Real talk, do women actually believe in love?

[StickStickly]

a dr marrying a nurse, a lawyer marrying his assistant, matt damon marrying a bartender, men for the most part will always marry a level below them, women follow hypergamy and equalness not men.

Most men making 60k a year will have no problem marrying the secretary making 29k, if she's cute and has her heard on the shoulders. Men aren't looking for security

Of course men are just not looking for personality, but the majority of men will marry someone who is not th ehottest, most curvy, richest woman they can get. While women follow hypergamy

Not true. You're using celebs as examples. In real life, people marry people of certain social standing. Most wealthy or upper middle class will marry wealthy and upper middle class. If a lawyer is marrying a secretary, there's something you aren't seeing, and that's the fact that her father is the CEO of so and so and she comes from a family that meets his own background of class and wealth.

Most men don't meet down unless they came from "down" before they started climbing the latter. That's why all of these new money people marry models or even people who aren't that classy. But old money families would never ever marry down. I think that's why most men here wouldn't mind dating a girl that works at family dolar because they've been there and don't have the social stigma or family pressure or dislike of dating someone with that background. As long as she's cute...

 

[blackzeus]

This thread is full of bullshyt.

Why do you feel that way breh?

 

[Jone2three45]

Im right tho

Whatever makes you get through the day

 

[Amulet of Immortality]

Females don't believe in love, they believe in their own survival. Whether it's drowning their children because they don't want to raise them or handing them off to their new boyfriend who is a child molester. Only time a woman wins versus a man is when the man let's her rent space in his head (up to and including getting married and thus being mind controlled by the female counterpart).

 

[StickStickly]

Again, we're not talking about marriage, we're talking about LOVE, like in the Casablanca, Carmen, Beauty and the Beast, Casanova, There's Something About Mary, 50 First Dates type of love.

I was replying to someone who was talking about marriage, but I didn't quote them.

 

[CrimsonTider]

Why do you feel that way breh?

A lot of men trying to explain how women feel and perceive things can't help but to be full of shyt

 

[CrimsonTider]

This fair. I get that. Its been said that when it comes to relationship men are like simple arithmetic, while women are advanced calculus. Women are far more likely to overthink sht, and put up unnecessary barriers and hurdles that complicate matters of the heart and opposite sex. It is what it is.

I really don't want to get caught up in this thread but, This comes from the fact that we have to lie to women and act like we are really into them just to become a fukk buddy.

When women feel we don't want more than that it affects them with the next guy they're really into.That's where the barriers and the other bullshyt come into play.

Its no different than the lames on here attacking every single thing about women because they are unable to attract the women they think they deserve

 

[blackzeus]

A lot of men trying to explain how women feel and perceive things can't help but to be full of shyt

"Full of sh*t" is a generic response breh. If you're going to come in here to crush the buildings, at least give a solid reason Otherwise it's just a shock post, in which case no need to participate on your end.

 

[CrimsonTider]

"Full of sh*t" is a generic response breh. If you're going to come in here to crush the buildings, at least give a solid reason Otherwise it's just a shock post, in which case no need to participate on your end.

Post #172 is the best i can do.
This thread has been rehashed over and over

 

[StickStickly]

I know a lot of dudes that have dated unattractive women. In fact, usually the first person to take a chance outside their comfort zone, is a dude. For a chick to take a chance, you gotta be on another level, or something she wouldn't normally attain (e.g. fat white bish dating diesel black dude). For a dude to take a chance, he just needs the chick to make him feel special. I mean, look at this sh*t:

^^^you really think these guys couldn't find better women? They just found something special about the chick and fell for them. Again, love in the traditional sense is way more normal for guys than girls. Sh*t is really when you think about it.

man how'd I miss this lol

Mark met that woman at Harvard. She's not just someone who was no body they don't fit what you're trying to say. She's a Harvard grad and a pediatrician. She's brilliant and supported him. Also Jewish men in MA have a fetish for Asian woman. You really think Mark would've married her if she worked at UNOs lol?!!!!



That woman with James Gandolfini is gorgeous. What are you talking about he could do better.



The last example is a rarity. A rarity! The pic with the fat white woman and the black man is just racial inferiority of the black guy (any white girl is a good white girl) but this is pic is just rare.



I don't understand why people think sexual or physical attraction- liking superficial qualities like smells and looks- is a truer type of love than liking someone for their work ethic? Both are superficial.

 

[blackzeus]

Not true. You're using celebs as examples. In real life, people marry people of certain social standing. Most wealthy or upper middle class will marry wealthy and upper middle class. If a lawyer is marrying a secretary, there's something you aren't seeing, and that's the fact that her father is the CEO of so and so and she comes from a family that meets his own background of class and wealth.

Most men don't meet down unless they came from "down" before they started climbing the latter. That's why all of these new money people marry models or even people who aren't that classy. But old money families would never ever marry down. I think that's why most men here wouldn't mind dating a girl that works at family dolar because they've been there and don't have the social stigma or family pressure or dislike of dating someone with that background. As long as she's cute...

While I do agree with you, a LOT of men marry down all the time because of love. Of course, if your social circle mainly consists of society's elite, that's probably what you're going to end up with. But it's very common for a man to marry beneath him.

25 people who married royalty

5 of the 25 are men, of which 2 divorced in less than a year I think, and 1 was 24 years younger than the woman Basically, it's 5x as likely for a man to marry down than for a woman to marry down brehette Yet again, men love, women calculate.

 

[blackzeus]

man how'd I miss this lol

Mark met that woman at Harvard. She's not just someone who was no body they don't fit what you're trying to say. She's a Harvard grad and a pediatrician. She's brilliant and supported him. Also Jewish men in MA have a fetish for Asian woman. You really think Mark would've married her if she worked at UNOs lol?!!!!

That woman with James Gandolfini is gorgeous. What are you talking about he could do better.

The last example is a rarity. A rarity! The pic with the fat white woman and the black man is just racial inferiority of the black guy (any white girl is a good white girl) but this is pic is just rare.

I don't understand why people think sexual or physical attraction- liking superficial qualities like smells and looks- is a truer type of love than liking someone for their work ethic? Both are superficial.

at the bolded. If that's the case then all the women I've dated are dimes. Superficial in regards to love means that you attach something to love that has nothing to do with love, e.g. money, work ethic, social status, etc. Love is supposed to be a feeling, the way someone smells, looks, smiles, their nature, their voice etc, give you a certain feeling, so I don't see those things as superficial.

And you missed my main point. My point was do you really think if it was all about looks and status, that the guys I posted couldn't find hotter chicks? My point was that they married beneath what they could normally achieve because of the feeling those women gave them.

 

[Lefty Gunz]

Some do, others just love the idea

 

[sixsixtwo]

Men love idealistically, women love opportunistically..

 

[blackzeus]

Men love idealistically, women love opportunistically..

Very well said