Realistically Speaking

[Software]

Because females are females so why not go for the ones that are the most attractive and understand my struggle the most?

Nothing any other race of females can give me that a black women can't.

What black woman you know, that can make some good noodles with curry on it?
But then again what chinese woman you know can fry up some good ass chicken?

Each race of women have pros and cons breh

Like if you plan on yo sons goin to the league or playin college sports you better not fukk wit no lil asian woman

 

[onelastdeath]

I hate when people act like blacks are limiting ourselves for being attracted to our own

Its not that, but to say that you flat out aren't attracted to other races is a lie. You should be attracted to the people who look most like you, I rank BW first on my attraction scale for sure, but I dont date them exclusively.

 

[DarlingNikki]

It's a big world. With a lot of opportunity. Im not bashing anyone who does it, it just seems like it'd be hard to do. To be with black women exclusively is limiting yourself to everything thats out there.

How are you limiting yourself if you're going after what you're most attracted to? There are black women from all different cultures and countries, I don't think there's a limit to the type of black woman you can date.

Because as nikkas move up in life, black women become less abundant and women of other races become much more available

The same could be said in reverse and no one makes these threads for black women. I don't think anyone should have to explain their dating choices. Being attracted solely to black women isn't unrealistic.

 

[onelastdeath]

Because females are females so why not go for the ones that are the most attractive and understand my struggle the most?

Nothing any other race of females can give me that a black women can't.

And not to be disrespectful, but isnt your son mixed?

 

[Software]

Exactly. But I find all races attractive. Politics aside, we are all human at the end of the day. To say you ONLY find BW is attractive would also be a lie.

It has a lot to do with conditioning from the maternal parental unit in the household. Black women often times pressure their sons not to fukk with white women and women of other races cuz they fell victim to that colorism shyt themselves and don't want their sons thirstin over lighter shades of women just cuz they lighter which is good and bad at the same time

 

[Software]

How are you limiting yourself if you're going after what you're most attracted to? There are black women from all different cultures and countries, I don't think there's a limit to the type of black woman you can date.




The same could be said in reverse and no one makes these threads for black women. I don't think anyone should have to explain their dating choices. Being attracted solely to black women isn't unrealistic.

What do you mean exactly?

 

[DarlingNikki]

What black woman you know, that can make some good noodles with curry on it?

@Spotlessmind

 

[XII]

Realistically, what is there to experience culturally about white women

 

[onelastdeath]

How are you limiting yourself if you're going after what you're most attracted to? There are black women from all different cultures and countries, I don't think there's a limit to the type of black woman you can date.

Once again, dating black women is cool. I do it all the time. to say that you won't date or fukk someone who isn't black, or pretending that every person who isnt black is is a lie. And is unrealistic.

The last woman I dated that wasnt black was years ago, but Ive been with women who weren't black without pretending that they weren't attractive because it's "pro black"

 

[Software]

Realistically, what is there to experience culturally about white women

Starbucks

 

[DarlingNikki]

What do you mean exactly?

When black women "move up in life" black men also become less abundant. Black women aren't telling each other it's unrealistic to only date black men, or that we need to experience other cultures…

 

[onelastdeath]

Realistically, what is there to experience culturally about white women

Who said that white women are the only women in the world who aren't black?

It's like every time someone talks about IR it means white.

 

[DarlingNikki]

Once again, dating black women is cool. I do it all the time. to say that you won't date or fukk someone who isn't black, or pretending that every person who isnt black is is a lie. And is unrealistic.

The last woman I dated that wasnt black was years ago, but Ive been with women who weren't black without pretending that they weren't attractive because it's "pro black"

That's your experience, who are you to tell another man that his preference is a lie?

 

[onelastdeath]

When black women "move up in life" black men also become less abundant. Black women aren't telling each other it's unrealistic to only date black men, or that we need to experience other cultures…

That's not exactly true. People just don't care when BW date out. On the coli people care, but not in real life. People only care when black men date out. Not trying to turn this into another BW vs BM thread, so I'll just leave this here.

 

[onelastdeath]

That's your experience, who are you to tell another man that his preference is a lie?

Because its a lie. PREFERRING Black women is GREAT. And I do. To say that you don't find anyone who isnt black attractive is a lie. Period.