Question for the dudes...

[ClassyME]

Ladies feel free to participate..

My girls and I were actually all engaged into a debate that later turned heated. It was about being in a serious relationship with a man and after 2-4 years down the road he asks for a threesome. Some of the girls were like "there is no way in hell my man should even ask me for a damn threesome " and the other 2 were like "I mean, he just wants a threesome tho "

Would you guys feel comfortable to ask your girlfriends for a threesome and would you make it a habit? Then the conversation lead us to something more serious.... Open relationships, any of you ever tried it? How about swinging?


I just wanted to know from a male's perspective.

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[Will Ross]

I would ask a jump off not the main girl.

 

[WaveCapsByOscorp™]

i feel like, as a dude, if i introduced a threesome scenario in the middle of a relationship, i would be attempting to suggest the possibility of me fukking other women while we're in the relationship (if i hadn't been already). it wouldn't even have to be another threesome scenario past that point but there would still be that possibility...

 

[CJ]

Nope, never considered. Once you go down that path though ain't no turning back.

 

[Cool Dr. Money]

Yes i would ask her

 

[cleanface coney]

if she my girl hell no

but if we just messing around yea

if it hasnt been in his character to ask for this before that nikka prolly cheated before honestly

 

[Cat piss martini]

If i'm serious with a chick and that's her
thing i'll let her play in some p*ssy......
but that's her pandora's box to open.
everytime ive done it chicks get jealous and
it fukked up everything....

 

[ClassyME]

I just thought that argument was crazy as hell to me cuz I wasn't in a relationship so it would be hard for me to fathom & my girls were yelling over each other bout "hell naw I wish my nikka would ask me for a mothafukkin threesome" the other one saying "dude, chill out it's not like he's breaking up with you, it's just a question"

Me: I understood both sides so I was confused as hell!

 

[Lavish]

I would get a feel for how she feels about threesomes first

if I get the vibe that she doesnt agree with it...then im not gonna ask

once im married tho, I wouldnt do it regardless

and yeah it wouldnt be wifey

 

[ComputersPutin]

Never....would I bee in a serious relationship to even suggest that.

And the term open relationship is pretty silly to me.

 

[kevm3]

I'm not into that who threesome thing and I certainly wouldn't ask my woman for one. Any decent man isn't going to ask a woman he takes seriously for a threesome. If you are feeling someone, you simply don't want to share them. The girl that was yelling had the right way of it. That's mad disrespectful trying to bring someone else in on the relationship.

 

[skeetsinternal]

You know what, thats a good question. There should be open and honest communication between both parties and the topic of a threesome should not be taboo or a fearsome topic of discussion. No two relationships are the same and arguing about how you feel about something that works in the next couple's relationship is stupid. Swinging and open relationships are a lifestyle I dont need. My opinion on those type relationships are negative so I wont comment but they are just my opinions

 

[ClassyME]

makes sense. I asked one of my boys cuz he called me during the whole argument and he said "Ayye, if she wants a threesome, so do I but I won't be the one to ask first."

 

[CJ]

I just thought that argument was crazy as hell to me cuz I wasn't in a relationship so it would be hard for me to fathom & my girls were yelling over each other bout "hell naw I wish my nikka would ask me for a mothafukkin threesome" the other one saying "dude, chill out it's not like he's breaking up with you, it's just a question"

Me: I understood both sides so I was confused as hell!

And I guarantee she'll be the first one crying when homeboy starts smashing the 3rd wheel on the side. I just don't see the difference. The line is almost invisible.

 

[Nintendough]

No, if I need a threesome then I need to be just go out and be single. Besides, if I start bringing in other women then thats like giving her the green light to have other dudes on the side, thats a no go.