Quick question: Why do women catch an attitude when caught in a lie? (Ultra, ultra embarrassing)

[Antwon Mitchell]

A day ago I got a friend request on Facebook from this woman I didn't know but I still accepted it anyway since she's attractive; woke up this morning and saw that she DM'ed me talking about...

Her: Oh you look maaad familiar...don't I know you from somewhere; Jersey right? Yeah most definitely.

So I replied and told her NO (she's from Camden, NJ; I've never been there before; but definitely wouldn't turn down a trip ). She responds by saying...

Her: Well we can get to know each other *insert: sticking tounge out emojis*

I said...why did you have to lie and say that you knew me when obviously that's not the case; you could've kept it a buck with me; if we were to build something how can I trust you ? she proceeds to cursing me out saying I'm an ungrateful ass nikka and that she's grown woman.

Okay ?

She's definitely cute but I'd appreciate if she didn't lie claiming that she knew me.

 

[PaperEnterprise]

Fam.

#1. You got upset about her saying she may know you. Smh. Who cares.

#2. She from Camden. Good thing you got upset

 

[Obreh Winfrey]

Man or woman, people get upset when they know they're wrong and they get caught.

 

[xCivicx]

Petty your way outta p*ssy brehs

Shame a female for cold approaching/choosing brehs

 

[⠀X ⠀]

Women use that line to flirt and start convos, all the time. No reason for you to have to call her a liar. Are you on the spectrum or something?

 

[Auger]

Uh, unless you weren't interested at all, she was obviously flirting.

 

[Rice'N Beckford]

You’re an idiot

 

[fckyoupayme]

She was flirting. Now her pics are posted on the coli. Smh. I thought men wanted women to approach more

 

[Knowledge]

Why did you talk your way out of the box breh. Who cares if she lying if you just trying to hit?

 

[Antwon Mitchell]

Women use that line to flirt and start convos, all the time. No reason for you to have to call her a liar. Are you on the spectrum or something?

Hell no, nothing like that.

It's just I felt like if she lied about me knowing her in Jersey how else can I trust her if I wanted to take it further?

 

[Primetime21]

 

[Auger]

But yeah approaching someone romantically is pretty vulnerable.

That's why some people may lead with a lie just to get an in on a conversation. Some people can't be honest and direct to the point.

 

[Ineedmoney504]

Op is a pure faggit smh

 

[Antwon Mitchell]

Uh, unless you weren't interested at all, she was obviously flirting.

I'm interested but I don't appreciate the lying just to get my attention...she could've came straight forward. I haven't turned her down tho ...

 

[Theo Penn]

I stopped reading after Camden.

OP dodged a bullet literally.