Personality deal breakers...

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It just makes me think if that lazy guy with no drive got puzzy and loyalty, then why do I have to be the tupac in a business suit :sas1:



I wouldn't put it that way, but I did list what I liked least about my ex. :yeshrug: it's not rocket science. You find things you don't like about someone, move on and try to do better next time.
 

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I remember this girl laughing about wanting to cut off someones fingers. She was so beautiful so it was difficult for me to let her go at first but when i thought about it a little more, it became easier so i let it go
 
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It just makes me think if that lazy guy with no drive got puzzy and loyalty, then why do I have to be the tupac in a business suit :sas1:

Where does this mythical tupac in a business suit keep coming from? Didn't you date a girl that had an abortion? Now you won't, correct? So you learned from your mistakes...some people learn sooner than later. Better to know now than 20 years from now when there are children involved.

Eta: I've dated a lazy man before. But I really thought he could do something with his life. He had a lot of potential and I tried to help him realize that. After all the effort I put into trying, I saw it was not reciprocated. I've learned my lesson, though. I can't drive people to do better, and I can't change anybody. There are things you can build on, but there has to be a foundation in the first place.
 
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Just let me axe you a brief question...


In what ways in your relationships are you being selfish?


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I think I would do certain things and not take the other persons feelings, or thoughts into account. Like hanging out with certain people, and doing certain things. Even though some of the people he introduced me to...but I could see where he was coming from in hindsight.
 

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Exactly some things show up after time. That same statement can be said about the men.
Exactly. And whether or not you choose to acknowledge it right away. I know I let it go for awhile thinking I could get over it//it's not that bad... but I learned to listen to my instincts better. 7 years later :skip:
 

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- Always has to be right
- Has a persecution complex that the world is against him
- Thinks that ignoring problems will make them go away
- Thinks he knows my feelings better than I do
- Encourages me to do irresponsible things
- Sense of entitlement

Just some problems I've encountered :yeshrug: I've never dated anyone truly awful though. :ehh:
 
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Exactly. And whether or not you choose to acknowledge it right away. I know I let it go for awhile thinking I could get over it//it's not that bad... but I learned to listen to my instincts better. 7 years later :skip:

Lol true. I have over looked some thing only to be mad at myself later on. There are a lot of factors that play into letting things slid. You live you learn. No one has only been involved with perfect people :heh:
 

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Locker room
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Selfish
Liar
Stuck up
Self centered
Mean
Jealous
Untrustworthy
Lazy
Boring
Can't hold a conversation
Has no interest
No sense of humor
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It just makes me think if that lazy guy with no drive got puzzy and loyalty, then why do I have to be the tupac in a business suit :sas1:
Heres the problem with your theory

For every lazy guy with no drive who gets p*ssy/loyalty, there are a thousand who don't get shyt. This is like saying everyone who plays basketball at UNC will have the success of Michael Jordan. It's idiotic. On average brehs with shyt going for them do better with women than brehs who don't... cherrypicking goofy exceptions just makes you look stupid.

My big turn off... someone with no sense of humor. Another one is someone who doesn't know anything. Like you reference an old song or TV show or something and they are :dwillhuh:
 
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