 years. (We were going to get married but the communication broke down)

Men and women just are cognitively different and will never fully understand each other

But yo wife is a G based on that wedding thread.

Much respect!

 

[Mac Brown]

@PeridotPuss is actually spitting some good game from a female perspective

 

[Vice Queen]

Before anyone else wants to rain on this parade with whatever their neuroses with the female sex they have

 

[010101]

Your posts be so on point.

you on the same wave mentally
we in tune

they don't understand something's can't be changed

there someone for everyone
but a lot of nikkas struggle when they find the ones they want don't want them



like i was saying doe

to be loved to be loved to be loved


*

 

[Kid McNamara]

What women love most about sex is connection. Your body weight. Your power. That heavy breathing. It's a different experience for us than yall.

Good dikk is immersive....entoxicating.

Bad dikk is repulsion. Regret.

Again, look at this fellas. Nowhere in here does she mention bad p*ssy, lying on the bed like dead fish, not knowing how to properly ride a dikk, not reciprocating movement in doggystyle, etc.

Again, if we don't do it, it ain't gettin' done.

And she supposed to give men advice.

If a woman finds you attractive, there's very little you have to say to get her attention/number. It's keeping a woman who you have interested that some men need work on (unless you're just trying to smash of course).

If a woman doesn't find you attractive then that initial contact is dead before it even started.

This might be the dumbest thing I've ever read. Most of y'all really have the roles reversed.

I don't think this is true. I've seen lots of women with ugly guys, and I've heard lots of stories where women said they didn't like the guy at first because they thought he was ugly or something, but things changed when they got to know him. I rarely hear those stories from men though, probably because men don't try to become friends with women who they don't find attractive. There was a whole thread about this on lsa, I thought it was cute.

Lets be honest ladies did you reject your current boo/hubby?

I can't find the one about ugly guys though.

Wish I could rep you babygirl.

 

[Mac Brown]

God and sex are not exclusive.

Marinate on that.

 

[GrindtooFilthy]

wait y'all talmbout being bad at sex but how the fukk can a nikka be wack at sex

 

[Chelsea Bridge]

When it comes to simply bedding the average woman like this thread discusses, all a man needs to do is not be so unattractive that she rejects him before he opens his mouth, and understand how to build sexual tension with that particular woman. It (sexual tension) is the button, and all women respond to it, whether they consciously want to hate you or love you.

Contrary to popular belief, men and women are both primal animals with primal urges, two of them being a tendency for lust, and the desire for sex. The men who have the most are the ones who know how to cultivate that, because it's 80% of the battle won. The only difference in the buttons being pushed is the difference in what manipulative angle an individual woman responds to in comparison to the next, and the knack for identifying it.

It's not a matter of who's "secure" and who isn't. That's pride talking. I've had multiple "secure" women that knew what I was doing when I approached her less attractive friend before acknowledging her existence. I've had a couple of females that claimed they couldn't stomach my existence and yet, she still ended up in my dorm room and in my twin bed because I (we) had properly festered sexual tension within our voliatile interactions. Both groups knew what was up but it didn't matter.


Women are infinitely smarter than men give them credit for when it comes to pursuing sex. They often DO know that they're being played or manipulated. But they are nowhere near as smart and strong willled as they like to think they are. A secure, aware, or conscious woman will know she's being coerced, manipulated and "gamed," just like the average insecure chick over 21 will, but if the guy and the time is right, she doesn't stand a chance because she wants to relieve that sexual tension just as badly as he does.


Any female that has ever bedded a man that they deeply regretted sleeping with a week later for whatever reason - be it that he was a jerk that she wouldn't piss on if he was on fire before they even slept together, or he was physically below the men she normally dealt with - can be mad about it, but they can't tell me that it's a lie.

Mother nature is undefeated.

Ok I can actually agree with this but as you get older the sexual tension doesn't have nearly as much control as least for me it doesn't. My conscious plays a greater role than anything else but I guess that attitude comes with maturity.

 

[Tunez]

Trash advice

 

[Vice Queen]

you on the same wave mentally
we in tune

they don't understand something's can't be changed

there someone for everyone
but these a lot of nikkas struggle when they find the ones they want don't want them



like i was saying doe

to be loved to be loved to be loved


*

I used to be like that. Pining away after guys who liked my best friend and Asian poontang and shyt but also stepping on the hearts of the ones who wanted me. So I built my confidence up, played to my strengths and accepted the fact none of this shyt really matters because people are a$$holes and we're all going to die.

 

[OG_StankBrefs]

God and sex are not exclusive.

Marinate on that.

Only thing I'm marinatin are dese fukkin pork chops I took out da freeza.

Save dat faux game shyt for dese otha simps panting up in dis mufukka, cuh. I'm good.

 

[PeridotPuss]

you on the same wave mentally
we in tune

they don't understand something's can't be changed

there someone for everyone
but these a lot of nikkas struggle when they find the ones they want don't want them



like i was saying doe

to be loved to be loved to be loved


*

Facts facts facts....facts facts facts

They won't hear you tho

 

[010101]

like forreal i don't get how nikkas be so mad at women
so much hate and bitterness




they been so good to me mane

if only all ya motherfukkers could see the softer side of womankind


i fukks with y'all nobody rides harder than a woman who loves you

you understand me¿

hear me out my brethren


cause if you find yourself on the other side of their goodwillthere is no mercy





the pain and the suffering of the loveless




dry willie nikkas be living through hell gawddamn*

 

[Kid McNamara]

It's a two way street. There's only so much rocking and bouncing and moaning and giving instructions one can do before they're better off masturbating.

Unless the dude is also a pillow princess.

I agree, it's more important for me to be good in bed. It's more important for me to be the leader and the teacher...all around.

The wisest men know that they don't know enough...

Iron sharpens iron.

I'm not going to take piano lessons from the bytch who only knows chopsticks when I have Rachmaninoff sitting at the bench ready to train me.

Aren't you white, breh?

Of course I use situation to my advantage when I can, but my question was pointed more towards black woman, in particular, because they are supposed to understand black men, but to me it often feels like they are in a different lane, just as most white folks are to black men.

So...you figure it out. That's your only option killa.

Oh ,I'm an a$$hole then because there are plenty of men I've grown to like but still, deep in the back of my mind, found them not quite attractive and I could only ignore that aspect for so long. You learn to look past it but I bet you that him being facially challenged is one of the first insults thrown in an argument.

And...we don't care. Men and women are not attracted to the same things.

No man meets your arbitrary list of standards and no man wants/needs to.

Only lame nikkas are walking around wanting to be randomly chosen. Being chosen (like that) isn't about a relationship or sex, it's about validation...and that's what women need...not men.