And on some real shyt because I've lived in both worlds, I would MUCH rather be "kinda cute" or "he's aight" than handsome
Peep game. I got bullied for being ugly in High School and some of college. Now I get female attention. I've gotten more matches on Hinge these past 11 days than I have EVER gotten in my life using multiple apps
Uglygang: harrassment, mistreatment, bullying, risk for depression, anxiety, and PTSD from not being valued because of how you look, risk for suicide, being an outcast, mislabled and misjudged, socially shunned, dehumanization
Handsomegang: sexual harrassment, halo effect, unrealistic expectations others have, temptation, idolization, attracting crazy women who want your baby, risk for being murdered by secret boyfriends/husbands, risk for drug abuse and alcoholism due to not being admired for anything other than looks, idolatry, dehumanization
I have lived both lives. I know this from personal experience. Trust me. The grass is not always greener