r/Blackmen vs r/BlackLadies

[Ohene]

I really love bw

Love and hate are two sides of the same coin. Yes its some weirdos on the internet who race bait and are incels, but more often the dudes complaining are just frustrated out of genuine concern or care.

It’s like having a sibling who cant get right. You gonna give em some tough love or criticism in hopes that they gets their act together. Dudes want to be with or have better relations with black women, if they didnt they wouldnt care so much about some of this shyt. Thats where these dialogues come from deep down

Unfortunately when it comes to black ppl; any form of criticism makes you a hater

 

[Wiseborn]

don’t expect it anytime soon, but yeah i agree.

I think Black Male independence is right around the corner it can’t get no worse or more obvious what the problem is.

 

[Wiseborn]

Reddit got them hoes

How does she not use Brushes or combs yet has such luxurious hair???

 

[Wiseborn]

That sub shows you that a lot of the "tolerance" and forced positivity you see online (and irl) is just people with low self esteem rallying around each other

Its why people are so sensitive these days




This is literally what people are like online now

women secretly have very low self esteem. You see one of these femcels out here who never had male validation and it’s over for them they will chase and chase and chase that validation some more.

 

[Wiseborn]

Anyway I peeped this about Reddit ages ago. It’s a microcosm of real life. BW seek validation from cacs and are deeply insecure. At the same time they feel the need to police BM and insert themselves into our spaces to put us in our place and limit our options.

It’s wild how the average Black Man’s self esteem is so much higher than Black women’s self esteem. As far as I know the hardest Pawgset nikka is not pining for white hoes and wondering why they don’t love them.

 

[Wiseborn]

what can they actually do to put BM in place and limit their options besides weaponize the internal “guilt” some BM may have?

That guilt really works on some brehs.

 

[Wiseborn]

They have the most self-hatred. Every black female space on the web has the same topics.

They have the most self-hatred. Every black female space on the web has the same topics.

Shorty is gone. All this education and products for natural hair and the Bailey sisters dye their hair and maybe wear weaves ( I don’t know) But they ALWAYS rock natural styles. This still hates her hair meanwhile the constant weaves and wigs fukks up her edges and again this is well known yet she still hates herself.

Meanwhile Black Men accept themselves. I got the nappiest beard ever but I still rock it proudly. I wash and moisturize it with Coconut and Argan oil but that’s it.

There’s no excuse for this level of open self hate.

 

[Wiseborn]

Maybe back in the day not with these newer generations. Playing field way more level now than it used to be which is why a lot of cacs are acting out. People still basing their perceptions out on Okcupid stats that were released damn near 20 years ago.

You think so when bytches is openly declaring their intentions to wench?

 

[Wiseborn]

The dude that started this thread clearly has some personal issues with black women and he wants other men to agree with him.

OP’s soundtrack in each thread he makes

can you refute what he says though?

 

[Voice of Reason]

Stop posting this gender war BS. You are coming off like a cac.

 

[Wiseborn]

Pathetic broad
Her hair looks perfectly fine.

A lot of black women are perpetuating these white beauty standards. Its 2025, wake up and get over your child hood trauma or whatever and learn to love yourself and accept love from black men.

Tons of black men will tell her that her hair looks good and that she should rock it often wnd she will still hate it and make excuses for why she cant wear it lol

First thing is Black Men’s opinions don’t matter to her. She likely lives in a Black neighborhood there’s got to be plenty of Black Boys jocking her.

 

[Wiseborn]

Love and hate are two sides of the same coin. Yes its some weirdos on the internet who race bait and are incels, but more often the dudes complaining are just frustrated out of genuine concern or care.

It’s like having a sibling who cant get right. You gonna give em some tough love or criticism in hopes that they gets their act together. Dudes want to be with or have better relations with black women, if they didnt they wouldnt care so much about some of this shyt. Thats where these dialogues come from deep down

Unfortunately when it comes to black ppl; any form of criticism makes you a hater

literally This.

 

[Chelsea Bridge]

I think Black Male independence is right around the corner it can’t get no worse or more obvious what the problem is.

Black male independence? When in the hell were yall not independent? Yall just say anything on here

Acting like someone is really holding your crybaby asses back.

And realize this what I’m saying does not mean all black men. Just you men that are in this thread crying.

 

[Chelsea Bridge]

can you refute what he says though?

There’s nothing to refute. It’s just a bunch of whining.

 

[Chelsea Bridge]

Love and hate are two sides of the same coin. Yes its some weirdos on the internet who race bait and are incels, but more often the dudes complaining are just frustrated out of genuine concern or care.

It’s like having a sibling who cant get right. You gonna give em some tough love or criticism in hopes that they gets their act together. Dudes want to be with or have better relations with black women, if they didnt they wouldnt care so much about some of this shyt. Thats where these dialogues come from deep down

Unfortunately when it comes to black ppl; any form of criticism makes you a hater

Have this same energy when black women complain about your asses

You really think they don’t have reasons to complain? lol.

Both of you groups need to just shut up and find someone that fits you.