@Emperor_ReinScarfsits... because I feel like Imma learn from this thread...
Red Flags when it comes to dating.
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Huge red flag. I had to learn the hard way.
You're in the minority breh.
It's just a red flag, you aint necessarily ejected from the game.
Oh wait, in soccer red cards do mean you're out of the game.
My bad, yo.
There are exceptions for every rule, I'm just not willing to take that chance, I'm sure there are some great women out there from broken homes, I'm sure there are women truely remorseful for cheating on their bf and haven't cheated in any other relationship since then and maybe they won't cheat again, I wish them all the happiness in the world just not with me
CinnaSlim
Queen of Swords
Everyone's got their own red flags and priorities.
It is what it is.
Recently I've been thinking about that family thing though. Like more than I ever did in the past.
A lot of the people I know that had aggressive, drama-filled relationships were with people who didn't get along well with their mothers or fathers.
And it's just like...if you can't respect your own parents, how can I trust you to respect me? If you don't take wisdom from your parents, how can you learn from others to grow?
And with no disrespect to @Ciggavelli who comes out of a special circumstance, that's just a big thing to consider when I look at a woman now.
What about the people the genuinely have bad parents? My mom's a horrible alcoholic and my dad's a bum. What, I'm supposed to be punished for that?
Just like how some people are short but may be great people but women don't give em a chance shrugs
EA
A Pound & A Prayer
Can't quantify their thoughts.
Has an Instagram and 90% of their pics are selfies.
Has no idea of what a successful healthy relationship looks like.
Doesn't mind having kids before marriage.
Has an Instagram and 90% of their pics are selfies.
Has no idea of what a successful healthy relationship looks like.
Doesn't mind having kids before marriage.
You took my post
so lemme try to add:The lying about nothing for no reason is almost sociopathic to me. Sticking to your word is an underrated trait because it encompasses big and small things that shows character or a lack thereof. You said you'll do this at that time for me? I gotta rely on you to stick to it. Don't give me excuses outside of some crazy exigent circumstance.
Can't stand a chick that can't take initiative or return the effort/appreciation I put in. Not even the "lemme cover the tab" stuff but little things too.
yep I dated a girl who came from a horrible family, actually called her mother a c*nt although her mother did stay with her step father who sexual molested her.
that's another red flag women who were raped/molested and did not go through therapy don't do it brehs :kony:
And yep if someone can't respect their mom or dad how can they ever respect or love you?
the same how if someone cheated in the past and you know it, if somebody has shown the capability of being disloyal to a man how do I know she won't do the same to me
I guess I just look at woman differently than y'all. I try to keep an open mind. Probably because I have an interesting past myself
Sleeps with u after the bar.
CinnaSlim
Queen of Swords
I think respect is a huge part of that. Like, you don't have to like them or agree with their ways but just respect the fact that they brought you into the world and raised you (if that is the case).
everyone is different and has their own rules and regulations.
Goes to the gym but dnt do nothin but take pics:jayme:
smokes cigarettes:jayme:
Always wanna be in drama:jayme:
Dnt suck dikk:jayme:
On her phone too much:jayme:
Dnt buy me stuff or pay for things:jayme:
gotta alot of guy friends:jayme:
is boring and cnt make me laugh:jayme:
smokes cigarettes:jayme:
Always wanna be in drama:jayme:
Dnt suck dikk:jayme:
On her phone too much:jayme:
Dnt buy me stuff or pay for things:jayme:
gotta alot of guy friends:jayme:
is boring and cnt make me laugh:jayme:
