Providing ≠ "gold digging"

[Dwolf]

It's an opinion based on experience, not an article.

So if you didnt write it who did?

 

[MayQueen]

So if you didnt write it who did?

A married black woman from another forum.

 

[Couth]

Are you kidding me? You can not take a child away from their father, if he wants to see his kids he will make it happen. Why shouldn't black men provide for their kids? Black women have high expectations of black men because black men are "their" men. As much as some black men try to distance themselves from black women they are still connected. You should be flattered that more is expected of you, try to meet those expectations.



I can't help you with losing your office job, breh.

Quite easy to take a dudes kid out of his life out of spite. Seen it happen to my friend. And hes still getting raped on child support.

 

[DrX]

Are you kidding me? You can not take a child away from their father, if he wants to see his kids he will make it happen. Why shouldn't black men provide for their kids? Black women have high expectations of black men because black men are "their" men. As much as some black men try to distance themselves from black women they are still connected. You should be flattered that more is expected of you, try to meet those expectations.



I can't help you with losing your office job, breh.

BW are basically looking for some type of super nikka....women in general a bipolar....yall dont know what yall want....so many women r single because yall dont realize that yall r the problem....if u treat ur man like a king hell treat u like his queen if hes a real man.....try doing that and stop listening to this feminist garbage being spewed by these cacs

 

[Dwolf]

A married black woman from another forum.

LSA?

 

[MayQueen]

LSA?

Yea.

 

[GoPro]

As long as she's cute, can cook, clean and consumes cock, she can dig all the gold she wants.

 

[Citi Trends]

and everytime this comes up i never see what the woman is bringing to the table herself

 

[MayQueen]

BW are basically looking for some type of super nikka....women in general a bipolar....yall dont know what yall want....so many women r single because yall dont realize that yall r the problem....if u treat ur man like a king hell treat u like his queen if hes a real man.....try doing that and stop listening to this feminist garbage being spewed by these cacs

I am very traditional when it comes to relationships, I have no problem spoiling a man and making him happy as long as he can provide and be a man.

 

[Dwolf]

Yea.

fukk outta here

 

[DrX]

I am very traditional when it comes to relationships, I have no problem spoiling a man and making him happy as long as he can provide and be a man.

thats reasonable , dont get me wrong alotta of these nikkas out here r losers but a good dude should get love ant looked pasted....nice guys shouldn't finish last

 

[Mr. Negative]

when are y'all gonna learn to stop arguing against this point of view with women?

 

[MayQueen]

fukk outta here

No, ya'll be coming over there.

 

[TooLazyToMakeUp1]

I don't have a problem with it, but I really have a problem with the entitlement of it all. It's too easy to be taken advantage of, and taken for granted

I always hear shyt like, "This isn't the 1950's anymore". We know and alot of men have adapted accordingly. "The kitchen" is akin to "c*nt" or "bytch" in 2014

All I'm saying is: If a woman expects this of a man, then she'd better be mindful of her own duty to him

 

[marcuz]

@HoneyCake and all the other females pushing this shyt.

- equal treatment and responsbility as men
- being protected and provided for

you hypocritical women have to pick 1, you cannot have both. i don't know you personally, so you're probably a fulla shyt feminist like the rest, but you cannot have BOTH