DatNkkaCutty
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Early on when I got w/ wifey, had ran into an acquaintance from a previous job. Bad ass Dominican jawn I was on at the time. Real good-girl type of chick. You could tell, she wanted the right type of dude, to unleash that bad side in her...
Now at the time I worked w/ this jawn, I was dealin w/ another female at the job (plus the Dominican jawn had a man that worked w/ us at the job too). Although he was a square type dude, (he was cool/wit an innocent attitude)...so I decided not to disrespect, by low-key baggin his girl...
To be clear, she wanted me to...but because of our situations (moreso hers), it wasn't the time, so I fell back.
Fast forward a few years...now I'm wit my lady. I run into the Dominican jawn, solo at the mall...
I follow my instincts, and immediately jump down...
Plus I hadn't seen her for a couple years, and she lookin even thicker, even sexier...
She tells me she single now...I fraud about my situation...
and we exchange #s.
A few days later, I line it up, and we chill. Now at the time...I'm fresh into a relationship, but still keepin in contact w/ the sides. I would always let my phone turn off (not pay the bill)...and get up w/ broads. I would get away w/ it initially, but my lady started getting hip to not bein able to get ahold of me...
and decided to add me to her plan, to circumvent the BS.
So at that point I tightened up and would never hit sides off the phone (in case she checked the bill). This was around the time, text apps first dropped, and no one was hip yet. Anyway I never hit broads off the phone, but for some reason...I had to make the call to meet this Dominican broad off this phone. One time/only time literally. Hundreds of other times, never using the phone.
I meet up wit o girl and we go on a lil date. All the vibes are there...
Normally I go for the kill first nite, but I knew I had her in the bag already, so I'd catch the cheeks next go round (thank god). On the date, we end up taking her car. We left mine in a parking lot. It's a week nite (which is not uncommon for me to be out on occasionally), but for some reason...my lady is blowin me more than usual as I'm heading to get my car...
I drop the calls til I can get alone...then hit her back and tell her I'm around the corner..."Be there shortly". She hits me wit the "Yea aite". I can tell her vibes are off though...but whatever...I'm home in 10 mins.
I enter the house...wifey sittin on the couch w/ her robe on and rings on all her fingers....
My lady don't even wear no mafukkin rings (so I know...here comes the BS)...
She tells me, she knows I was on a date...and she already hit the bytch up as I was drivin home, so I couldn't get my story together (now it's mental gymnastics for a minute to find out...how much she knows)...
Luckily, o girl didn't say we were on a date...and said were just cool. Wifey aint hearing that of course...so I'm immediately
I try to leave out...she immediately proceeds to hookin off...
Tried to hit the door and she catches me wit a good one to the back of the dome...dropped me...
I get up...yoke her up and calm her down...
She eventually calms down and we just argue the rest a the nite. Long story short...I overcome the situation...but always keep it in the back of the head as a reminder. Never get too comfy and get caught slippin...
EDIT - I loss the Dominican jawn too of course....

Now at the time I worked w/ this jawn, I was dealin w/ another female at the job (plus the Dominican jawn had a man that worked w/ us at the job too). Although he was a square type dude, (he was cool/wit an innocent attitude)...so I decided not to disrespect, by low-key baggin his girl...

To be clear, she wanted me to...but because of our situations (moreso hers), it wasn't the time, so I fell back.
Fast forward a few years...now I'm wit my lady. I run into the Dominican jawn, solo at the mall...

I follow my instincts, and immediately jump down...



A few days later, I line it up, and we chill. Now at the time...I'm fresh into a relationship, but still keepin in contact w/ the sides. I would always let my phone turn off (not pay the bill)...and get up w/ broads. I would get away w/ it initially, but my lady started getting hip to not bein able to get ahold of me...

So at that point I tightened up and would never hit sides off the phone (in case she checked the bill). This was around the time, text apps first dropped, and no one was hip yet. Anyway I never hit broads off the phone, but for some reason...I had to make the call to meet this Dominican broad off this phone. One time/only time literally. Hundreds of other times, never using the phone.
I meet up wit o girl and we go on a lil date. All the vibes are there...


I drop the calls til I can get alone...then hit her back and tell her I'm around the corner..."Be there shortly". She hits me wit the "Yea aite". I can tell her vibes are off though...but whatever...I'm home in 10 mins.
I enter the house...wifey sittin on the couch w/ her robe on and rings on all her fingers....


She tells me, she knows I was on a date...and she already hit the bytch up as I was drivin home, so I couldn't get my story together (now it's mental gymnastics for a minute to find out...how much she knows)...

Luckily, o girl didn't say we were on a date...and said were just cool. Wifey aint hearing that of course...so I'm immediately

I try to leave out...she immediately proceeds to hookin off...


I get up...yoke her up and calm her down...

She eventually calms down and we just argue the rest a the nite. Long story short...I overcome the situation...but always keep it in the back of the head as a reminder. Never get too comfy and get caught slippin...

EDIT - I loss the Dominican jawn too of course....

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