Protectiveness

[Remy Danton]

Just had a small epiphany about this within myself and was curious to know if others felt the same way. A partner must display a willing desire to protect or the respect/attraction kill switch flips off and he's knick down on the tier. I too must feel that willing desire to protect.

 

[Willie]

To protect those around me? Of course. Im the oldest of three siblings so that's how I was raised.

 

[Larry Lobster]

Nein

 

[Remy Danton]

To protect those around me? Of course. Im the oldest of three siblings so that's how I was raised.

pretty much the same here. I also think it is need in a relationship, otherwise why are you even with a chick if you cant protect her?

 

[Willie]

pretty much the same here. I also think it is need in a relationship, otherwise why are you even with a chick if you cant protect her?

Especially in a relationship. I never understood why women would date a man that couldn't protect her if the situation presented itself.

 

[Remy Danton]

Especially in a relationship. I never understood why women would date a man that couldn't protect her if the situation presented itself.

here a question i pose for the readers of this thread:

can having a man who is protective of you be a bad thing?
how about a woman thats down for the cause?

@TheStripper @Rawtid @Elle Driver

 

[TM101]

Women dont need protection from an individual man. Society/the government does it better.

 

[Remy Danton]

Women dont need protection from an individual man. Society/the government does it better.

says who?

society has feed us alot of things, but are all those things true?

 

[TM101]

says who?

society has feed us alot of things, but are all those things true?

If a woman is attacked in a public place, men from all over will try to help. If there is a conflict betwen man and a woman, people will be reluctant to take the man's side.

 

[Raava]

I think there should be a level in a relationship. Both parties have common sense and protective of each other. Meaning I am not a dumb bird that is gonna pop off and I wouldn't want my dude to put himself in dangerous positions. I think being protective is part of loving someone. You don't want them hurt you don't want harm to come to them. If there is a situation you should be there for each other.

 

[Remy Danton]

If a woman is attacked in a public place, men from all over will try to help. If there is a conflict betwen man and a woman, people will be reluctant to take the man's side.

not so, right vs wrong. if a person knows the factors which lead up to the conflict, it should be a thing where people are choosing sides. i think that is a generalize concept ( i could be wrong).

But I feel as if the man should protect the woman especially if in a relationship, some dudes figure "oh, she is just a cut buddy so she doesnt matter" i think that low however i also think the woman who allows that to happen needs to be corrected....because it only becomes a factor where sex is simply involved.

 

[Remy Danton]

I think there should be a level in a relationship. Both parties have common sense and protective of each other. Meaning I am not a dumb bird that is gonna pop off and I wouldn't want my dude to put himself in dangerous positions. I think being protective is part of loving someone. You don't want them hurt you don't want harm to come to them. If there is a situation you should be there for each other.

 

[kp404]

I think there should be a level in a relationship. Both parties have common sense and protective of each other. Meaning I am not a dumb bird that is gonna pop off and I wouldn't want my dude to put himself in dangerous positions. I think being protective is part of loving someone. You don't want them hurt you don't want harm to come to them. If there is a situation you should be there for each other.

Perfect response. I've always felt I must be protective of my woman and family no matter the situation and I still feel that way; a woman that I grow to understand know and love and feels protective is just as great because that connection will definitely be there..

 

[IronFist]

I think there should be a level in a relationship. Both parties have common sense and protective of each other. Meaning I am not a dumb bird that is gonna pop off and I wouldn't want my dude to put himself in dangerous positions. I think being protective is part of loving someone. You don't want them hurt you don't want harm to come to them. If there is a situation you should be there for each other.

brilliant. the thing with most people i find is this:

while man and woman exist in a relationship, often times they forget that there one unit or one entity. coming together on one accord. It like her struggles are his struggles, his pain is her pain , im real protective though when i am in a relationship.. It just one of those things that naturally instill in a man where he protect his queen [[[with me it like one of those things i have to do]]]], although nowadays it seems like it a complete 180. Things of the sort build a bond and a commonality between the two.

Even if you want to break it down in a analogy of chess. The king is said to be the strongest piece, however the queen is the second strongest.

 

[IronFist]

Perfect response. I've always felt I must be protective of my woman and family no matter the situation and I still feel that way; a woman that I grow to understand know and love and feels protective is just as great because that connection will definitely be there..

yep that bond and that rapport that you've all built