Peridot Cares: Step 1 - Early Stages

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To counter all this horseshyt being spread around.

The real question is, if you don't know what it's like to pick up a woman, how can you feel so free to comment on it? Again, this isn't a bad thing, it just is. Why go around trying to offer your opinion on subjects you have no clue about?

How can I teach Calculus if I've never passed Algebra I?



This. On point.



I have, but their accomplishments do not make them more attractive. If she look good, a bytch can work at McDonalds and get more attention than a Fortune 500 CEO. We don't value women for their accomplishments or their swagger.

That's the whole point.



For you it isn't, for us it absolutely is.

That's my whole point. Men create the attractiveness. Our confidence, our aura, our swagger, whatever you want to call it; that's what makes us the shyt.

Women just kind of stand around and look as good as they can. They don't actively build themselves up like men do. That's why y'all can't give advice on "attracting women."

Not a bad thing, it just is.
It seems like we're having two different conversations. I know men create attractiveness in different aspects which is why I said if a woman isn't attracted to a man's confidence, aura, swagger, etc the initial contact will be difficult.
 

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God bless her. She's pretty enough to have never had a guy tell her the truth.

The shyt she typing might be some of the most nonsensical garbage on this board.

:dame: you went the fukk in overnight dude

I've skimmed through your posts

And I've never approached a man? :heh: I got my first old head boyfriend by getting at him while I was with the young nikka I was tryna replace him with. He fukked with me off the fact I was too young to be so bold. I've never left a club without three numbers and that's not cause nikkas are so confident:dahell: when I dated online I was always on private so guess who always had to send a nikka the opener :leon:

Point is, you don't know my situation and the more you talk the less you seem to know about anything legit about women. You're well spoken and type with impact :heh: but it's like a hollerin ass preacher.....all gas. Your whole perspective is gonna be skewed because you a big nikka :whoa: no shade and you seem open about it but I don't think these nikkas should go around applying your big nikka logic, that's a different league

And the only basis that men seem to come up with for not listening to women as far as relationship advice is some misguided idea that the women are trying yo set them up for the okie doke. I'm sharing gems from the female world and you throwing a fukking tantrum all night why?:francis:

So you can rock with that borderline "bytches aint shyt I can get anything I want from them but all I want is the p*ssy" rhetoric if you want to but i think it's a defense mechanism and ultimately isn't leading to a whole lot of consistent p*ssy for the average dude :heh:

Also stop attacking people in this bytch, this isn't that type of thread:scusthov:
 
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PeridotPuss

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Like the thread and have heard interesting views from both sides here, but I have an inquiry for @PeridotPuss and the rest of the ladies who would be so kind to chip in...

I've read the importance of sex, and a man knowing what he's doing in the bedroom, however most ladies already know not every man will be so hot here.

What then? This seems like a catch-22; how yall women wanna man to already know what to do. And I only say this 'cause this hasn't bee brought up yet, also w/ @Kid McNamara replies regarding this specific topic going un-replied to (i.e. starfishing, etc)

So what if a dude, before the 1st time yall get intimate, str8 up says he doesn't know what he's doing, and asks for your help in helping him progress sexually so he can love u right. Genuinely receptive, no pride issues or anything like that. Whether he gets it right eventually isn't the point here, I'm talking before this would be determined. Is this what yall women expect in-lieu of sexual mastery?

Or does this take from the experience, and ultimately fall back under ole' girl resenting you and being dissatisfied? And just sticking to guys that already know what to do in the bedroom?

Yes the best policy is to be upfront about sexual inexperience, if a woman cares for you she will work with you but in won't lie and tell you she'll think it's sexy. She's going to focus on your other positive traits and pray you get better at sex.
 

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Yes the best policy is to be upfront about sexual inexperience, if a woman cares for you she will work with you but in won't lie and tell you she'll think it's sexy. She's going to focus on your other positive traits and pray you get better at sex.
that's not necessarily true. there are a lot of woman who like the idea of an inexperienced guy who they can show new thing and teach how to please a woman. It depends on your age though, it works when you're younger (i used to get a lot of good head by telling girls i'd never gotten a bj, they went in too, thinking it was my first time and wanting to make me remeber them for the rest of my life :lolbron:) but you'll probably look pathetic if you're 30 and still don't know what to do :manny:
 

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:myman: my general advice is the same for everyone - level the fukk up.

Never get complacent, set your terms and eat, but that's another thread for another day:whew:
What about any advice for dudes who are 6cert 6abs and 6%body fat who wanna retire from the game but from time to time get some side

Thanks
 

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Since alot of dudes seem to be hung up about the sex part of whats being said, I'll chime in on that.

Yes if you can lay the wood with any kind of decency your grip on a woman will be crazy. They will initially put up with all kind of BS simple because your good in bed. If you suck at sex....well hopefully you capture the womans heart before you get into the bed room. If a woman really likes you, she'll do her best to work with sex. If she feels that she loves you already winning, because even if your below average in the bed room the fact that she loves you is going to make sex that much better. You'd really really have to be bad to screw that up. And if your good she'll think your amazing.


It all depends on the chick though, some chicks need good sex, nothing extra just straight up good sex. Some chicks need good oral to even consider you a option, some aren't into it like that and others need a complete package. Its up to you to find out what that is, dont assume you killing it and she's thinking back to a ex or random hook up from years ago.



With that said dont worry or stress about sex when getting to know a chick, doesn't matter what she tells you. If she say's she needs to be upside to catch a Orgasm or a minimum of 1 hour before she can cum, dont even sweat it, be aware but when the time come don't go into it trying to full fill something that got her off in the past. Do your own thing and create your own way. Trust me on that fellas...
 
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