Rate of women cheating on their husbands increased by 40% since 1990

[Claudex]

75% is stupid high, its literally investing all your money in something that results in people losing all their money 75% of time. Doing so is borderline retarded.
I may be a cynical and pessimistic person but I'm also a rational person, and rationale/logic/math are telling me to stay the fukk away from this.

60-70% of losing it all, money, car, house kids, peace of mind, respect, self-esteem, etc. It's not worth it.
Being 'good' is overrated. Being a good person won't protect you from falling prey to bad people/situations. Being a good person isn't going to invalidate statistics and facts.

It's hurt, be hurt or opt out. These are the only choices. (In the West, I have no idea how other cultures truly operate.)

I respect your opinion and optimism nonetheless.

Alright, let me tell you a bit about the business of marriage...

People marry because there are some financial benefits to it. However they plan those benefits they can be worth investing in marriage, or not. It's like I was telling someone on another thread; cheating business men marry because that "clean family man" image makes them more money. People buy their bullshyt easier when they got a family picture with pops, mom and two well-behaved children on the cover of a magazine.

In that sense marriage isn't retarded, it's just a business deal with high-stakes. Where one false move can allow you to lose a lot with little to no benefit (Tiger Woods) at all.

Now, if you're not gonna be a family man and are comfortable in your ability to make the amount of money you want without marrying (and facing the downside of it, 'cause married people will whisper to each other about how your non-married ass should not be trusted to do business with) then that's fine, and I actually admire that. There comes a glass-ceiling with not marrying, and either you're gonna be comfortable with that glass ceiling OR you'll find a way to break it. High-stakes decisions indeed breh.

You ever watched that movie "There Will Be Blood"? The main character adopted his worker's son after his worker died in an oil well while they were on the come-up. But after that in every town he went he'd say: "This is my son H.W. Plainview, his mother died during labour and he's all I've got left". He spun that story every time because he knew, married men are seen a cut above non-married men.

Edit: It's intrinsic...or cultural. I honestly can't be sure as that's outside my field of study.

 

[Lamar Givens]

At the end of the day I’ll say it again...

MARRY “NON” PROVERBS 31 WOMEN BREHS



Then come on a forum and complain about them cheating brehs

 

[Lord Bison]

75% is stupid high, its literally investing all your money in something that results in people losing all their money 75% of time. Doing so is borderline retarded.
I may be a cynical and pessimistic person but I'm also a rational person, and rationale/logic/math are telling me to stay the fukk away from this.

60-70% of losing it all, money, car, house kids, peace of mind, respect, self-esteem, etc. It's not worth it.
Being 'good' is overrated. Being a good person won't protect you from falling prey to bad people/situations. Being a good person isn't going to invalidate statistics and facts.

It's hurt, be hurt or opt out. These are the only choices. (In the West, I have no idea how other cultures truly operate.)

I respect your opinion and optimism nonetheless.

I chose to opt out. This era of women have been the most untrustworthy chicks I've ever seen. I've accepted the fact that my road to success is predicated on my resolve and only my resolve. I refuse to let my resources and all my hard work get wiped out by today's modern day woman. 99% of women are pieces of shyt and the other 1% are off the market. The only way women will ever get the picture is if men collectively put their foot down and stopped kowtowing to their existence and hold them accountable. That won't happen for a long time. So it is what it is.

 

[The Fade]

Add in the fact that if you get a divorce the cheating bytch will still take half ur shyt

fukk marriage

This is my issue, why does the violator get rewarded in a sense? If you bust it up, you get no cut, that should be how it is

 

[lotteryplaya]

first comment:

@Supreme Leader Reinscarf @Cynic

first comment:
shiksappeal 7 minutes ago


My husband is a freaking unicorn. He cooks, he cleans, he does the dishes, he does the laundry, he takes out the garbage -- all without ever being asked to -- and he works full time at a well-paying job. He's also good-looking, selfless, thoughtful, and in shape, and we enjoy all the same TV shows, hobbies, activities, etc. Perfect, right? And yet, after 20-some years together, I'd be lying if I said I didn't desperately want to have sex with someone else once in a while. Not for love, or to punish my husband (for what?), or to feel "wanted," but just for...variety. It's ridiculous to think that only men crave something new once in a while. I'd never do it -- I clearly have far too much to lose -- but isn't that what these affairs are *really* all about?

@Supreme Leader Reinscarf @Cynic
@Supreme Leader Reinscarf @Cynic

Comment made me mad. Hope her husband somehow catches her still logged in and reads that off her phone or computer and divorces her. He brought anything a woman could ask for to the table and she is still isn't satisfied. She can go have all the sex she wants and he can go back on the market as a great catch. I am sure he is turning down a lot of women because he thinks his soulmate is happy and at home waiting for him.

 

[#1 pick]

These threads make me laugh. I know there is risk to marriage. We all do.

 

[#1 pick]

Usher been burning half of Atlanta ever since...

 

[Actually6Foot3]

Alright, let me tell you a bit about the business of marriage...

People marry because there are some financial benefits to it. However they plan those benefits they can be worth investing in marriage, or not. It's like I was telling someone on another thread; cheating business men marry because that "clean family man" image makes them more money. People buy their bullshyt easier when they got a family picture with pops, mom and two well-behaved children on the cover of a magazine.

In that sense marriage isn't retarded, it's just a business deal with high-stakes. Where one false move can allow you to lose a lot with little to no benefit (Tiger Woods) at all.

Now, if you're not gonna be a family man and are comfortable in your ability to make the amount of money you want without marrying (and facing the downside of it, 'cause married people will whisper to each other about how your non-married ass should not be trusted to do business with) then that's fine, and I actually admire that. There comes a glass-ceiling with not marrying, and either you're gonna be comfortable with that glass ceiling OR you'll find a way to break it. High-stakes decisions indeed breh.

You ever watched that movie "There Will Be Blood"? The main character adopted his worker's son after his worker died in an oil well while they were on the come-up. But after that in every town he went he'd say: "This is my son H.W. Plainview, his mother died during labour and he's all I've got left". He spun that story every time because he knew, married men are seen a cut above non-married men.

Edit: It's intrinsic...or cultural. I honestly can't be sure as that's outside my field of study.

had to chime in here.

nikka how old are you? that might have been true when those old business men were young back in the 80s and 90s when everyone was getting married early but no one looks down on you for being unmarried now(Except single women upset the pool of men has shrunk). 70% of men aged 20-35 are unmarried. A record high and growing. Youre gonna have a bunch of unmarried men judging other unmarried men??

 

[fkthisgaysite]

There's no incentive to get married for a man. It's better to wait 5 years and find a woman that's willing to be a life partner without getting married. Although I've heard stories where some form of alimony is possible if you've been together and lived together for years.

I WISH A bytch WOULD BRO

W H A

*THROWS PHONE IN TOILET*

 

[StickStickly]

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Thing is women file for divorce 75% of the time and also commit the most infidelity.

Most divorced men would have loved to stay with their family and wives.

those stats aren't related though.. you're assuming and associating other instances from the stat. I've never seen a study say that 75% file for divorce because they're all cheating. That's an assumption. You could also say there's a lot of domestic violence in marriage (men against women) so maybe that causes it? But we can't say for sure because that "75%" study didn't list causes. The truth is it could be that that percentage comes from a combination- domestic violence, women cheating, men cheating, marrying too young, disease, financial strain, religious differences, political differences, mental illness and substance abuse,child abuse, could be anything or all of it. It could be 50% of the women were in abusive marriages or their kids were being abused and 25% were cheating and wanted to be single. If you could flip those numbers. But who knows.

Also it doesn't mean that because women initiate divorce filing that the men a) didn't want a divorce too b) want to keep their family intact c) care about their marriage. All you can really scientifically hypothesize from that number is women walked their butts to the court house more often. Maybe the men were busy and the women had the time and the agreement to start it off.

 

[StickStickly]

This is my issue, why does the violator get rewarded in a sense? If you bust it up, you get no cut, that should be how it is

I'm not sure they do. Aren't there infidelity clauses in some states? The problem is you have to prove they cheated or you have to put a cheating clause in your prenuptial agreement. Most people don't want to start off their marriage with a "hey if you become a cheating little bytch you get nothing when I run from you ". It's a harsh thing to say so they don't do it, can't prove it to the court and wind up in shytty positions.

 

[StickStickly]

had to chime in here.

nikka how old are you? that might have been true when those old business men were young back in the 80s and 90s when everyone was getting married early but no one looks down on you for being unmarried now(Except single women upset the pool of men has shrunk). 70% of men aged 20-35 are unmarried. A record high and growing. Youre gonna have a bunch of unmarried men judging other unmarried men??

he's not saying people look down on you. He's saying in some businesses having a family gets you more business. It's true. It's a psychological thing especially in some specific businesses and social circles. It doesn't mean that unmarried men aren't successful, it just means a trick of some trades is to show of your family and your ability to be loyal stable, will work hard to support someone and so on.

 

[JLova]

Men created this insubordination

 

[JLova]

I'm not sure they do. Aren't there infidelity clauses in some states? The problem is you have to prove they cheated or you have to put a cheating clause in your prenuptial agreement. Most people don't want to start off their marriage with a "hey if you become a cheating little bytch you get nothing when I run from you ". It's a harsh thing to say so they don't do it, can't prove it to the court and wind up in shytty positions.

Key is to find a mate that loves you more than you love them or a broad that is infatuated with you. They are repulsed by the notion of being with someone else.

 

[The Devil's Advocate]

Simply not worth it. They want the wedding, the honeymoon, but can't commit to the idea of a monogamous relationship without getting something on the side. As noted in the article (very long read), they really don't feel bad about it because their side piece gave them something their husband couldn't. More power to those who have the will to see it through. Couldn't imagine being worried about my wife cheating on me when I'm out of town because I forgot to ask her how was her day. #GMB

thankfully men are getting smarter... marriage is in steady decline and has been for decades