personality >>>> physical features?
- Thread starter Stankonia
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it just depends on what u want. dont marry a chick that has huge t*ts and a great ass and a pretty face, but is boring and dumb as fukk. if she cant make u laugh and think, just remember those looks are gonna fade someday and all she will have left is her personality.
thats true but sometimes u can see personality first. i knew my wife for years and always thought she was cute but nothing to go crazy over til i heard her speak. then she became a dime to me off personality alone.
the fear of being friendzoned keeps guys from trying to get to know these women before fukking lol i dont blame em. i been friendzoned a dozen times.
True. I absolutely love a woman with a great personality, a personality that can draw and reel you in..but since people cant be trusted anymore, and as you pointed out the friendzone is a fine line, who has time and money to spend getting to know a woman that will soon make a fool out of you. I dont blame cats for going for the ass first. You need insurance.
KinksandCoils
African American Queen
They go hand in hand. Let's be real most people aren't approaching people they think are ugly or hideous unless they are in an environment where they have to (school, work, etc) normally there has to be some sort of attraction. Personality out weighs looks for me. Looks do mean something though.
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The Realist Perspective
Superstar
That's because they usually don't have one. It's almost ALWAYS non existent or very bland...so we get what is actually appealing to us which is almost always the looks.
Ok, but does Character trump Personality or what?
See, a woman with a great character has strong moral fibre but may be dull and boring. A woman with a great personality could be fukkin every dikk within a 20 mile radius.
See, a woman with a great character has strong moral fibre but may be dull and boring. A woman with a great personality could be fukkin every dikk within a 20 mile radius.
rogue_riezo
Les Enfants Terribles
You still should have smashed. All the time and energy you put into it should have atleast got the chance to nut.
It's a package deal if you're looking to wife or make her your girl, in my experience p*ssy don't talk back so if a girl looks good and has the personality of a plank I'd still sleep with her.
R.E.N. Spells Ren
Veteran
This pretty much sums it up.
A chick need only be attractive, after that threshold, looks is to the back burner when it comes to a relationship. And I mean pretty much any relationship outside of a one night stand. Even if we're just fukking, if she has a shytty attitude or is a drag to be around, she's getting her fine ass thrown to the bushes
If you look at many successful marriages one person could have done better in terms of looks than the other.
Attraction opens the door though .
Attraction opens the door though .
Speak on the bolded please
Rocket Scientist
Superstar
I need me a 7.She gotta have a personality no doubt about it.
she was in the backseat of my car talking to her parents on the way to the airport. spoke to them with an amount of respect, love and affection that i have never heard from a woman that age. every female i ever met before her always had problems with one parent or both. or they would always speak to their parents like they are annoying as fukk.
struck the right chord with me and matched what i was looking for at the time.