Question for the married brehs...

[Schmoove]

Ok...I have a question.

What do ya'll fellas do to keep from being affected by your wife's emotions/moods/etc?

Back in my younger days, I would take the bait and fall right into a woman's ball of misery...but now, I've learned to just walk off or leave. This is a more effective, but she still doesn't get the picture. I'm an even-keeled brotha. I'm too cool & easy going to be sucked into a tornado of arguments & bullshyt.

How do ya'll cope?

 

[Schmoove]

 

[twan83]

Look what i do is i don't pay her any damn attention when she be acting crazy. I warn her and if she keep actin up i give her the SILENT TREATMENT till im calm enough to talk to her whether i leave the room or not just depends on how she acting

 

[BAMBA]

This usually starts playing in my head when a woman starts complaining...



I don't hear a fukking word they say...

 

[Orbital-Fetus]

Look what i do is i don't pay her any damn attention when she be acting crazy. I warn her and if she keep actin up i give her the SILENT TREATMENT till im calm enough to talk to her whether i leave the room or not just depends on how she acting

this.

i been with my girl for 12 years.
i give her the and tell her that i will not yell and argue, but i will talk. if she keeps it up i just ignore her like she is a child.
had her trained in under 2 years for the most part.

a couple times a year there is an incident but i let her know she is acting crazy and squash it real quick.

once she tried beefing with me when i was sleeping after she got home late after going out drinking with her friends.
i told her several times to chill and go to bed...then i smashed the phone....

she apologized and went to bed.

 

[Schmoove]

this.

i been with my girl for 12 years.
i give her the and tell her that i will not yell and argue, but i will talk. if she keeps it up i just ignore her like she is a child.
had her trained in under 2 years for the most part.

a couple times a year there is an incident but i let her know she is acting crazy and squash it real quick.

once she tried beefing with me when i was sleeping after she got home late after going out drinking with her friends.
i told her several times to chill and go to bed...then i smashed the phone....

she apologized and went to bed.

that same shyt happened to me with my ex. bytch gonna come home drunk Hollin bout some bullshyt from 2 weeks prior. I cussed her out & went over my homegirls house. Had to go to work the next day too?!

Why do women DO THIS?!

 

[Listen]

Women run in cycles, the way that Bobby Brown is just ampin' like Michael.



But truly, when that blood starts flowing, their hormotions get the best of them and they can mood swing into no mans land with a quickness and try to drag you down there with them for company.

Sometimes I have to play the role, other times I have to lay the smack down. All depends on her mood.

 

[Typical :hamster: poster]

[typical]

Doesn't matter, we probably share her, anyway

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[CrimsonTider]

Don't marry a woman that has crazy mood swings. That shyt is not normal

 

[CrossBones]

you got to treat her like a kid sometimes. ther'ye smaller than us, and naturally more insecure. so use some discipline on her. keep in control, remind her you're the leader, you'll listen if she stops bytching, try rationalize the stupid shyt she saying (don't insult her), or tell her to stop fukking complaining and we'll talk about it after she makes dinner.

 

[malbaker86]

Silent treatment works the best. Been w/my girl for 5 years and that has NEVER failed me. The reason y'all both were arguing will be long over with but it's just a cooling period and waiting to see who speaks to who first

 

[Anothergirl]

Give her some space...hit a different corner of the house and stay there untill she mellows out. she can't try to pick a fight with you if you're hidden away in the man cave all day.

 

[DomBoogers]

Play dead



very effective technique.

 

[PrnzHakeem]

I sit in my man cave, I'm not gonna entertain a bullshyt argument. Sometimes a chick just need to vent about shyt that got nothing to do with me, and that's fine just don't take it out on me.

But for the most part I married a chick who's genuinely happy and pleasant.

 

[SuburbanPimp]

Easy...

I don't argue, cause even when you win. you don't win

I blow a blunt and head to the man cave to play some PS3.

She normally will disconnect to the wireless router so I can't get my Modern Warfare on so I just swicth to that NBA2k12 My player

But usually cooler heads will prevail, they just need some time to realize that it isn't that serious.


*Also my wife chiefs occasionally and after she hits the blunts its impossible for her to stay mad.. #TruStory