Real Talk: If your friend makes/Grinded to boatloads of money and did not break you off....

[old pig]

If he don’t teach you how to get your own paper then he’s not a friend.

If you sitting there expecting a handout you a bytch nikka.

to be fair sometimes you try to put your ppl’s on and they ignore you until you succeed then they want to jump in the mix all late...then you have no choice but to distance yourself from them cuz they eventually gonna start to hate smh

 

[ajnapoleon]

bruh I believe you. It starts out with slick ass comments too.

"damn her come the rich nikka"
0 how much is this/that"
"What you mean I got to pay you back. You got mad bread"

You outgrow these folks and need to ditch them asap. Rich folks only hang with like minded and like pocketed folks. nikkas can be leeches financially and mentally.

Yup thats how it starts right there

the use the word borrow and say they will pay you right back

then when you ask for it back on the date they set


its "why you need it you got all the money"

 

[ajnapoleon]

to be fair sometimes you try to put your ppl’s on and they ignore you until you succeed then they want to jump in the mix all late...then you have no choice but to distance yourself from them cuz they eventually gonna start to hate smh

And before you know it they on DJ vlad with the slander in a 30 part series

 

[Kilgore Trout]

i have a few friends that are multi millionaires

that would be feminine to expect them to break me off

 

[WaveCapsByOscorp™]

Situations like that usually just make me work harder, even if I experience an instance of jealousy. Now, if I didn’t advance and worked really hard at it, that might lead me to be envious on a longer term.

I’ve seen men get catty over less so I’m sure if it was substantial...

 

[Amused Mastery]

to be fair sometimes you try to put your ppl’s on and they ignore you until you succeed then they want to jump in the mix all late...then you have no choice but to distance yourself from them cuz they eventually gonna start to hate smh

Lol exactly

You start a new venture - “Dude that’s never gonna work, you’re a fool”

You start seeing results - “We always believed in you!”

 

[fckyoupayme]

Im telling you i see it almost everyday


as soon a guy gets a stable job people seem to learn when he gets paid down to the day to ask him for money

You surrounded by the wrong kind of people breh

 

[13473]

it affects me in no way. i'm not romantically involved with her nor am I her child, so why would I expect anything?

 

[Benefited]

I hate how its percieved the person with more money has to "outgrow" the people with less money around him. Not that its wrong if you feel its a matter of safety. But mentally you can have less money than somebody and outgrow them. Ive seen plenty of people start to make a little more money and become completely consumed by it. If your priority suddenly becomes money over friends and family,I would have to distance myself if it became a trend. That is a sign of your character. I remember I started making more money and got busier,suddenly i stopped calling to check on my mama and sisters as much because i was "just too tired". Stopped being there to support friends at partys and events because i was "getting to the bag". Started neglecting my daughter and righteous attachment "Im doing this for yall". Nah I was being a piss poor family man,not living up to my role as one if,and THE man in the family.Dont ever take abuse,neglect and disrespect,and let somebody convince you its okay because it was money related.Nah get on your job.Or of course you can just cut them off and blame them for not "respecting your grind" of course:respect:.

 

[Amused Mastery]

I hate how its percieved the person with more money has to "outgrow" the people with less money around him.

It’s not about having more money that makes you “outgrow” a circle of friends, it’s the mentality of said circles that you find yourself moving away from. If you’re trying to grow and you’re surrounded by negative people that don’t want to achieve anything in life or otherwise don’t challenge you, sometimes you gotta dip. That adage of “if you’re the sharpest knife in the drawer, you need to find a new drawer” is real.

You can always check in on old friends and family, but your primary circle has to grow with you.

 

[Benefited]

the answer to the question is it depends on how many boats.if my friend becomes the black Jeff Bezos and dont break me off nothing? I could see resentment growing. Because im willing to bet youll see him blowing the money on ho's and nonsense. I just cant relate. But i dont know maybe I would be fine.I just assume that thought would pop into my head at some point. I would never get to the point where i let myself become one of they haters though.

 

[Meowth tote da Uzi]

Hell nah I'm not entitled to another mans money. I'd only be mad if he stole my ideas to get money or if we had some type of agreement and he tried to fanagle me (which wouldn't happen because personal friend or not everyone gotta sign a contract if we doing business)

 

[Freedman]

I got a spin on this.

How bout if you was breaking bread with them before they got on ??


I got a homie who I sent over 2000 dollars via Zelle in the last year. One of my 10 year nikkas that's looked out for me since we were little so I'd never hesitate to pop him off when he'd ask and I really never was worried bout getting it back. Well Fast forward to now this MF just graduated college and is working at Boeing and he just got a Porsche that he's always stunting with on social media and lately I been like This MF owe me something

 

[old pig]

the answer to the question is it depends on how many boats.if my friend becomes the black Jeff Bezos and dont break me off nothing? I could see resentment growing. Because im willing to bet youll see him blowing the money on ho's and nonsense. I just cant relate. But i dont know maybe I would be fine.I just assume that thought would pop into my head at some point. I would never get to the point where i let myself become one of they haters though.

so you would feel comfortable w/ your friend giving you $$$ in the same manner that he spends it on “ho’s and nonsense” ...? cuz I can promise you he won’t...and he’d ultimately lose respect for you...now it’s different if you’re hoping he could put you in a situation where you can earn $$$ as opposed to him just giving it to you

 

[Benefited]

It’s not about having more money that makes you “outgrow” a circle of friends, it’s the mentality of said circles that you find yourself moving away from. If you’re trying to grow and you’re surrounded by negative people that don’t want to achieve anything in life or otherwise don’t challenge you, sometimes you gotta dip. That adage of “if you’re the sharpest knife in the drawer, you need to find a new drawer” is real.

You can always check in on old friends and family, but your primary circle has to grow with you.

This is only looking at it from one aspect which is a financial one. How much money somebody has doesnt inherently add or subtract from ones overall character. Though the money or lack thereof often does expose their character,or cause it to deteriorate or grow. I value morals and who they are with family and friends more than someones ability to make money. People always assume the character flaw is within the person who isnt making the money. As if people dont start making more money only to lose all of the things that made them a person of great morals and character before they had money. It can go both ways,but usually i just see the less fortunate person in the relatiobship get blamed for being lazy,not growing.Growing your circle is different fron cutting off or distancing yourself from your old circle. That in itself is a charactet flaw if you choose money over friends.