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"b-b-but that's different doe"How about you ask Black Men how they feel about sleeping with White Women, who at one point would get them lynched easily.![]()
"b-b-but that's different doe"How about you ask Black Men how they feel about sleeping with White Women, who at one point would get them lynched easily.![]()
I remember reading this book by David Mamet, where he highlighted the reason why African Americans have the worst experience in America. He said,
"Racist America elected African Americans The Villain. Once elected, that race suffered not because it was the cause of the whites' unrest, but because it was not. Christian Europe elected Jews the cause of its distress, and fury against the Jews mounted as each pogrom proved unrewarding. Anti-Semitism flourishes today in Germany, a country virtually devoid of Jews."
What I'm trying to say by posting that lengthy quote is that the black woman is not the reason why interracial relationships are looked at unfavorably. There seems to be the notion that it's black women and "their foot soldiers" that create the hostility that surrounds interracial dating. The narrative is then that everyone has accepted interracial dating outside of those within the race who are trying to, in a sense, 'hold people back'. It's unfortunate that the black woman gets the brunt of that cross to bear. This is because the black woman is not the one who made laws against interracial dating, nor is she the one that operates under the assumption that by virtue of her whiteness, you can be tempted to do the white man's bidding.
I distinctly remember sitting in a class where we were reading a novel of Baldwin's, coincidentally, and his main character- who almost always reads as himself- remarked that he had apprehension over telling his sister of his new girlfriend- because that girlfriend was white. He then said that his sister would most likely say that he hated being black and that she was a plain white woman- and he would never give a plain black woman a chance. The sister didn't have a chance to say this, but the thought of her saying this was enough. He later kills himself because of the pressures of being black within a very racist America.
The pressures of being a black man in America- those pressures I know nothing about but can imagine- often have very very little to do with the woman counterpart of the black race. Because- it is not the black woman that oppresses the black man. But, to be given the burden to carry, when oftentimes not having done anything deserving of that burden, is unfair.
TLDR: I understand where your frustration is coming from, but it's directed at the wrong demographic.
I'm sorry but I'm going to have to respectfully disagree with you. No one goes harder about Black men being in interracial relationships than Black Women and their simps. I honestly don't even know how anyone can deny this at this point. Every time a brotha dates outside the race BW and their simps lose it. I'm obviously not taking about all Black women btw, as some BW don't give a damn but a very large number seem absolutely obsessed about Black men in interracial relationships. shyt is borderline creepy in my opinion.
That's what Black Women need to do, is to only care about themselves and their families.They NEED to be selfish.What they are doing now is what keeps them stagnant. Seeing their Father, brother,uncle,etc in every Black man they see on the street is their down fall.
& I would prefer a daughter.I don't want a son.
How about you ask Black Men how they feel about sleeping with White Women, who at one point would get them lynched easily.![]()
I don't believe in that.
Black Women have been taught this narrative since the beginning of time & have paid their dues.If Black Women put just as much effort into themselves as they did in the Black Community and Black Men, there would be a major difference.They need to focus on things that affect them directly.
Those things can be improved without Black Men.Black women have the power to build better lives for themselves.They have the power to escape bad situations.
- Black Women & Health
- Black Women & Education
- Black Women & Parenthood
I've seen it plenty of times in real life and on the internet. I have some personal stories myself but I don't really feel like getting into it. All I want is for everyone to date whoever they want. I don't want to see brothas calling dark skin sistas ugly and then getting mad when the same sistas they didn't want end up with White men. I don't want to see Sistas going on Television shytting on Black men and then getting butthurt when the same Black men they shytted on end up with Non-Black women. Both ends of the spectrum are absolute fukkery to meIt's okay- there's no right and wrong in these kinds of things. Is this personal experience, or on the internet?
@Ronnie Lott I wake up and see you in my alerts about 8 times (I haven't and won't bother reading them btw) . Im assuming you're furious about me tagging you here
You love your pawgs, you would've Usain Bolted your way in here regardless. I was just giving you a heads up
List these forums?The sad part about this is that's probably a white male saying it. There is a nefarious pathos behind white men and their views on their women with blk men. A lotta blk men aren't aware but white men actually like it when they worship white women and fukk em too. Cuckholds aside, white males understand the elevation of white women as a symbol of desire is a pillar of myths of white superiority. I've actually been on forums where white males literally got ANGRY at blk dudes who didn't express attraction to white females.
It's like they were offended by the idea that a blk man might actually prefer the features of his own people. White people are strange.
@Ronnie Lott I wake up and see you in my alerts about 8 times (I haven't and won't bother reading them btw) . Im assuming you're furious about me tagging you here
You love your pawgs, you would've Usain Bolted your way in here regardless. I was just giving you a heads up![]()
I've seen it plenty of times in real life and on the internet. I have some personal stories myself but I don't really feel like getting into it. All I want is for everyone to date whoever they want. I don't want to see brothas calling dark skin sistas ugly and then getting mad when the same sistas they didn't want end up with White men. I don't want to see Sistas going on Television shytting on Black men and then getting butthurt when the same Black men they shytted on end up with Non-Black women. Both ends of the spectrum are absolute fukkery to me![]()
These militants can't even read and comprehend shyt written on forums.... of course you nikkas wouldnt survive in the world of business.....
How you gon read and understand a contract if you can't comprehend a random nikka on thecoli![]()
@Malt-O-Meal this was her 1st post in a thread where she said it herself, was directed towards black men.& They say I'm thirsty for white peen.
For all of you who try to call me out on my "thirst," where art thou for your fellow brehthren?
This thread like many others on here, reeks of desperation for White women, who on average would choose a One Direction band member over a black man any day of the week.
Shut the fukk up& That's the thing.
He will call another black woman a bed wench and say all those things he said to me to her at the drop of a dime.Black Men like him don't think too highly of Black women to begin with.They just like to put on this facade like they are "for the community."But let a black woman make him upset or involve herself with White males in anyway, she is the most vile creature on this planet.
"All I want is for everyone to date whoever they want."
Me too. I guess we're just on different sides basically saying the same thing.
I'm also a tad bit disingenuous because this topic has nothing to do with me. I've never had a bad experience with a black guy and I've been with one for years. I'm just on thecoli this weekend because I'm procrastinating on work I have to do. And saw your name pop up and just wanted to know why.
I would think interracial relationships would have the most problems because of the cultural differences.