Rejection gets super easy once you're used to it

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I've always been bad with girls because I was too scary to approach. All the females I've had in the past chose me.

Got dumped and no female stepped in to take her place so I had to learn to put in some effort.

First I hated that shyt. I would Approach a girl, get turned down, then not approach another girl for the rest of the week because I was just too embarrassed thinking about that rejection. But at this point I've been doing it for maybe a month. I've had barely any luck. But I have become numb to the rejection. Tonight I went out and tried to Mack anything moving. I only got two numbers from half uglies and got rejected A LOT but it doesn't hurt. Feels good actually because I know I've grown.

And in real life most girls are polite. They're gonna let you down easy not accuse you of street harassment and try to mace you. Of all the girls I've gotten rejected by in this past month only two of them were rude to me.
My only issue is the gossip girls do and then you gotta hear i heard you was trying to talk to so and so. I know thats some "beta" shyt but i really hate gossip shyt
 

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My only issue is the gossip girls do and then you gotta hear i heard you was trying to talk to so and so. I know thats some "beta" shyt but i really hate gossip shyt
everyone talks behind your back. You just have to get used to that and do your own thing.

And I think girls lowkee have more respect for flirty men then dudes who never go after girls. Flirting is natural. Getting rejected is natural. Makes you look like a better person when they see you're putting yourself out there and not tripping off the rejections.
 

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everyone talks behind your back. You just have to get used to that and do your own thing.

And I think girls lowkee have more respect for flirty men then dudes who never go after girls. Flirting is natural. Getting rejected is natural. Makes you look like a better person when they see you're putting yourself out there and not tripping off the rejections.
Yea i know but at the same thing im like why would they want a guy like me because im a fat nikka, i know i should stop thinking like that but im like :yeshrug: to it now. I ain't got no problems being alone
 

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Yea i know but at the same thing im like why would they want a guy like me because im a fat nikka, i know i should stop thinking like that but im like :yeshrug: to it now. I ain't got no problems being alone
ain't got no problems being alone? Nutting in females is pretty much the meaning of life. Get wit it.

Most girls care more about confidence level then body. My homie is fatter than me and has man t*ts. Homie be walking around the bar looking like he needs a bra. But he has confidence macks females like its nothing. And he actually pulls some very decent girls using that method. Try to lose weight in your free time. But when you're partying just accept who you are and be confident About it
 

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ain't got no problems being alone? Nutting in females is pretty much the meaning of life. Get wit it.

Most girls care more about confidence level then body. My homie is fatter than me and has man t*ts. Homie be walking around the bar looking like he needs a bra. But he has confidence macks females like its nothing. And he actually pulls some very decent girls using that method. Try to lose weight in your free time. But when you're partying just accept who you are and be confident About it
I am confident about who i am lol, it's just hard for me to get over that mental thing because im just used to being looked over all the time and thats how i became who i am and im grateful for it
 

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It depends on how you feel about how the female looks, say you know this chick yall cool as fukk based on her behavior you think she's the one and you ask she rejects you.
thats just it everytime I've asked a female out that i was cool wit out she went for it...:yeshrug: even when I was in HS with low self-esteem i got every chick i wanted like it wasn't shyt... I've never had to chase a bytch in my life..:whew:

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you a ugly nikka :russ:
 

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thats just it everytime I've asked a female out that i was cool wit out she went for it...:yeshrug: even when I was in HS with low self-esteem i got every chick i wanted like it wasn't shyt... I've never had to chase a bytch in my life..:whew:


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you a ugly nikka :russ:
Well if u ever have to you might see how it feels but some ppl take rejection harsher than others
 
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