Please Do Not Neglect Your Mental Health

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Being able to handle insecurity or powerlessness is a big thing to.

When something makes you upset, or feel bad, do get angry and hit stuff? attack people? Make fun of other people?

Or do you process things maturely? A lot of people are stunted emotionally and tend to lash out when things are wrong instead of properly figuring out solutions to it or getting help. Sadly this happens to men the most.
 

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i know the feeling of being so emotionally raw that you lose complete control of yourself and your thinking. it’s even worse when people decide not to take the situation serious or offer help. at least you did all you could, most would just call him crazy and not try to understand the deeper trauma
His bro died a few years back due to gun violence in the same city so I feel breh pain.

I just wish he talked to me when nikkas tried, let nikkas kno what was bothering him
 

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That advice is lost here. Dudes were laughing at that man crying in his car at work. Calling him weak, lazy... Most people will never empathize with mental struggles until they actually live it. We have a long way to go to shake the stigma of "crazy" people. Most times when you have a mental illness you don't get nearly as much consideration as having a physical ailment. No days off, hard to get treatment. People think you are selfish, weak and even annoying.

Mental health issues are still highly misunderstood and thus the response to people going through it is inconsiderate on average. Time for change. When you see someone isolating themselves they usually depressed.
This x1000. And theres no fix.

Ive come to realize at 30 almost 31 that you really need to go theough shyt to become a better person. Theres no substitute.

No book or meditation, or advice, none of it truly helps. Its like the saying you cant change em til they are ready to change.

Its very hard to grasp or empathize how it feels with mental health unless 1) youve gone through it or 2) youve gone theough it recently.

I have to remind ppl all the time once they get out of a bad spot to not judge the other person harshly cuz they are up right now.

Emotions/mental are tough. You can go through something so life overtaking then a year later not even remember how it felt
 

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That advice is lost here. Dudes were laughing at that man crying in his car at work. Calling him weak, lazy... Most people will never empathize with mental struggles until they actually live it. We have a long way to go to shake the stigma of "crazy" people. Most times when you have a mental illness you don't get nearly as much consideration as having a physical ailment. No days off, hard to get treatment. People think you are selfish, weak and even annoying.

Mental health issues are still highly misunderstood and thus the response to people going through it is inconsiderate on average. Time for change. When you see someone isolating themselves they usually depressed.
x100

I think people have to understand, people really dont care for others or lack empathy like that when it comes to mental health often
 
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I think people have to understand, people really dont care for others like that, once you realize that you actually are better off
He was sayin the same shyt tho

I feel like to an extent sayin nobody care bout u be a lil bit like a cop out
 

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I’m fukked up rn I ain’t even gon hold u bra

But I’m tryin not to beat myself up, nikkas tried to contact him multiple times

Last time I talked to him he told me he was Comin to my city, I told bro hit me so we can link

Next day he hits me clearly checkin for an argument

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It’s a lil unnerving, what if I linked wit bro and he went off the rails and geeked on me?

Lots of shyt runnin thru my mind, feel awful for the families.
From the looks he felt disrespected by your advances :dame::dame:
 

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He was sayin the same shyt tho

I feel like to an extent sayin nobody care bout u be a lil bit like a cop out
Your friend is tweakin and I'm praying for you bro, but in the same token we as a society got a long way to go with mental health. Alot of ppl do actually lack empathy. I'm a believer that you never know what someone is going through, cant judge
 

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You say he killed another man was it a random person? A minute away from you? Do you feel he was coming to you next?

Has he been arrested?

Blk shooter, blk victim?
 

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You say he killed another man was it a random person? A minute away from you? Do you feel he was coming to you next?

Has he been arrested?

Blk shooter, blk victim?
Allegedly yea bra, they sayin he allegedly shot into a random crowd multiple times

Killed a 36 year old white man, yea he got arrested and yea he black

And tbh idk bra, that’s what’s chilling, I don’t think he was gon come for me or nun but I’m mad naive; if I knew he was out here I woulda linked wit him. Nobody knew why bruh pulled up
 

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Allegedly yea bra, they sayin he allegedly shot into a random crowd multiple times

Killed a 36 year old white man, yea he got arrested and yea he black

And tbh idk bra, that’s what’s chilling, I don’t think he was gon come for me or nun but I’m mad naive; if I knew he was out here I woulda linked wit him. Nobody knew why bruh pulled up

Smfh no words

People who attack random people are too far gone
 
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