Im fine with this. Us men have done the same thing with women
As long as Im comfortable with being a side piece, I can play that role
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Im fine with this. Us men have done the same thing with women
As long as Im comfortable with being a side piece, I can play that role
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@PeridotPuss
u never really gave us the game yet
is it self improvement? dressing better? having money? being in shape? having personality ?
like whats the blue print
u never really gave us the game yet
is it self improvement? dressing better? having money? being in shape? having personality ?
like whats the blue print
Soooo much truth breh! Fast love by George Michael, please go listen to those lyrics. Not everyone is looking for a soulmate, but some make it too difficult to hit more than once. Like dang, that's it, no more goodiesIm fine with this. Us men have done the same thing with women
As long as Im comfortable with being a side piece, I can play that role
You're pretty
Jesus Shuttlesworth
I Got Game
I actually have to agree with some of this. 
As it pertains to initial attraction. When you meet a person, that initial energy that you give off, that's lasting. What do they say? First impression is the last impression or something. Only way you can get her after that is if you stick around like a sucka, being her "friend", and in that scenario she has you wrapped around her finger like the beta male you are.
Now about this alpha/beta shyt, that shyt is real. And that's that energy I'm talking about. There's a natural balance in life. The dominant male and submissive female. Now immature men ignorantly misinterpret these positions. And immature women ignorantly catch feelings over these positions. It's not about having control over your woman. And it's not about being a slave to your man. The alpha male controls himself. And the woman follows him because she chooses to.
Society has flipped things to where more and more men acting more like women and more and more women are acting like men. So I guess, there is a place for the beta male, right beside an alpha woman. But the beta male will always complain and bytch about women because their alpha female partner will use him and not respect him and he'll resent this. Beta men have low self esteem and need validation from women. That's why if they get rejected they get mad at the world, instead of seeing the value in themselves and just keep steppin. They tend to naturally be attracted to alpha women, the type who talk a lot of shyt and fukk their friends. bytch bad. Woman good. Lady better. They misunderstood.
Now as far as indifference goes, it's not about being indifferent for eternity, obviously it's not ALWAYS. There's a time for intimacy. And this is where we flip it. You been begging for my attention all day now I'm looking dead at you.
And any dude who gets p*ssy regularly has learned how to compliment a woman and make her smile. A wiser man knows to do it sporadically so not to smother her. Beta males smother. Because they need that validation.
Now when a beta male tries to implement alpha male strategies, results can be dangerous. Like trying to be cool in a heated situation but you'e not and then you lose your cool because you never cool in the first place.
I guess if these betas manned up they could flip the switch ad become real men. But when you put the p*ssy on a pedestal I guess you're asking to get whipped.
As it pertains to initial attraction. When you meet a person, that initial energy that you give off, that's lasting. What do they say? First impression is the last impression or something. Only way you can get her after that is if you stick around like a sucka, being her "friend", and in that scenario she has you wrapped around her finger like the beta male you are. Now about this alpha/beta shyt, that shyt is real. And that's that energy I'm talking about. There's a natural balance in life. The dominant male and submissive female. Now immature men ignorantly misinterpret these positions. And immature women ignorantly catch feelings over these positions. It's not about having control over your woman. And it's not about being a slave to your man. The alpha male controls himself. And the woman follows him because she chooses to.
Society has flipped things to where more and more men acting more like women and more and more women are acting like men. So I guess, there is a place for the beta male, right beside an alpha woman. But the beta male will always complain and bytch about women because their alpha female partner will use him and not respect him and he'll resent this. Beta men have low self esteem and need validation from women. That's why if they get rejected they get mad at the world, instead of seeing the value in themselves and just keep steppin. They tend to naturally be attracted to alpha women, the type who talk a lot of shyt and fukk their friends. bytch bad. Woman good. Lady better. They misunderstood.
Now as far as indifference goes, it's not about being indifferent for eternity, obviously it's not ALWAYS. There's a time for intimacy. And this is where we flip it. You been begging for my attention all day now I'm looking dead at you.
And any dude who gets p*ssy regularly has learned how to compliment a woman and make her smile. A wiser man knows to do it sporadically so not to smother her. Beta males smother. Because they need that validation.Now when a beta male tries to implement alpha male strategies, results can be dangerous. Like trying to be cool in a heated situation but you'e not and then you lose your cool because you never cool in the first place.
I guess if these betas manned up they could flip the switch ad become real men. But when you put the p*ssy on a pedestal I guess you're asking to get whipped. 
Look.
Level the fukk up. Period.
The aura you create around yourself when you live for God, success and loving yourself is untouchable.
It's all of the above but the issue is - IT CANNOT BE FAKED. that's the part of the game that's not a game
We are mammals/animals, we truly communicate non verbally, if you smell insecure, weak, lost....bytches won't want you aND neither them nor you will know why.
As black people we are wondrous, spectacular. Own it embody it. Spread love, let go. There is no recipe, there can be no better you than the real and best you.
But being cold to bytches isn't going to pull a rider, it's going to make you look like a bitter simp to women and other nikkas will tell you you're doing it right when you're doing it wrong
Also dikk game dikk game dikk game dikk game
if you nikkas don't stop beating your dikks and learn how to fukk bytches will play you for your lifetime
that's a promise. Bad dikk is the portal to getting dogged.
BmoreGorilla
Veteran
We'll never fully understand themWhy you married her?
:yulying:
ActuallyMy nikkaI love how we stay on diff sides of the fence. Break it down for me a bit more, I'm a lil lost. ...
We agree on most things. However, most of what was told was common knowledge to anyone who has struck out a few times.Straight facts 95% of the time. However, the best way to turn around that predicament is time, and falling back. I can't be the only guy who chasedThis is the hard truth is if she is NOT attracted to you there is NOTHING you can do to change that. NOTHING.
a woman, got the
but stayed cordial...then when she knows I have found someone else who wants to get on my team, her tune changes. Part of thatis when not in simp-mode, I treat a woman more like another dude...no pretense. I basically present myself differently, and now someone else wants me?
Its worked a few times, but it assumes a man is regularly around the other chick. Unfortunately, its usually temporary anyway. She gets what she wants?
Probably don't want it anymore. Or the opposite, the man found someone more interesting
True. I learned this by putting myself in the friendzone many times. They loved my personality and wanted me around, but didn't want me giving them goo-goo eyes when we chilled.Be cautious because women WILL deal with men they are NOT attracted to, but you will likely get the runaround at best. Just because she's responding DOESN'T mean she likes you.
One particular woman avoided speaking of anything sexual because she didn't want to remind me that I didn't wanna just be friends
Guys gotta learn when she enjoysthe company but don't want the D. Or them persistent ass cats who don't stop coming around, but get made fun of behind his back.
True. Folks don't have to believe me, but I have thrown away, on accident, a nice tally of women over the years...and I usually know right where I fukked up withinNow, IF she is attracted to you, it's your game to lose.And most nikkas figure our ways to lose quickly.
10 seconds of them leaving without giving me a number.
Fair enoughThat beta/alpha or whatever its called advice will have you fukked up, that gems on women thread will have you fukked up, you can smash with those tactics, on occassion, but you're only exposing yourself to insecure women who will not be an asset to your life as a young man. That's poor planning. I'm watching nikkas plot on how to stick their dikks in their downfall.
But thats cause most brehs are scared, hurt little shyts and take things to the extreme. I'm single for that reason. I know after getting my world rocked, I am a powder kegof making the next girl pay for the last girls demons. Not purposely, but my behavior just exudes callousness now. When my mind is right, I will walk into the bosom of a decent chick. So will
most dudes.
Facts. Unfortunately, it takes some women a LONG fukking time, hence us bytching and moaning about women staying with bad dudes. Unfortunately, we need to be mindful of when
we ourselves end up doing the same shyt.
Conditioning makes women feel they need to be important to men to be valuable. Your game isn't going to break that conditioning, it's only going to get people hurt when you start plucking at wounds and ultimately you will get less p*ssy in the long game.
Seems like in a way, that only really happens when women get older. Culture is kinda pushing the "be yourself" stuff so women can do and say what they want.Thats fine, though. As long as women understand that deep down, EVERY man wants to feel needed. Going on that "independent" trip is how you share that dikk.
We may complain about something like killing a spider or unclogging the toilet, but knowing we are trusted to assuage fears, we feel more connected to the investment.
However, I might debate the bold as often not true.
Ways nikkas (that a bytch actually likes) often fukk up include: trying to skirt around paying for dates/being cheap, failing to make intentions for the p*ssy clear or activate a woman's sexual side, trying too hard, juggling too many women (no matter how tight your game, we know, even if you don't think we know, we know), trying to cut her off and then get back..... and the classic getting caught in irrelevant lies.
Facts.
Breh, please further explain this tidbit. Did you mean pay you for a lifetime, or get over on you, for a lifetime?
Also dikk game dikk game dikk game dikk game
OG_StankBrefs
Da Spice...
Look.
Level the fukk up. Period.
The aura you create around yourself when you live for God, success and loving yourself is untouchable.
It's all of the above but the issue is - IT CANNOT BE FAKED. that's the part of the game that's not a game
We are mammals/animals, we truly communicate non verbally, if you smell insecure, weak, lost....bytches won't want you aND neither them nor you will know why.
As black people we are wondrous, spectacular. Own it embody it. Spread love, let go. There is no recipe, there can be no better you than the real and best you.
But being cold to bytches isn't going to pull a rider, it's going to make you look like a bitter simp to women and other nikkas will tell you you're doing it right when you're doing it wrong
Also dikk game dikk game dikk game dikk game
idk man, Im pretty real and it im not received well
Look.
Level the fukk up. Period.
The aura you create around yourself when you live for God, success and loving yourself is untouchable.
It's all of the above but the issue is - IT CANNOT BE FAKED. that's the part of the game that's not a game
We are mammals/animals, we truly communicate non verbally, if you smell insecure, weak, lost....bytches won't want you aND neither them nor you will know why.
As black people we are wondrous, spectacular. Own it embody it. Spread love, let go. There is no recipe, there can be no better you than the real and best you.
But being cold to bytches isn't going to pull a rider, it's going to make you look like a bitter simp to women and other nikkas will tell you you're doing it right when you're doing it wrong
Also dikk game dikk game dikk game dikk game
and your saying appearance and money dont matter either?
and as far as dikk game go, what if your dikk game suck but u treat your lady like a queen?