Curl Quest DIY
1 hour ago
I’m very proud of the way all three of you young men from the DailyRapUpCrew handled this conversation. You all made very valid& true points in the face of Umar Johnson’s pandering to black ignorance. Similar to the Democratic politicians, I think this is how he keeps his donations & speaking engagements coming in. Im beginning to think that he is nothing more than an instrument/agent to keep his pockets lined with cash off of the confusion & delusion of non-accountability in the black community.
The fact is that you all are correct that many women in our community choose men who are not qualified or even looking to be husbands or fathers, and they consider responsible men of good character, who want a wife & family, to be “LAMES”. This is the number one problem in our community. They then go on to make b*stard babies & we celebrate & bail them out in this NONSENSE. I personally do not attend or support b*stard baby showers any more. Also, it is a detriment to the community to continue to expect “good black men” to take up the slack for fatherless children in the community, when it was their mothers who made them fatherless, by choosing to lay down & award the POOKIE & ray rays for foolishness, or even just men who do not want to commit to them. A good man has jurisdiction of protection & providing resources, structure & discipline ONLY to the woman who he has chosen to marry & the children of that union. Beyond that, he can be expected to team up with other men who have similar jurisdiction, to provide protection & provision for their families together, for the community, as needed. Nothing will change if the loose women in our community, who believe they “don’t need no man”, & refuse to make themselves wifable, & then to marry before they carry, are not held accountable. This is what perpetuates the vicious cycle. Why should good, responsible black men & women’s households be depleted of the man’s presence, energy, & resources to bail out baby mama’s & their b*stards??? That is counterproductive! We should instead uplift & applaud those who are making good decisions, & instruct the others to follow suit.