Random Thought: So Many Things Would Be Obtainable If We Were Supportive

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I posted on a site last night asking about tips for moving to Germany. A girl responded, lightly discouraging me because of the "hassle", while a guy responded to me in a rude manner, undermining me. Simply I told him: "if your intentions are to be a prick, then why even open your mouth, let alone waste the energy."

But, that brought me back to this forum, considering that majority of the posters here are black and preach "black excellence" yet we discourage each other on a daily basis.

An example being, yesterday when a poster talked about traveling alone everyone was calling the dude a 'loser' and all kinds of other things.

Ideally if you believe in the welfare of African Americans then you should encourage one another to expand their horizons.

On a side note: has anyone ever discouraged you from pursuing dreams or goals? If so then you need to realize that only you can tell yourself 'no'.

Y'all know a nikka like me gotta freebandz spoil myself.
 
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I posted on a site last night asking about tips for moving to Germany. A girl responded, lightly discouraging me because of the "hassle", while a guy responded to me in a rude manner, undermining me. Simply I told him: "if your intentions are to be a prick, then why even open your mouth, let alone waste the energy."

But, that brought me back to this forum, considering that majority of the posters here are black and preach "black excellence" yet we discourage each other on a daily basis.

An example being, yesterday when a poster talked about traveling alone everyone was calling the dude a 'loser' and all kinds of other things.

Ideally if you believe in the welfare of African Americans then you should encourage one another to expand their horizons.

On a side note: has anyone ever discouraged you from pursuing dreams or goals? If so then you need to realize that only you can tell yourself 'no'.

Y'all know a nikka like me gotta freebandz spoil myself.
I'm loving the positivity breh :blessed:

So many demonic folks in this board sometimes. :noah:
 

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I posted on a site last night asking about tips for moving to Germany. A girl responded, lightly discouraging me because of the "hassle", while a guy responded to me in a rude manner, undermining me. Simply I told him: "if your intentions are to be a prick, then why even open your mouth, let alone waste the energy."

But, that brought me back to this forum, considering that majority of the posters here are black and preach "black excellence" yet we discourage each other on a daily basis.

An example being, yesterday when a poster talked about traveling alone everyone was calling the dude a 'loser' and all kinds of other things.

Ideally if you believe in the welfare of African Americans then you should encourage one another to expand their horizons.

On a side note: has anyone ever discouraged you from pursuing dreams or goals? If so then you need to realize that only you can tell yourself 'no'.

Y'all know a nikka like me gotta freebandz spoil myself.

You really believe the bolded :mjlol:
 

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On a side note: has anyone ever discouraged you from pursuing dreams or goals? If so then you need to realize that only you can tell yourself 'no'.

Y'all know a nikka like me gotta freebandz spoil myself.

You have to show people by action, once they see your success many will follow. Don't waste energy on mindless negativity, it will just throw you off of your game

Good luck in your endeavors!
 

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Although I agree with the premise i've become conditioned to not expect anyone to be supportive. People dont believe until you've already done it. If anything I'm cautious of people supporting me because that usually comes with strings attached.
 

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I posted on a site last night asking about tips for moving to Germany. A girl responded, lightly discouraging me because of the "hassle", while a guy responded to me in a rude manner, undermining me. Simply I told him: "if your intentions are to be a prick, then why even open your mouth, let alone waste the energy."

But, that brought me back to this forum, considering that majority of the posters here are black and preach "black excellence" yet we discourage each other on a daily basis.

An example being, yesterday when a poster talked about traveling alone everyone was calling the dude a 'loser' and all kinds of other things.

Ideally if you believe in the welfare of African Americans then you should encourage one another to expand their horizons.

On a side note: has anyone ever discouraged you from pursuing dreams or goals? If so then you need to realize that only you can tell yourself 'no'.

Y'all know a nikka like me gotta freebandz spoil myself.


Says the dude who stated he's like 1/4th welsh, Irish, Italian and some insignificant shyt? And only dark skinned BM should feel obligated to date BW.

How was that supportive and encouraging?
 

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You have to show people by action, once they see your success many will follow. Don't waste energy on mindless negativity, it will just throw you off of your game

Good luck in your endeavors!
That's real talk, but if you ain't having a positive mind in the beginning then even if you winning you losing.

But thanks bro, good luck on yours!

We need to make this shyt the thread where we post about dreams or goals that we have so others and ourselves can give support and ideas on how to go about achieving them.
 
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