Not without permission... If he has actual feelings, she off limits... Otherwise its considered disrespect... We dont betray each other over p*ssy...
Poll: Is It OK To Date Your Homeboy's EX?
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NO NO I wouldn't even sneak a quick fukk in women run they MOUTHS too damn much she will tell and it'll get back to him. men take secrets to the GRAVE!!!
Ive seen shyt storms happen from this
Even if he said it was cool I still wouldn't do it
Ive seen shyt storms happen from this
Even if he said it was cool I still wouldn't do it
151_Pr00f
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not necessarily soul mate but in other words someone he's willing to tie the knot with and settle down. Is it still a violation of honor?
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If you're a real friend you would ask your folks if it's cool if you knock down his ex.
But dating a friend's ex should always be a no. Who does that shyt?
But dating a friend's ex should always be a no. Who does that shyt?
Nah that's fine. I thought you meant he would hit his homeboy with "I'm sorry I cant control myself, the universe wants me to fukk your ex
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So many factors at play.
- How/why did the relationship end? Amicable terms? Did one party get dogged out? If the brehette in this case was the one that fouled up, that's the only red flag you need.
Be honest, was your breh an ain't shyt nikka to her?
- How long ago after the end of the relationship? Has the breh found him somebody else? Is he still hurting over the end? Still holding on to feelings?
- Is the chick putting the full-court press on you? Or are you just trying to see what all the fuss was about? Or is she just trying to get you in her because she's hurt over what your boy did?
- Is your friendship strong enough to handle it? Like, yeah, asking for permission is "ideal" I guess, but all of y'all grown, and to keep it a buck ... there are really no rules to this game. All people do is what they can live with doing to get what they are after, damn the consequences. Some people are savages, some are soulless. Some have honor and a sense of morals. To some people, getting the green light makes it okay. To others, the mere THOUGHT of trying to step to her shows that y'all were never really boys in the first place.
- How/why did the relationship end? Amicable terms? Did one party get dogged out? If the brehette in this case was the one that fouled up, that's the only red flag you need.
Be honest, was your breh an ain't shyt nikka to her?
- How long ago after the end of the relationship? Has the breh found him somebody else? Is he still hurting over the end? Still holding on to feelings?
- Is the chick putting the full-court press on you? Or are you just trying to see what all the fuss was about? Or is she just trying to get you in her because she's hurt over what your boy did?
- Is your friendship strong enough to handle it? Like, yeah, asking for permission is "ideal" I guess, but all of y'all grown, and to keep it a buck ... there are really no rules to this game. All people do is what they can live with doing to get what they are after, damn the consequences. Some people are savages, some are soulless. Some have honor and a sense of morals. To some people, getting the green light makes it okay. To others, the mere THOUGHT of trying to step to her shows that y'all were never really boys in the first place.
Hell no
If you outright ask and get permission.
It matters how long they dated and how close a friends you are/were, but ultimately it will result in you and your homeboy not being as close if not ending the friendship UNLESS you ask and square it all away before hand.
It matters how long they dated and how close a friends you are/were, but ultimately it will result in you and your homeboy not being as close if not ending the friendship UNLESS you ask and square it all away before hand.
I do have a question for all the brehs saying no. Just playing devil's advocate. 
If YOUR ex's friend stepped to you trying to cuff or smash after you and her brehette broke up, would you still be as adamant about the no?
If YOUR ex's friend stepped to you trying to cuff or smash after you and her brehette broke up, would you still be as adamant about the no?
Depends on circumstances. keep in mind classic female fukkery is to get with her ex's best friend to rub it in his face. Got to make sure he tossed her in the bushes and gives zero fukks.
If he still wants her or can't stand being around her then
EDIT: one of the WORST violations of Man Law I ever saw was my freshman year in college. Nerdy breh goes to college with his highschool sweetheart and she's hanging in the all-male dorms just about every day with us. She's starts flirting with an "upgrade" and after a few months, dumps nerdy breh for this dude who gave zero fukks about anything but regular p*ssy. So, dude has to sit with us in the dorm lounge every damn day while his high school GF is hugged up on a dude who talks shyt on her the second she's out the room.
Man, seeing that dude transition through all kinds of emotions over that semester.
If he still wants her or can't stand being around her then
EDIT: one of the WORST violations of Man Law I ever saw was my freshman year in college. Nerdy breh goes to college with his highschool sweetheart and she's hanging in the all-male dorms just about every day with us. She's starts flirting with an "upgrade" and after a few months, dumps nerdy breh for this dude who gave zero fukks about anything but regular p*ssy. So, dude has to sit with us in the dorm lounge every damn day while his high school GF is hugged up on a dude who talks shyt on her the second she's out the room.
Man, seeing that dude transition through all kinds of emotions over that semester.
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Marco Zen
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Thanks to the lawyers uh, I marbled the foyer
Put yourself in your homeboy's shoes.
You bushed the chick and your potna keeps bringing her around
You bushed the chick and your potna keeps bringing her around
I can't fukk with a woman who has fukked people I know. Just a thing for me. So no, but if everyone is cool with it, fine I guess. You don't own women, especially after you are no longer with them. I wouldnt risk my friendship over something that isnt really a big deal but knowing it will made to be one.