questions to the unmarried fathers

[Captain Crunch]

Not to go OT, but this thread reminds me that most Child Support situations are similar.

Word of advice to all the childless folks reading this thread, DON'T HAVE KIDS(unless it's w/ your ideal mate), because these same situations described in this thread will probably happen to you.

 

[Ice Cold]

I'd want custody regardless of the mothers situation.
I'd also want my kids to have a good relationship with there mom though
I'd want the kids regardless of sex

 

[BamdaDon]

i give credit to you folks with kids. the thought of them terrifies me

breh kids are great its like a little you. I swear the comedy that comes from a child is pricesless. I be looking at my son like so much potential. so much swag dude is only three. but make sure you have one with somebody who truly fukk with that broken home shyt is wack.

 

[TRUEST]

breh kids are great its like a little you. I swear the comedy that comes from a child is pricesless. I be looking at my son like so much potential. so much swag dude is only three. but make sure you have one with somebody who truly fukk with that broken home shyt is wack.

yeah, thats why it terrifies me. damn near everyone in this thread ainnt with their baby momma /baby daddy. i aint with that. that's crazy.

if i impregnate a chick that i feel doesn't have the longevity potential as far as the relationship goes, i go the abortion route very quickly.

having kids with different mothers or different fathers, in my opinion, is one of the most classless/reckless thing anyone can do.

 

[Rawtid]

Well, when I said my daughter's mother isn't shyt I meant that she doesn't take the time out to even see our daughter. She doesn't keep a job. Sometimes her fault, sometimes it's not. She lies and disappoints our daughter all the time. Plus she has a pill popping problem. I have said it before that my daughter feels like she has to call her mother or she won't call her because she doesn't take the time to call our daughter. I have story, after story, after story, after story about how she hasn't done right by our daughter. It's sad, but the truth. Like instead of picking up our daughter like she told her a week ago, she's going to the casino and had the fukking nerve to call me to lie to her to say that she's not coming because she's sick. So because of that I say my daughter's mother ain't shyt.

That's horrible. I wouldn't blame you for cutting off contact.

 

[BamdaDon]

yeah, thats why it terrifies me. damn near everyone in this thread ainnt with their baby momma /baby daddy. i aint with that. that's crazy.

if i impregnate a chick that i feel doesn't have the longevity potential as far as the relationship goes, i go the abortion route very quickly.

having kids with different mothers or different fathers, in my opinion, is one of the most classless/reckless thing anyone can do.

I dont believe in abortion so I wasnt going that route and glad I didnt.

but a lot of times you think a relationship is cool and looking back you be like wtf was I thinking just because a person is good girlfriend doesnt = good mother. I had to learn the hard way but advice to anybody if the chick grew up with both parents and the dad is a type you good to go.

 

[Rawtid]

yeah, thats why it terrifies me. damn near everyone in this thread ainnt with their baby momma /baby daddy. i aint with that. that's crazy.

if i impregnate a chick that i feel doesn't have the longevity potential as far as the relationship goes, i go the abortion route very quickly.

having kids with different mothers or different fathers, in my opinion, is one of the most classless/reckless thing anyone can do.

How many women have you impregnated?

 

[TRUEST]

How many women have you impregnated?

enough for me to realize the damage it does to them mentally. now i'm just very careful.

 

[TRUEST]

I dont believe in abortion so I wasnt going that route and glad I didnt.

but a lot of times you think a relationship is cool and looking back you be like wtf was I thinking just because a person is good girlfriend doesnt = good mother. I had to learn the hard way but advice to anybody if the chick grew up with both parents and the dad is a type you good to go.

good for you man. i value money, and i value freedom. kids will deprive u of that. and if u have a chick that never wants to be in the house, u'll spend a fortune on baby sitters and all the other drama.

i read stories on here about the hell most of yall go through with ur baby mommas and daddies. i hear the hell my boy's ex wife puts him through over their kid. i read and hear stories like this and i know just what to do! stay away from women who need your money!