Question for those in interracial relationships

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i was interested in seeing how black women felt about trayvons murder on a IR dating site for black women

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:mjpls: y'all so worried about black men when our women are the ones you should be concerned about

:wow: Those women are some mammy's breh. I wish they were all half-breeds so this would be the last generation of their blackness. That type of blood is not needed within our ranks.
 

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The remedy for this is to simply ask a white person, "imagine if you were black" and then explain some of the bullshyt you have to deal with on a day-to-day basis growing up, images seen in the media, the way you're treated in school and by authorities, low expectations given to you, and the negative stereotypes. Then again ask them, "imagine if you were black." You will see it in their faces, the lightbulb going off. After that, they usually get it.

Most white people don't ever think about black issues or what it feels like to be a non-white person simple because they don't need to in order to go about their lives in this society (meanwhile a non-white person NEEDS to understand white society to some extent to succeed in it, plus we consume their media so that understanding is ingrained in us from an early age). Their culture is the dominant one, so if they ignore everyone else, they can still be okay, go to school, get a job, etc. They aren't practiced at being truly empathetic with the plight of others. So in knowing this, whenever I'm around a white person who says something ignorant based on a lack of cultural understanding and empathy, I don't get angry, I calmly draw them into a discussion and ask, "imagine if you were black." I've found this approach to be highly effective, and it works wonders.
 

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I've never been in a interracial relationship, but I gather its no different then any topic of discussion where people disagree. I'm black, and I probably have a few opinions that run counter to some blacks think, but that doesn't mean I can't get along with them.
 
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For the record you clowns. I am not white. You nyggas are dumb as fcku.

:wow:Those women are some mammy's breh. I wish they were all half-breeds so this would be the last generation of their blackness. That type of blood is not needed within our ranks.

Why would you make this comment if your not black...........:what:

What race are you......:scusthov:

And why are you trying to impersonate being black........:wtf:
 

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:wtf: Hold up.....

Is it just me, or did this thread seem to go from TLR to The Race Track.....then BACK to TLR?

C'mon, mods :comeon:.....this is clearly a Race Track thread. Just because it's a good, legit, non-trolling race-related thread, doesn't mean it shouldn't be in the Race Track. Let's not be making exceptions.....

I'm only making a big deal because I've seen other (potentially) good race threads being put in there.....
 

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RACE TRACK RACE TRACK RACE TRACK RACE TRACK RACE TRACK!!!!!
 

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We all know who you are.......

Why are you trying to impersonate being black for.......:scusthov:

@Born2BKing exposed you.....

:stopitslime:

If anything the few members like him who I've had spats with, Brokewave too know good and well I aint no white dude. :huhldup: You a clown.
 
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:wtf: Hold up.....

Is it just me, or did this thread seem to go from TLR to The Race Track.....then BACK to TLR?

C'mon, mods :comeon:.....this is clearly a Race Track thread. Just because it's a good, legit, non-trolling race-related thread, doesn't mean it shouldn't be in the Race Track. Let's not be making exceptions.....

I'm only making a big deal because I've seen other (potentially) good race threads being put in there.....

:beli: really breh?
 

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To answer OP's question I think if your in an interracial relationship you both probably have similar views on stories like Travon Martin so that shouldn't be an issue. If you are open minded enough to date outside of your race chances are neither of you are the type to stereotype so the fact that he had on a hoody wouldn't automatically put negative thoughts in your head about the type of kid he was. I think the biggest problem comes with the families of the people in the relationship because there's always a chance someone in one or both of the families have a problem with interracial dating which may cause some stress but shouldn't be a big issue if your relationship is strong enough

One thing I've never understood is why some people have such a problem with interracial relationships. If its not your thing I understand but why feel so strongly about something that has nothing to do with you?
 

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:wtf: Hold up.....

Is it just me, or did this thread seem to go from TLR to The Race Track.....then BACK to TLR?

C'mon, mods :comeon:.....this is clearly a Race Track thread. Just because it's a good, legit, non-trolling race-related thread, doesn't mean it shouldn't be in the Race Track. Let's not be making exceptions.....

I'm only making a big deal because I've seen other (potentially) good race threads being put in there.....

No offense but I'm starting to think you are a white dude posing breh.
 
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