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You know what, thats a good question. There should be open and honest communication between both parties and the topic of a threesome should not be taboo or a fearsome topic of discussion. No two relationships are the same and arguing about how you feel about something that works in the next couple's relationship is stupid. Swinging and open relationships are lifestyle I dont need. My opinion on those type relationships are negative so I wont comment but they are just my opinions



That's what I said. :stopitslime: They're both in relationships. One says she wouldn't get offended if her dude asked, it's just a question that no one should be :fire: about... And the other one says "Ya damn skippy I'll be :fire: , I don't do that bullshyt :angry: "
 

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I had a I'm kinda in the situation now, been dealin wit this chick off and on since 07, we been discussing a 3sum almost a year now. Even if we were still seriously together right now i'd still be tryin, but i'd be careful about actually doin it
 
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If you are in a committed relationships, threesomes are a dangerous game. With the exception of HARDCORE swingers, it's best to leave well enough alone.
 
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No, if I need a threesome then I need to be just go out and be single. Besides, if I start bringing in other women then thats like giving her the green light to have other dudes on the side, thats a no go.

Exactly. There's a thread now in JBO about a dude who opened the floodgate :sadcam:
 

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after 4 years you should have a good idea whether to even pose the question. you should know by her reaction when you asked at the 2 year mark lol
 

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Maybe if two people came into that swinger understanding before they got into a relationship, then that would work for them since they were knowing what they were getting into. For the average woman, the moment you come talking that threesome talk, she might give it a go because she really likes you and doesn't want to lose you, but best believe that it will always play in her mind that you wanted another girl or how do you think of that other girl in comparison to her. On the other hand if she is just cool with it, you really need to analyze her level of commitment to you, because I don't know any woman that really wants to share a man she really likes with another woman.

As a man, I know if 'my woman' came up talking about she wants to get tag teamed by me and another dude, she's out the door at the speed of light. Same thing if she asked with a woman, because I'm not going to wife up some bisexual woman. You wife up those who you can build a future with and who you can see your kids emulating. You don't wife up those who you engage in sexual circuses with.
 

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Will never end well if your relationship is serious...inviting trouble into the bedroom, all kinds of shyt could happen.
 

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If feel like if you have been with someone that long you already know the answer :manny:
 
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