This is not true. I've had a chick straight up offer me p*ssy knowing I had someone. Then coworker situations are super simple... Every man doesn't have a struggle.. Especially if he's a good oneMen have to expend effort to cheat. They have to download dating apps or step outside their normal routine to socialize and meet women. They have to *work* for the sex.
I think that's part of what makes it so heinous when they do. There's this sense of "you wanted someone else badly enough that you were willing to go through all that effort and now you're copping pleas?"
With women it's a matter of just saying "yeah sure" and giving in to the daily approaches that men make. Female beauty and attention is so prized that they literally can't just step put the house in a t shirt and jeans without being hollered at or post a Pic on social media without thirst flooding the inbox.
It's far easier for them to cheat and it's what fuels male jealousy and refusal to be okay with them going to the club on their own or going on a vacation without their man. There's the assumption that after a couple drinks and a "you got some pretty eyes, my name Corey" ngga approaches they'll throw that ring away like Bobby shmurda hat and give him that throat. Paradoxically women seem aware of this fact and yet still act confused when a man is jealous and wants her to only go out when he's around.
People cheat because of lust, and some times out of spite. An immature individual might cheat back after she's been cheated on instead of just throwing the relationship in the bushes and moving on.
I'd also add on insecurity as a reason why men cheat. They need to know they still have value in the dating world especially if they weren't getting much women before and had a glow up. Some men will act cool with his girl going out on her own and having girls trips because he's busy cracking his side piece's back while his girl is away. That woman is in an open relationship, she just doesn't know it. He assumes she's gonna cheat on him anyway so he might as well get some cat himself while she's gone. It's a win win for him because he seems like he's secure and not jealous but in reality he just doesn't care. If she splits up with him, he's got his back-up girl.
Psychologists explains why men cheat.
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Big Yella
cause nikkas are annoyed
Ehh I used to think this. Until I got into a LTR.
I have a friend who just works from home, has his girl, not many friends, and lives In a small town suburb. And also average looking, and so is his girl. And hasnt been with a TON of women. He doesn't cheat. Very loyal.
Me? Iive in a major city, work in night life, Used to model, and because of such girls kinda be throwin ass, my current girl approached me also. I've been with tons of women, I also have a strong social circle.
Lets just say...I can see how cheating can happen, and I struggle. And my thoughts on this has flipped entirely. I used to say "cheating is for the undisciplined" now? Ehh it's complicated. and my girl is more attractive than my friends, yet he's far more likely to stay loyal than...me.
Do the math here. I now think that there's some guys LTR are better for than...others. let's put it that way. But I'm struggling to believe humans are designed for relationships now...seems like a nice system for the old, those with limited options, very emotional people, or the inexperienced. But we just follow it because of social conditioning like religion.
Yeah..it's frustrating when there's clearly men out there that you can tell aren't the type of dudes that have experienced how easy it can come. Most men are average looking. They don't have women doing things...so they can't even comprehend some of this stuff. And they tell on themselves.
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BobbyWojak
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I’ve noticed a scary pattern with you and other dumb people these days. Yall literally think yall know more than experts on just about everything. I use to think people like you were joking but yall idiots are deadly serious
Crazy ass cats talking about “I did the research” When you just watched other non-experts in that field spit nonsense on YouTube
-So this is the same as cheating to you?
Eternally Jaded
Superstar
Extremely low impulse controlNot clicking but it ain't rocket science. And it ain't limited to men either. The convo is always framed around men cheating, which does happen. But these broads be out here. But again, it ain't rocket science. We are a nation full of fat people who are in debt yet we act like we don't understand why people cheat
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Hollywood Co
Primetime Reppin
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its just about resisting temptation. sometimes it becomes work not to engage in extracurricular activity.. you have to be focused and disciplined. easier said than done. i really feel like alot of dudes are with girls that aren't getting shyt shaking in bed tho. be having responsibility to mediocre coochie. or may be she going thru a rough patch and the coochie is under construction. it is what it is at that point. holding all of one person's urges can be a big challenge as we all go thru changes in life. just one of those things i guess.
Nah nikkas cheat because bytches think they box controlled sht. Not knowing there are million other boxes out there, that dont do alll the other sht . And if it is a million better than hers, dont really care if she finds out
. And if it is a million better than hers, dont really care if she finds out
Fill Collins
Able to get note from doctor
Black men don't cheat
Weakness, lack of self control. Men are more carnal in nature, but that does not negate his need to be accountable for himself.
That's why so many are exploitable.
I'd give myself for my family, that's the only way to exploit me.
That's why so many are exploitable.
I'd give myself for my family, that's the only way to exploit me.