“Playing house” without defining the relationship>>>>

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Breh, I'm LIVING that shyt.

My lady and I have known each other for 17 years, and been together for 12. We JUST got engaged last year, and probably aren't getting married any time soon. We used the cash we would've used for the wedding as a down payment on a home instead, and I refuse to eat a bunch of unnecessary debt for a wedding. It wasn't that difficult to pull off once I realized that shyt wasn't that complicated, and expressed to her that wedding ring or not, staying together and faithful is still the same conscious choice.

Why you talking about marriage. If I’m in a normal relationship, and I like my girl but still have one foot in the “playa” life. But I also “sometimes” like to have my girl with me. It’s a want a girl, when I want a girl, but when I don’t want a girl I want a girl who understands that.

You are talking about a wedding. Which is irrelevant to this. Y’all could have been got your marriage license. That is not what that lyric was about in the context that I was posting it.
 

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That be gen z and young millennials (excluding myself of course :queen:) with their dumb asses and poor communication skills.

I dunno, I see it with people my age group as well. People doing everything people in a relationship do, but don’t want to define it because they’re “scared” or don’t want the expectations of a relationship is some of the most immature shyt people do. People in their 30s doing this shyt lol.
 

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It’s all fun and games until she start documenting dates and times of you calling her “wifey” in front of others (witnesses). She has her address changed at the post office. Have fun trying to kick her out when she has established residence and common law status, meaning she can walk her ass right down to the courthouse and start basically the same divorce proceedings….. if she’s smart. Y’all might want to start reading the laws instead of the blogs and Coli.
 

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I don't get people haivng kids, living together and everything but getting married. At that point you're common law anyway so you might as well.
 

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I dunno, I see it with people my age group as well. People doing everything people in a relationship do, but don’t want to define it because they’re “scared” or don’t want the expectations of a relationship is some of the most immature shyt people do. People in their 30s doing this shyt lol.

could be a cultural thing but I've seen old folks who been together 20+ yrs and get married and do a wedding in they 50s
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prob did it to share health insurance and stuff like that I guess
 

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Great for the man.

But very foolish for women. Women should force men to define the relationship and have an ultimatum time table.

This set up is an off brand ,kids version of being righteously attached:martin:
 

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Nah man. I’ve had chicks pull that with me and then they catch feelings. I’m the need to be in a relationship guy though lol. I stopped trusting that shyt though
 

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Right?!?

He's "single" without the actual freedom


nikkas with nothing to lose and not much access to quality p*ssy love playing house with shawty

The amount of liabilities, shift of assets, lack of privacy/boundaries, potential of shawty leveraging sexual access for xyz…nope

I’ll only live with a shawty if we’re about to get married within the next year or so
 

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Great for the man.

But very foolish for women. Women should force men to define the relationship and have an ultimatum time table.

This set up is an off brand ,kids version of being righteously attached:martin:

Women without married fathers.
 

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Thats how kids turn on one of their parents. One of them gonna be telling the kids the parent ain't shyt. It's a sick cycle because nikkas wanna bake cakes and play house with a woman they aren't serious with.

Takes more effort to be honest up front but the payoff for lying gonna come with interest.......
You have no wisdom for the youth clown fukk outta here.
 
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