Being friends with racists is black peoples form of edgelording/shock jocking
always trying to “have a conversation”. The dumbest aspect of our community
It's not even that.
They just think that they "made it" when racist cacs want to meet with them. Not realizing that they're being used.
But I recall something Jamie Foxx said on his radio show about when he won his Oscar. Revealing that dude is lost like a lot of Black people.
Anyway he said that all the famous Black women he could get due to his new found fame/status was basically no big deal and he felt like it was to be expected.
Instead he overwhelmed and impressed by being around cacs like Goldie Hawn and Warren Beatty

and had cacette actresses making passes at him because of his new fame which he thought was the greatest thing in the world.
Now he's known to run behind white women mostly but his actions are the same as Donald Glover, Kanye, most Black politicians, much of "Black Hollywood", Dave Chappelle, Chris Rock, Kenya Barris, etc...
Because they really think just being around cacs is great and is an accomplishment in and of itself. Regardless of the fact that cacs don't really want them there.