Question for the Men that Prefer more Experienced, Seasoned Women to Marry oppose to Younger Women.

[HarlemHottie]

Who saying all of them need to be single mothers though?

 

[Kyle C. Barker]

What should a woman be bringing into your life? What role is she supposed to occupy?

No woman you date or marry will fukk you better than a sex worker.

No woman you date or marry will clean better than a maid.

No woman you date or marry will cook better than a paid cook in a restaurant.

No woman you date or marry will give you the level of insight you'd get from a paid therapist.

No woman you date or marry will make you laugh and give you the kind of advice a friend of over 20 years or your brother/sister/parents will give you.

So then what role does she occupy in your life, and in what way does her dating history impede what you want her to provide for you? If you see women as 'free' caretakers for you who will fukk you when you want on your terms, then you'll primarily aim for young women. If you're looking for someone who will understand you and know how to act in tense situations, then you want someone who has lived as long as you have. It's that simple. There are life experiences like parents aging and getting sick, managing money and debt, knowing how to navigate the corporate world, knowing how to navigate your own emotions after experiencing setbacks in life like job loss or heartbreak that someone younger just won't have. If you want someone who you don't have to explain things to because they've already lived it, then you want someone your age. If you want someone who can think like you and speak on your behalf and predict what youll say before you say it, you want someone your age. If you want someone to service you, then you want someone younger because a person your age or older won't be on that wave.

You also run the risk of the younger person going through a quarter life crisis and realizing being married to you might mean having to take care of you as you suffer age related disease while she's still in good health and her friends are vacationing and enjoying retirement with their husbands. They see 20 years into the future and freak the fukk out and bail on the relationship.

I gave 0 rep when I meant to +10 you




I got you in the future

 

[SNG]

Sorry I wasn’t trying offend you. You just know where nikkaz on here take that narrative. There are some wonderful single moms outchea. But for me personally I had a bad experience from one so my opinion might be slightly jaded.

 

[Oatmeal]

What should a woman be bringing into your life? What role is she supposed to occupy?

No woman you date or marry will fukk you better than a sex worker.

No woman you date or marry will clean better than a maid.

No woman you date or marry will cook better than a paid cook in a restaurant.

No woman you date or marry will give you the level of insight you'd get from a paid therapist.

No woman you date or marry will make you laugh and give you the kind of advice a friend of over 20 years or your brother/sister/parents will give you.

So then what role does she occupy in your life, and in what way does her dating history impede what you want her to provide for you? If you see women as 'free' caretakers for you who will fukk you when you want on your terms, then you'll primarily aim for young women. If you're looking for someone who will understand you and know how to act in tense situations, then you want someone who has lived as long as you have. It's that simple. There are life experiences like parents aging and getting sick, managing money and debt, knowing how to navigate the corporate world, knowing how to navigate your own emotions after experiencing setbacks in life like job loss or heartbreak that someone younger just won't have. If you want someone who you don't have to explain things to because they've already lived it, then you want someone your age. If you want someone who can think like you and speak on your behalf and predict what youll say before you say it, you want someone your age. If you want someone to service you, then you want someone younger because a person your age or older won't be on that wave.

You also run the risk of the younger person going through a quarter life crisis and realizing being married to you might mean having to take care of you as you suffer age related disease while she's still in good health and her friends are vacationing and enjoying retirement with their husbands. They see 20 years into the future and freak the fukk out and bail on the relationship.

 

[Kyle C. Barker]

It's cuck babble.


What type of 'worthy' experience the average women is getting in her 20's? Nada.

The only things that matter when it comes to women are:

-her moral

-her mind

-her beauty

Those things are not enhanced by the so-called experience. Some of them are even tainted...

You don't think one's mind is enhanced by experience?

Even in your 20's?!?! There's a ton to be learned from your mistakes.

 

[HarlemHottie]

Sorry I wasn’t trying offend you. You just know where nikkaz on here take that narrative. There are some wonderful single moms outchea. But for me personally I had a bad experience from one so my opinion might be slightly jaded.

I'm not offended. They do be single mothers and aint nobody with they paper straight trynna deal with that shyt.

 

[SNG]

I'm not offended. They do be single mothers and aint nobody with they paper straight trynna deal with that shyt.

Usually it ain’t even the mamas from my experience it was the toxic ass baby daddy’s.

 

[HarlemHottie]

Usually it ain’t even the mamas from my experience it was the toxic ass baby daddy’s.

Yep. My brother dealt with a 'toxic' ex husband while he was raising that mans kids. Fortunately, he knew who to play with and it wasn't my brother.

 

[Stuntone]

Yep. My brother dealt with a 'toxic' ex husband while he was raising that mans kids. Fortunately, he knew who to play with and it wasn't my brother.

That's a risky game to play with no matter how tough you seem to be.

 

[JetFueledThoughts]

Dating a woman who is 24, then dating a woman who is 29, you’ll instantly see the difference

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

There is no way op isn't having a nervous breakdown and most likely about to off himself in the future.

Look at his thread frequency and topics!

 

[JetFueledThoughts]

It's cuck babble.


What type of 'worthy' experience the average women is getting in her 20's? Nada.

The only things that matter when it comes to women are:

-her moral

-her mind

-her beauty

Those things are not enhanced by the so-called experience. Some of them are even tainted...

These two things absolutely mature and grow throughout your 20s you idiot

 

[HarlemHottie]

That's a risky game to play with no matter how tough you seem to be.

My brother... is unusual. He's ados but look latino, former military. The woman, the kids, and the ex husband were latino, Cuban iirc. He shut that shyt all the way down. He done broke up with the woman, but the kids- now grown- call him regular to check in and don't really fukk with they birth parents. He did black American thanksgivings, fried chicken and made macaroni and cheese, gave them guidance (even tho the girl was well on her way to being a hoe and the son was gay, they doing good now).

Poor things wouldn'ta ate if it wasn't for him cuz the mama wasn't worth shyt. Them kids love him and see him as they daddy.

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

College.
Life.
Living on their own.
Having a career.
Knowing what direction they want their lives to move in.
Experienced enough in relationships to understand the give and take that comes with a healthy adult relationship and not just in the take, take, take stage of her life.

This is a good argument, but those talking points are easy to refute. There's a lot of older women without those things sadly.

College you can still be broke.
Living on your own means nothing because a lot are pay check to paycheck
Life is nothing without money


At the end of the day, a lot of older women were and still are directionless and would've been better off with an older experience guy when young. Of course this isn't for every women, but there's a lot out there.

 

[MajesticLion]

wtf