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[Action Mike]

then you don't trust her

Brehs are going to do what they are supposed to, if your girl is attractive the first chance those nikkas get they would hit.

The only circumstance were a breh and gal are friends is if they is no mutual sexual attraction at all and plausible regular interest like school.

Outside that a gang of single male acquaintances around my attractive girl all the time?

I'm good.

 

[LEEeveryday]

Do you get the "good morning" text?

Do you have to text or contact her first?

Does she give you one word responses?

Does she ask you any questions about yourself?

If your answer is, no...to any of these questions,...you, my friend, are in the friend-zone.

 

[karim]

Brehs are going to do what they are supposed to, if your girl is attractive the first chance those nikkas get they would hit.

The only circumstance were a breh and gal are friends is if they is no mutual sexual attraction at all and plausible regular interest like school.

Outside that a gang of single male acquaintances around my attractive girl all the time?

I'm good.

if she would let one of her friends hit while she's in a relationship with you, she will cheat on you anyways, regardless of how many friends she keeps around, unless you lock her in a basement somewhere. if i can't trust her, i'm not going to be in a relationship her. if i trust her and it turns out she's a cheater, i chose the wrong girl and will have to take my l and move on i'm not going to worry about something i can't control.

 

[Arishok]

why worry about them setting him up if you know he is not going to cheat? If you can trust him, he is going to tell these girls "I got a girl" if they try anything.

It's not just about cheating, phony people can set you up in other ways. Plus if I recognize my man got phony friends, why would I just sit back and let him continue hanging with them.

 

[Draje]

I forgot to say this in my original post, the logic is simple:
Most woman have a ranked list of guys they are seeing. There is the number one they want and back up options they keep around in case number one doesn't work out. If you're number one, than things are easy and straightforward. She's going to meet up with you whenever you ask, she's going to hit you up by herself and she is not going to curve you when you make a move. If you're not number one, things are more complicated. She will keep you around but how far she will let you go, how much time she will spend with you and how often she will hit you up depends on how high you are ranked on her list. She will spend as much time and energy on you as is necessary to keep you around and interested until she finds out if things are going to work out with number one. Depending on her moral believes she might sleep with you, but she will not commit. If she get's her number one, she will go cold on you, unless she is one of those girls who thrive on male attention, then she will keep teasing you, because she loves to be pursued. If number one chooses somebody else or fukks up (although you really have to put effort into fukking up if you're number one) you will move up the list.

Of course there are exceptions to the rule, but from my experience, this is how it normally works. And another thing that my experience taught me is that you do not want to stick around if you're not number one, because it leads to frustration more often than not.

Breh, you sound like you a straight gem dropper.

 

[Action Mike]

if she would let one of her friends hit while she's in a relationship with you, she will cheat on you anyways, regardless of how many friends she keeps around, unless you lock her in a basement somewhere. if i can't trust her, i'm not going to be in a relationship her. if i trust her and it turns out she's a cheater, i chose the wrong girl and will have to take my l and move on i'm not going to worry about something i can't control.

True. You can't worry about things you can't control, but you can look at factors for L's.

 

[Arishok]

True. You can't worry about things you can't control, but you can look at factors for L's.

Right and it's also about respect. If you continue to let people flirt with your SO even if you trust them and know they won't cheat, your letting the person straight up disrespect you. How can you say you my man's friend and sending him hearts and kiss faces knowing he got a girl. Would she be cool with another girl sending her man that? No.

I felt disrespected by that and if I keep letting it slide simply because I know he won't cheat, it still doesn't change how I feel

And if she a real friend to him she be like "my bad bruh" but if she ain't then I'll see that and handle it accordingly.

 

[Gorilla Pimp]

Split breh, she ain't feeling you that way.

You auxiliary dikk.

 

[PeridotPuss]

I forgot to say this in my original post, the logic is simple:
Most woman have a ranked list of guys they are seeing. There is the number one they want and back up options they keep around in case number one doesn't work out. If you're number one, than things are easy and straightforward. She's going to meet up with you whenever you ask, she's going to hit you up by herself and she is not going to curve you when you make a move. If you're not number one, things are more complicated. She will keep you around but how far she will let you go, how much time she will spend with you and how often she will hit you up depends on how high you are ranked on her list. She will spend as much time and energy on you as is necessary to keep you around and interested until she finds out if things are going to work out with number one. Depending on her moral believes she might sleep with you, but she will not commit. If she get's her number one, she will go cold on you, unless she is one of those girls who thrive on male attention, then she will keep teasing you, because she loves to be pursued. If number one chooses somebody else or fukks up (although you really have to put effort into fukking up if you're number one) you will move up the list.

Of course there are exceptions to the rule, but from my experience, this is how it normally works. And another thing that my experience taught me is that you do not want to stick around if you're not number one, because it leads to frustration more often than not.

Straight facts! !!!!!!!!!

 

[semtex]

This is what happens when you chase after this temporary short life rather than eternal Paradise. This life is like your shadow, you chase after it, it runs away from you, you run away from it (chase after the afterlife) and this life comes running to you. It's all up to Almighty God.

Does God print out all your posts and put them on his fridge?

 

[The Devil's Advocate]

I let it be know off rip that I'm not looking for new friends with women...but It's one I never really had that conversation with yet. We hit concerts ups and dope DJ sets around town. I paid for one of them, but we usually goes dutch. She's attractive, so I've took my shot a couple of times with suble curves as a result. So I asked her today, just to be clear, "We are just friends, right...nothing past that stage..." Why didn't I get a clear answer. I feel like with a clear response I can get the perks of using the attractive friend to get other girls. Coli brehettes, what's the logic behind this lack FZ commitment.

YOU ARE BEING USED

women do this all the fukking time

they meet a guy they like (as friends), who does a lot more for them (cause he wants more)... she knows it... but she knows if she says "nah you never getting nothing" that you'll take your time and money and friendship, over to the next woman

so she keeps it flirty and vague... just enough to keep you coming back... but definitely not enough to get so much as a kiss out of her



if she can't be 100 and tell you what it is...... it's bullshyt

 

[FreddyCalhoun]

YOU ARE BEING USED

women do this all the fukking time

they meet a guy they like (as friends), who does a lot more for them (cause he wants more)... she knows it... but she knows if she says "nah you never getting nothing" that you'll take your time and money and friendship, over to the next woman

so she keeps it flirty and vague... just enough to keep you coming back... but definitely not enough to get so much as a kiss out of her



if she can't be 100 and tell you what it is...... it's bullshyt

You have to get something outta me to be used...I've spent no time on this broad beside texting....

I honestly wanted her to say we just cool so I can scam on the crew....

Of course she didn't answer,...and text me Good Morning today.....which I never get....

Long story short., next time I see her at the bar....
I'm going all in on her homegirls. Cause they be bad....

Sides eyes and all....

 

[The Devil's Advocate]

You have to get something outta me to be used...I've spent no time on this broad beside texting....

I honestly wanted her to say we just cool so I can scam on the crew....

Of course she didn't answer,...and text me Good Morning today.....which I never get....

Long story short., next time I see her at the bar....
I'm going all in on her homegirls. Cause they be bad....

Sides eyes and all....

Breh you just said you hit up concerts. And dope DJ sets.


That's TIME spent. Time you could have spent with a woman who actually wanted to be your lady

Time spent that some other nikka don't give her. Cause he probably fukking her while watches Netflix at 2am



This goes directly to that other thread. Women asking why dudes think women fukk one guy and date another

This is why. If she could combine your efforts with him, you wouldn't even have a friend



I'm not trying to be mean. It's real shyt. Women will have a man for every need they have


And yes. Do the last part. Treat her like a male friend from now on. Daps and all that. But he Don Juan to her friends. She'll show her hands

 

[FreddyCalhoun]

Breh you just said you hit up concerts. And dope DJ sets.


That's TIME spent. Time you could have spent with a woman who actually wanted to be your lady

Time spent that some other nikka don't give her. Cause he probably fukking her while watches Netflix at 2am



This goes directly to that other thread. Women asking why dudes think women fukk one guy and date another

This is why. If she could combine your efforts with him, you wouldn't even have a friend



I'm not trying to be mean. It's real shyt. Women will have a man for every need they have


And yes. Do the last part. Treat her like a male friend from now on. Daps and all that. But he Don Juan to her friends. She'll show her hands

You sound hurt dog.... I ask her to go to concerts because most broads I mess with don't know who Immortal Technique & Run The Jewels are, and we have a dope time, no fukking required. You have a lot of repressed anger towards women breh...You might want to get that check out for real.

 

[Soundbwoy]

Young..I've done everything but smash...I like hanging out with her especially at concerts and she flirts and get low key jealous. Just come out and say we JUST cool...I hate gray areas. It's not like I breaking bread or going the extra mile.

if she says just friends keep her around as a wingman, thank me later