What a women says and what she's attracted to are two different things. I know this from experience I dun had girls say they aren't attracted black men say they aren't attracted to light skinned men and have became the exception. As men we judge everything on a Physical level and women don't judge on that. They judge based on how you make them feel if anything. If you can make her feel like she's the only woman in the world that matters in the moment by being attentive, listening and being a good communicator towards her that alone trumps alot of Physical shyt.
I think the important thing to note is that women don’t need accountability or integrity to get by in life at least up until their mid 30’s. They can be lowdown and diabolical but if they have a nice body there is some dude around the corner willing to put up with their shyt. This starts when they are very young so a lot of women grow up in a world with the mind frame that “words don’t matter”. Boys on the other hand are raised with the mind frame of “all you have is your word” and it’s reinforced by other boys and girls ostracizing them when they don’t keep their word.
This is why I always tell younger cats, judge women based on their actions, not their words. If she says “I want to hang out but I’ve been so busy” the words will lead you to believe that you have a shot at hanging out with her if she has free time…but the action is her not making any effort to see you. If you go off her words…you’ll call again and ask to hang out next week. If you go off her actions, you won’t call her again period.
