Prison bae 2.0? Nebraska inmate pic goes viral and urban women lose their mind.

[Umoja]

Society is full of shyt. People like good looking people regardless of character.
It’s not the smartest way to live life which is why you get old adages against being shallow. But we really need to stop acting like humanity is unaffected by physical attractiveness. I’ve seen people lose their damn minds over a fine face or a sexy body.

The purpose of this thread pointing this out.

Look at this:

Fred

I actually lean more towards what Destiny saying. I don't agree with him but I favour what he's saying over the misguided view that it is acceptable to profit from what is essentially desperation.

I digress, his point and the point pushed by society, is the need to do more than the bare minimum. It sets men up for failure when they believe that financial stability and being emotionally available will result in success.

Well I don't think it sets men up failure. The topic is a bit too nuanced for that. I think where it falls flat is overlooking the existence of women who don't care for any of that stuff.

The conversation needs to expand on what makes a healthy relationship and how to identify a suitable partner.

 

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The purpose of this thread pointing this out.

Look at this:


I actually lean more towards what Destiny saying. I don't agree with him but I favour what he's saying over the misguided view that it is acceptable to profit from what is essentially desperation.

I digress, his point and the point pushed by society, is the need to do more than the bare minimum. It sets men up for failure when they believe that financial stability and being emotionally available will result in success.

Well I don't think it sets men up failure. The topic is a bit too nuanced for that. I think where it falls flat is overlooking the existence of women who don't care for any of that stuff.

The conversation needs to expand on what makes a healthy relationship and how to identify a suitable partner.

This is what all of these conversations are trying to get at. But there are so many layers of assumptions, past ideas, new forms of fukkery that muddle these topics. It’s a mess.

 

[WesCrook]

Homebody?

Nikka, you don't have a choice right now

 

[ThrobbingHood]

Homebody?

Nikka, you don't have a choice right now

Hobbies include: crafting, reading and Islam.

 

[Umoja]

This is what all of these conversations are trying to get at. But there are so many layers of assumptions, past ideas, new forms of fukkery that muddle these topics. It’s a mess.

Can't help but feel some of it is by design and/or is self-inflicted.

I think the general problem is that what makes noise on the internet isn't the normal. A husband and wife going to work, splitting their household chores and raising their kids isn't going to turn heads. What will turn heads if the husband finding out the kids aren't his and the wife being awarded alimony after leaving him for the biological dad.

When you actually step out in the world, what do you see more of? I think that our perceptions are being shaped on the worst humanity has to offer. If you're in a rut socially (which many people were in due to the lockdown) you can end up being bombarded with these negative impressions without them being counterbalanced by what is normal.

The reason why I think some of it is by designed is because there seems to be a concerted effort to broadcast the most polarising views. This is then aggravated by different factors limiting face fo face interaction.

 

[downtheline]

I hate all of these weird ass nikkas bruh

There is a subreddit for escorts calling out their tricks?

 

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Can't help but feel some of it is by design and/or is self-inflicted.

I think the general problem is that what makes noise on the internet isn't the normal. A husband and wife going to work, splitting their household chores and raising their kids isn't going to turn heads. What will turn heads if the husband finding out the kids aren't his and the wife being awarded alimony after leaving him for the biological dad.

When you actually step out in the world, what do you see more of? I think that our perceptions are being shaped on the worst humanity has to offer. If you're in a rut socially (which many people were in due to the lockdown) you can end up being bombarded with these negative impressions without them being counterbalanced by what is normal.

The reason why I think some of it is by designed is because there seems to be a concerted effort to broadcast the most polarising views. This is then aggravated by different factors limiting face fo face interaction.

Of course! That sells the most. Sensationalism is exciting. That’s part of the problem with hyperrealism and people being too tuned into the internet. They end up basing their perception off sensational hottakes which are the worse possible unrealistic depictions of humans.
I’ve always been very, very, critical of marriage because I’ve seen shyt other people go through, seen so many horror stories about cheating and just plain ole fukkery.

Then I had to stop and think…wait…don’t we have power for ourselves to craft the lives we want to live? And what do you know, once u leave the anxieties trapped in your head that are supported by online fukkery, you find that your world is what you make it. But people aren’t consuming media and then comparing it to their own experiences. They are avoiding life experiences altogether out of fear or anxiety based on sensationalized shyt they see online.

That doesn’t mean that the issues discussed online aren’t real. It’s just that they aren’t the end all be all and when you step away from the fukkery, it’s easier to see that. Not to mention the role mental illness plays in a lot of this too.

 

[boogers]

coli haters out in full force smh

 

[Dameon Farrow]

Long walks in the yard LOOOOOOOOL

 

[blues_funk_reggae]

These are the same women who dump the square men because, "he never had time for me/never took me out anywhere"

 

[Scustin Bieburr]

Why are people surprised that women would find a physically attractive man attractive?

 Like a man wouldn’t lust after an attractive chick regardless of her character either. There are complete psycho bytches out there with fat asses who get worshipped by dudes.



Isn’t that the way lust goes?

The problem is that there are women who swear up and down that "looks aren't that important" and what kind of person you are is more important, meanwhile nggas are seeing how false that is with their own eyes and then when they say it they're called misogynist.

It SHOULD be common knowledge that if you're struggling to even get a text back you're ugly and need to work on that but then you have clowns here talking about "I see nggas who look homeless with baddies all the time! You gotta have a good mouthpiece and you can get sexy women too It's not hard!"

People are simple. They like people who are attractive and who say interesting shyt and express themselves with sanity and can keep things close to the chest and be mysterious. I've never heard of a man who has 6 feet or more of height, an athletic build with a 6pack, and 6 figures in his bank account complaining about women not being interested in him. That's the base you have, then you build on it by traveling, treating your mental health, building your story telling and vocabulary skills. If you have that going on your issue won't be getting interest from women, it will be getting interest from the women you like. That will make it easier to empathize with women and will make it easier to hear them when they speak without bias.

 

[Rhapscallion Démone]

He sleeps on the top bunk like most bottoms

 

[O.T.I.S.]

He sleeps on the top bunk like most bottoms

 

[Sadbrownsfan]

he shot a 20 year old 16 times.

So he’s a bad boy

 

[AAKing23]

I came in here and looked at his pictures pause and said to myself “man I’d slap the piss out of this brolic Dave East looking nikka” And then I saw what he was in for, made me bytch up a little ngl

I was bout to say he look live Dave too