R&B Singer Sammie Says He's Not Taking Care Of Family And Friends Financially Anymore

98Ntu

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I hate how money redefines and reframes relationships. Anyone who got relatives in Africa can tell you how relationships seem less genuine when people see you as a source of provision.

When you get a phonecall and don't even want to pick up because you already know it's all about money
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But yeah, you just gotta find that balance. If you are in a position to help, do it within your means. And don't be afraid to say no if you can't. Of course in a respectful way.

Tomorrow it could be you needing someone to help you.

I really believe in the southern African concept of Ubuntu as a Zimbabwean but it’s hard cuz family exploits it. They don’t fukk with you or care for you until payday and they always ask for too much.

At this point, I only care about my immediate family, some cousins and nieces/nephews and everyone else can go fukk themselves. I had an uncle who fled Zim in the 80s , married a pawg and never talks to anyone. I thought he was a dikk until I realized how Africna families get busy. I feel you breh
 

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I actually bought Sammy 1st single when I was living in Sac back in the day. I was just impressed with the young bull. Being said, well put Sammy.
 

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I really believe in the southern African concept of Ubuntu as a Zimbabwean but it’s hard cuz family exploits it. They don’t fukk with you or care for you until payday and they always ask for too much.

At this point, I only care about my immediate family, some cousins and nieces/nephews and everyone else can go fukk themselves. I had an uncle who fled Zim in the 80s , married a pawg and never talks to anyone. I thought he was a dikk until I realized how Africna families get busy. I feel you breh

Uncle just wants to PAWG in peace :russ:

I think we just think too much. Either we can afford to help or we can't. We can also discern whether someone simply wants to use us to keep up an unhealthy lifestyle or if they genuinely need money to feed their kids.

I genuinely want to help, but within reason. But I also don't want to be indulging somebody's laziness or bad habits :francis:

I think I've finally found that balance. Some people I prioritize over others.
 

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Uncle just wants to PAWG in peace :russ:

I think we just think too much. Either we can afford to help or we can't. We can also discern whether someone simply wants to use us to keep up an unhealthy lifestyle or if they genuinely need money to feed their kids.

I genuinely want to help, but within reason. But I also don't want to be indulging somebody's laziness or bad habits :francis:

I think I've finally found that balance. Some people I prioritize over others.

You’re too right breh. Too damn right
 

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People gets tired of supporting other people's habit. Either they ungrateful for the little you do for them or they ride the wave until the money slows up and they gone :francis:
 

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Hope he keeps that same energy for the thots. A lot of men are hard on family, but blow cash and simp trying to win random women's hearts.
 

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Hope he keeps that same energy for the thots. A lot of men are hard on family, but blow cash and simp trying to win random women's hearts.
:mjlol: That’s his bread. He probably been supporting bums since he was 12, he’s a grown ass 30+ year old now. He can spend him money on whatever the fukk he wants to
 

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:ehh: Who knew Sammie had money like that?
I knew

One of my friends at GT(an extremely attractive German chick) is a Sammie stan to this day

And not because of the hits from his childhood

Adult Sammie

He still has a very strong female following
 
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