Raising Another Man's Child

[Phoenix_Knightly23]

I'd raise another womans child if It ever came down to that....It's not ideal but it's workable

 

[BallGame]

tuff one.........

i got a homeboy who was in a similiar situation to urs and he raises the child like it's his own. He's been with the mother since she was pregnant with the child and raises the child as his own. They are now married and the child is like 8 years old.

The child knows his father and, from what i understand, the father sometimes is in the childs life.

My homeboy has the child call him "padre" and his father "dad" to remove some confusion.

Me personally, ive dealt "seriously" with a female who had a young daughter (around 2) by someone else. The father is doing 25 years of Fed time and the child was adorable so that made it easier for me to accept the situation.......

Forming a bond with a child in a situation like that will probably make it harder for you to drop the mother if you ever decide you want to.

To me, it would be easier if the father was just totally out of the picture

 

[twan83]

im raising another man's child right now she see's me as her father PERIOD. her real dad comes to see her every so often but she really dont be caring at all cuz his ass wasn't in her life and didnt start to pop up cuz i came into the picture

she is my daughter and he aint shyt in my eyes and he wonders y she dont be caring or asking bout him.

ive taken care of her since she was little while he abandon her and ran the streets doing nothing and nothing will make me leave her side AT ALL

it takes a real man to raise a child whether its his or not. ABANDONING A KID IS bytch MADE AND THAT PERSON AINT shyt

 

[Uncle Trill]

I hate the idea of it but once you get passed a certain age as a man its a very real possibility. Like after 35 if im still not married and im looking for a wife ill lower my standards and date women with children (if im not rich that is )

 

[Mountain]

Don't fatten frogs to feed snakes breh. No matter what you think or do....he will be able to slide in and out of yall life (and her vagina) whenever he feels like it.




Ask yourself how it will feel if you raise that seed most of its life and then suddenly dude wants to "have a relationship". You gonna be sitting at graduation party with 3 people at the parent's table. How that either gonna burn when the seed says "I wanna thank my two dads" even though you did most of the work?.

That nikka got to have the fun of hitting it raw and busting a nut up in that bytch while you stuck with the dirty diapers, school bills, and staying in on Saturday nights

I couldn't do it, but shout out to those willing to play that role.

 

[CrimsonTider]

Is he on child support?

 

[Double J]

im raising another man's child right now she see's me as her father PERIOD. her real dad comes to see her every so often but she really dont be caring at all cuz his ass wasn't in her life and didnt start to pop up cuz i came into the picture

she is my daughter and he aint shyt in my eyes and he wonders y she dont be caring or asking bout him.

ive taken care of her since she was little while he abandon her and ran the streets doing nothing and nothing will make me leave her side AT ALL

it takes a real man to raise a child whether its his or not. ABANDONING A KID IS bytch MADE AND THAT PERSON AINT shyt

Damn breh you lost. It costs an average of $250,000 from age 1-18 to raise a child.That nikka got to hit it raw, bust inside the bytch and left you to foot the bill You gonna start paying his car note too?

Homie

He probably out every weekend fukking a different bytch while you at home taking care of his responsibility

 

[H@LLOW]

She still love you though.

 

[Chris.B]

lol...you are fukked

if he is on child support, I may give you a pass....

 

[sixsixtwo]

2nd string daddy, coming off the bench..

Hilarious..

 

[Handsback]

im raising another man's child right now she see's me as her father PERIOD. her real dad comes to see her every so often but she really dont be caring at all cuz his ass wasn't in her life and didnt start to pop up cuz i came into the picture

she is my daughter and he aint shyt in my eyes and he wonders y she dont be caring or asking bout him.

ive taken care of her since she was little while he abandon her and ran the streets doing nothing and nothing will make me leave her side AT ALL

it takes a real man to raise a child whether its his or not. ABANDONING A KID IS bytch MADE AND THAT PERSON AINT shyt

I don't see why more people don't have this outlook.

Not exactly the same situation but I'm adopted. Same with my sister. My father raised other men's children. That's just our family. We would NEVER think of disrespecting him by saying he isn't our real dad. If the dude really isn't there, don't think that a father figure isn't needed. It hasn't been mentioned yet but have you thought about having him sign over parental rights?

More importantly, how is your relationship with the girl? She worth getting serious with like that? What you definitely don't want happening is you becoming "daddy" and then y'all break up.

 

[nineteeneightysix]

Dont play anotha niqqas saved game homie.

Start your own.

The only way that lil b*stard has a chance for me to play daddy, is if his real daddy is dead, and he is between the age of 0 to 6 years old...

If even one of these conditions is not met, I don't care how good is the vagina, I will NEVER comit...

 

[Majestyx]

Dont play anotha niqqas saved game homie.

Start your own.

she'll go back to him

you'll always be number 2

the BD may not want to have shyt to do with the BM..

i dont think i could do that shyt, but some nikkas are about that life.

 

[JasonSJackson]

To me, it would be easier if the father was just totally out of the picture

i feel u.....

i be feeling like he got to be doing some serious time (15 to life) or deceased for this to even be an option......

 

[Rawtid]

If you have older half siblings, then you wouldn't be here if a man didn't want to deal with a woman with children.