Real nikkas don't really trip over their girl's past.

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@StarGirl I think you make an interesting point.
Also I think alot of men feel that a woman can humiliate them in front of other men if a woman has sex or previously had sex with other men.

I feel like a real secure man can't really be humiliated by what a woman does sexually.
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I'm forsure you aren't a man but a women in disguise.
 

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nikka u should be slap

It's not only about her sexual history

It's about what her past regarding everything, her financial situations throughout life, is she in constant debt and have bad spending habits.

Do she have a criminal history, credit card scams, bad nikkas she help do dirt with, jail record.

Broke nikkas with nothing to lose don't care about a woman past..nikkas with careers and homes and Condos do.

fukk i look like married or being in a serious relationship with a woman who had more bodies than the BTK killer, a history of filings chapter 7s or 13 and history of being a drunk and smoke head..

I see why bytches get over on u nikkas

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Breh put it perfectly!
 

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Still waiting on that post from a nikka who "ain't tryna marry no bytch with a body count"

....and has a girlfriend or some steady ass to hit ...right now...

or ever...


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Just no :snoop:

Way off base, there's consequences to wiving up and locking down chicks who been ran.....

It's not all about pipe game, women get bored of the same old thing in relationships like men do. Women get curious about that new dude at work, like men at who notice the new chick at work.....

The biggest issue men have with women, is that we're never fully sure of paternity. Women can sleep around, get pregnant by someone else and keep it to herself that see was sleeping multiple people during the time of conception.

That's what men are paranoid about. A women who sleeps around obviously gets bored of the same old thing. Even though the dude she's with could be putting it down. I've had girls I was smashing, who had great p*ssy, but I still jacked off to porn like 30 minutes after she left.

People can have everything, but still step out and risk it all for a quick fix. A women who sleeps around isn't empowered that shyt shows a lack of self control....

Biologically you’re correct. The only reason that women evolved to be a little less promiscuous than men is because we have a 9 month downtime when we get pregnant. That is it.

A woman who hasn’t been with many men doesn’t not get bored. She just may be less inclined to act out on her feelings. Because of societal pressure.

There’s no moral base for monogamy. We just act it out. Our bodies were built for sperm competition, and producing the best possible offspring- which is where men miss the mark.

Take for instance, when a guy hasn’t seen his woman for a while, he has more vigorous sex- not just from missing her, but trying to compete on the off chance that she may have been with someone else.

The truth of the matter is somewhere in the middle. With less risk of pregnancy, with things like condoms and birth control, what’s left is the residual emotions- which, yes, does include how well the other partner performs.

Biologically, the behaviors and opinions you guys are exhibiting in this thread is what you’re supposed to be doing- acting out the phenomenon of mate-guarding. I’m just offering a different viewpoint.

Also, hi @Serious
 

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Go with what makes you feel comfortable.If the idea of your girl getting her back blown by a bevy of dudes before she met you out makes you cringe,find yourself a nice homely girl with a body count that makes you feel good about yourself.I think that her body count is just first on a list of stuff you need to think about before you wife any woman up.i had a lot of boxes to check before i got with the woman that had our kids.we broke up and my kids are straight.I could give a fukk about body count now since i dont plan on having a family with none of them and they dont get within a mile of my kids or siblings.
 

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I'm not gonna ask her her body count. If you pay enough attention you will see whether a woman's a thot or not. And I can't wife a thot and I see plenty people who do. I may fukk with them and never take them seriously but wifing or investing in? Nah
I will want to know if she has done some red flag type sexual activities or seems to have been easy or had multiple partners. But I won't want to know by her giving me a number. Context is everything too.

Plus if I ask her body count she might want to know mine and id have to lie to her. I have high body count but none of them is touching how important my current is to me.
This... Truth.com... I don't need the number to know her character.
 
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