Poll: Do You Approach Women In Public?

[ApolloStark]

Dope ass thread....

I still do it, and to be honest I don't need anymore indication than eye contact, even if its for a split second. The key is not to hesitate, and like a few other nikkas have said, keep the convo light, friendly, and most importantly, look for any avenue to make a joke. You get a chick laughing within a couple mins and half the battle is won...

Case in point, approached a shorty a couple days ago and tbh I can't even remember the intro but I do remember her saying "that's the best approach any guy has made on me in I don't know how long"

Another key is to keep the convo related to something about her, maybe her shoes, clothes, have a common theme, and just play on it. And keep the dialogue brief (longer you talk to homegirl the more chance there is you're gonna say something that makes her go )

Do hate those shorties who pass the number but then act like fools when you holla. Need to up that strikerate

 

[karim]

no. i need to know more about a woman than what she looks like for her to raise my interest

 

[Blackrogue]

If she's beautiful I will 80 percent of the time.

It's only awkward if you don't know how to do it. Try get the smallest opening then run with it. Another key is reading people to know who's open to you and who's not. You can approach women and calibrate your aggression depending on the situation.

And btw? Isn't any time you are out and about with an opportunity to meet women public? You won't get another chance to meet the girl so put your bid in. If you think you will see her around because you are generally in the same space you can tactically delay the meet.

If I'm single I Def holla. The fact that 50 percent of the population according to the poll isn't trying to talk to girls in public straight out cuts my competition into half. In real life I see an even bigger percentage that doesn't holler.

 

[beezy]

When the Henny's in the system, ain't no tellin

 

[Blackrogue]

How do you choose who you will approach?
How do you let her know you want to approach?
If she is walking, do you stop her?
Are you straight to the point or beating around the bush?


I never know if a guy wants to approach. They either come out of nowhere or they are staring at me, but not smiling so I don't know if he wants to approach me or kill me.

I think people either don't know how to do it cause they don't have enough practice or you have people who are doing it as a numbers game.

I do it if I find someone especially attractive to me and I don't think I'll see her somewhere.
It's all about exchanging cues. Eye signals or whatever. Or exchanging intent that you are interested.

I think how it happens is dynamic. There's many variables to the circumstance you find the girl in and many variables in how aggressive or indirect you can be. I also try and find information on what sort of person she is. I'm not in it just to impress her. So I'm actually in the convo for a purpose.

If the girl is unreasonably rude maybe you approached her wrong or she's not a nice person and at least you got to know quick before you wasted time.

But yeah I approach new people all the time when I'm single until I like one very specifically more than the others and I give that time

 

[Blackrogue]

That's a video. These YouTube pickup videos are always BS or planned encounters. What woman is going be her authentic self when she knows cameras are running? Little to none.

I don't watch these things because the camera skews stuff but having known about pick up stuff I know these things are doable and I've done them myself. The especially helpful stuff is is the naturally occurring type things that you'd do whether you knew technique or not. But now you are more aware what exactly is going on.
Also the repetition helps. Trains you to calibrate, pick up cues and give cues in ways you don't even realise.

It is possible to be much better at this whole approaching women thing. You then realise things were harder in your mind than actual reality. In actual reality approaching and getting girls is easy. When I was practicing without even being really truly involved in hitting on women I made out with seventy something women in a year. Without even trying cause I was fukking around reality testing on approaches

 

[Blackrogue]

Atleast you trying...slow down on the approach and think about what you're doing wrong. See how confident this breh is? Follow his lead

Actually just watched tthis video and it'd play out the same way whether the camera was there or not. The second girl he was too quick to get number and his emphasis is too much on numbers. When you don't emphasise numbers is when you get them if you do it as a by the way. Like text me the details of blah blah later. A lot of his moving around, physical contact and what not is intentional too. He's masking everything by being casual.. etc.
But yeah that video wasn't a scam.

 

[eufemism]

Used to when i was younger but I need to start again. No excuse not to. Say a few words, a joke or two then ask for the number. She either says yes or no (the no's feel way worse than just a word tho).

your avi always gets me

 

[Geek Nasty]

I got rejected 5 times yesterday
I got rejected once at wal mart once. At the Kroger parking lot, once at the pool and twice by the girls working at chipotle


- blackierobinson

Keep shooting, Kobe!

Chipotle's got some fine ass pawgs down here. Sneaking out all those red beans and rice got them plumped up

 

[jeh]

Lazy mfers

 

[CHICAGOrilla]

I approach, why not? Why aint y'all approaching girls? It's fun as hell, but its nothing like the feeling of a girl scoping you out then approaching you saying some weird irrelevant shyt just so she can get a chance at the d

 

[DarkHorse23]

then you're gonna be rusty forever

 

[Sccit]

ALL U GOTTA DO IS ACCIDENTALLY BRUSH UP ON EM AND RUB THEIR PUSY AS U DO IT

 

[Tenchi Ryu]

I don't honestly. There are times where a girl might be subtly telling me "hey stupid I want your attention" by asking me stuff about my dreads, but otherwise its usually always from natural flow. Like being in the store and I'll be like "damn this ___ is high" and she'll laugh and respond. Or even the opposite where I comment on something that was said or done with a "I know right".

But it's always just a natural flow, I never really go in thinking "I'm about to holla at this chick".

 

[Stone]

Nah, I usually don't talk to randoms. I gotta really be feeling it to do that.

Most of the time I just feel stupid