Rate This Guy: Day 73 - Kentray Brown

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

There is always a method, there is always a reason. There is a reason you prefer one thing over another and to deny that is to be in denial of the truth because they don't want to be that guy. They don't want to admit a possible issued, they don't want to be part of a problem. They don't want to be shamed.

Women's choices are analyzed, I just did when I said why darker skin is sometimes preferred by them. There are women with color issues. There were whole families down here that would let people marry darker than a certain shade. There are women who value eurocentric features. I have said this over and over that colorism is not a male only thing. Then they say women want a thug, a bad boy they want aggression, they want security, they want money etc... It won't be mostly on looks because they say women look for those things that I just named. We are judged for them, and when we say different we are told we are lying.

I don't knock a height preference, or weight preference. I don't buy that whole fat shaming thing it's dumb to me. And true height and body type is rooting in masculinity and femininity. But here is the thing height and weight is not a racial thing. Those things don't have the history of skin color and race. It's not even the same as a white person preferring tanned or pale skin because it's all still white. Like I said the water is tainted and it may not be fair but that's life. That's living a place where there are racial divides and white is the standard of beauty this has been happening for centuries, it's ingrained so how could you separate it? For some it's not even a conscious thing.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

"oh, im taller and i dont want to look down on my dude"


cool, whole lotta black men that dont wanna be with a chick the same complexion or darker. why? cus he dont like the way it FEEEEELS

At least @ me if you are going to talk shyt. Most people call me light. I consider myself in the middle. Colorism has never personally impacted me negatively so if you're going to try to jab me you're going to have to do better than that. Turn your c00n meter up a little further.

 

[marcuz]

At least @ me if you are going to talk shyt. Most people call me light. I consider myself in the middle. Colorism has never personally impacted me negatively so if you're going to try to jab me you're going to have to do better than that. Turn your c00n meter up a little further.

like 5 of you said that shyt in this thread, i wasn't talking about you in particular

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

like 5 of you said that shyt in this thread, i wasn't talking about you in particular

But I said it so you were talking about me. The rest still applies. What you gotta say about BW who aren't considered "dark"?

 

[marcuz]

But I said it so you were talking about me. The rest still applies. What you gotta say about BW who aren't considered "dark"?

well its not just a black woman issue, all women are heightist. im just addressing BW cus y'all are the ones who always wanna bytch about colorism.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

well its not just a black woman issue, all women are heightist. im just addressing BW cus y'all are the ones who always wanna bytch about colorism.

So nothing.

 

[marcuz]

So nothing.

i dont know what you want me to say? most women are prejudice against shorter men.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

i dont know what you want me to say? most women are prejudice against shorter men.

So you're mad about something all women in general do and your response is to only attack dark skinned Black women?

 

[marcuz]

So you're mad about something all women in general do and your response is to only attack dark skinned Black women?

yeah, basically

if i was talking to a bunch of overweight cac women, i would approach the situation differently. bring up how they try to shame people into fat acceptance. always talking about body shaming, but wanna clown a nikka born short

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

yeah, basically

if i was talking to a bunch of overweight cac women, i would approach the situation differently. bring up how they try to shame people into fat acceptance. always talking about body shaming, but wanna clown a nikka born short

But not all the women are "dark". That's not something that negatively affects all BW. How is that an effective counter when it does not even affect us all?

 

[marcuz]

But not all the women are "dark". That's not something that negatively affects all BW. How is that an effective counter when it does even affect us all?

oh, if you're asking me to sling darts at women in specific groups. i would just tell you that's why nikkas is dating outside the race entirely, its just another preference.

i mean, listen, this conversation is just about trying to give you selfish women SOME perspective. y'all want men to collectively accept single motherhood, obesity, poor attitudes, a shady past, piercings and tattoos, etc. but when it comes to women changing their social conditioning, y'all refuse to budge even a little.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

oh, if you're asking me to sling darts at women in specific groups. i would just tell you that's why nikkas is dating outside the race entirely, its just another preference.

i mean, listen, this conversation is just about trying to give you selfish women SOME perspective. y'all want men to collectively accept single motherhood, obesity, poor attitudes, a shady past, piercings and tattoos, etc. but when it comes to women changing their social conditioning, y'all refuse to budge even a little.

I'm not asking you to do anything. I am just wondering why that was the argument you choose to run with since it doesn't really equate. As far as the rest, I've never asked a man to do anything of that. I have no problem with men choosing what they want in women.

 

[MalikX]

I'm not asking you to do anything. I am just wondering why that was the argument you choose to run with since it doesn't really equate. As far as the rest, I've never asked a man to do anything of that. I have no problem with men choosing what they want in women.

It equates. You just don't give a fukk because it doesn't affect you. Wanting a particular race/color, at it's core level, is social conditioning, is it not? Just like wanting a taller man because society warps your mind to equate it with masculinity is social conditioning. For the last 100 years, the media has bombarded your mind with images to think the taller the man is, the more attractive he is. Which propels this desire for 6"4 men when for most of history women were evidently fine with guys who were 2-4 inches taller than them; since short men are still walking around today. What changed? The media. So, how is that not social conditioning? In the same way, people were brainwashed to equate lighter skin with status, success and importance. Also, as evidence against any racial conditioning, scientists have published studies that suggest that darker skin is inherently seen as masculine whereas lighter skin is viewed to be more feminine. Just by lightening the face or darkening the face, a face appears more feminine/masculine. Again, regardless of race. So @marcuz is absolutely correct in his assessment. Cry about colorism only to practice heightism yourself. You don't even see men complaining about colorism and we just as black as yall. And there was time periods where lighter skin men were in and men still didn't/don't complain like black women about it. You just want a pity party. It's hypocritical. We all have our preferences. You don't get to say someone else's is wrong when you got a list of shallow ass requirements yourself.

 

[MalikX]

The average American man is 5'9 so your delusions don't fit into reality. Most women here are dating short men, the fact that you're still crying about this lunatics height days later says volumes about you.

Why don't you logically express why you identify with this man so much. Were you abused as a child, scared to smile, they called you ugly?

So why do girls say "6 feet only" then

Besides, we already know this. 6 foot tall men are 14% of the male pop. which makes the requirement even more silly which is why men call it out all the time.

It's like men saying "only women who are a size 8 waist and under"

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

It equates. You just don't give a fukk because it doesn't affect you. Wanting a particular race/color, at it's core level, is social conditioning, is it not? Just like wanting a taller man because society warps your mind to equate it with masculinity is social conditioning. For the last 100 years, the media has bombarded your mind with images to think the taller the man is, the more attractive he is. Which propels this desire for 6"4 men when for most of history women were evidently fine with guys who were 2-4 inches taller than them; since short men are still walking around today. What changed? The media. So, how is that not social conditioning? In the same way, people were brainwashed to equate lighter skin with status, success and importance. Also, as evidence against any racial conditioning, scientists have published studies that suggest that darker skin is inherently seen as masculine whereas lighter skin is viewed to be more feminine. Just by lightening the face or darkening the face, a face appears more feminine/masculine. Again, regardless of race. So @marcuz is absolutely correct in his assessment. Cry about colorism only to practice heightism yourself. You don't even see men complaining about colorism and we just as black as yall. And there was time periods where lighter skin men were in and men still didn't/don't complain like black women about it. You just want a pity party. It's hypocritical. We all have our preferences. You don't get to say someone else's is wrong when you got a list of shallow ass requirements yourself.

First, I'm wasn't talk to you. Second, I don't even care about height so the basic of your arguments wrong. Third, men complain all the time so GTFOOHWTBS. You're complaning now. Fourth, how do I want a "pity party" for something you already admitted doesn't affect me? Fifth, all social programing doesn't equate and it's the worst argument made for your justification of colorism so far. What are going to equate driving on the right side of the road with colorism too ?

Sir colorism affects both Black men and women and is a war tactic used to divide us. "Heightism" just stops short men from running through as many women as they want so spare me your tears and weak argument. Boo hoo

So please let the man answer himself. He does it better than you in a far more entertaining way. Thanks