In all seriousness though, and this is based on stuff i've noticed from a bunch of different places, so i'm not claiming it as fact this is just my opinion, i do think where some black women mess up is not being nice enough to the well-rounded bros in high school and college (for the record, i'm not speaking for myself because i wasn't focused enough on academics in high school, i was more of a jock and class clown, but i did see it and i do believe there's truth to it, it's not just a made up urban legend IMO). Most black men ARE attracted to black women, and most of the dudes who date other races didn't do it because they don't like black women's looks, i'd say about 98% of the reasons i've ever seen or heard had to do with lack of respect, personality and/or rejecting traditional gender roles
When some ppl say white and asian women are bigger golddiggers, they're right, and they usually do it at the best time, in college.
As i've said before, I don't agree with getting on like Youtube and making videos about black women etc. But when a random faceless anonymous black man on a board like this says in a topic that he was treated better by white or hispanic women growing up, or in college or even now etc a lot of ppl automatically say they're lying, they're just trying to make black women look bad, black women would never do that to him, etc
How about instead of assuming that all those guys are just making it all up, consider that MAYBE some of it has truth to it (depending on what it is). I can't speak for anybody else but i talk about what black men need to improve on all the time on here. If you're familiar with my post history you know. I'd say at least 50% of my threads/posts are me talking about how we need to become more business-minded, build and invest, pass down more to our kids, etc. If i'm allowed to talk about what black men need to improve on,
I should be able to do the same when it comes to black women (when necessary, not out of the blue in a topic about some random shyt)