Relationship vs. Moving for a Better Job

Yagirlcheatinonus

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I been in that situation before trust me take the job and dont look back. See I thought I would be able to come home on the weekends and keep the relationship. Dont always work out how we plan it.
 

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Long story short, the job is going well and I'm two months out from that relationship.

Definitely made the right choice. That freedom has me like :whew:
 

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Trick question: I don't have a relationship! :russ: So I'd move :yeshrug:
 

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Long story short, the job is going well and I'm two months out from that relationship.

Definitely made the right choice. That freedom has me like :whew:
You didnt really love that girl did you? Not implying you didnt do the right thing, but 2 months to get over a breakup is nothing. You were looking for an out right?
 

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You didnt really love that girl did you? Not implying you didnt do the right thing, but 2 months to get over a breakup is nothing. You were looking for an out right?
Oh, I loved her. I put more effort into that relationship than I have in any of my previous ones combined. Don't let the smiley fool you, I'm two months out and feeling good about being free, but I never said I was over her already.

Even though I loved her, I had to end it whether I got the job or not. Our arguments got ridiculous and I was sacrificing myself only to stay in the same cycle. It was unhealthy.
 

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Oh, I loved her. I put more effort into that relationship than I have in any of my previous ones combined. Don't let the smiley fool you, I'm two months out and feeling good about being free, but I never said I was over her already.

Even though I loved her, I had to end it whether I got the job or not. Our arguments got ridiculous and I was sacrificing myself only to stay in the same cycle. It was unhealthy.
:ehh:

Well, maybe time away will be good for both of you. Not saying you'll get back with her but I hope things work out the way they should :salute:
 

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If she's worth it, she'll move with you or cope with long distance. You can't pass up something sure to be good with something that can go end with a couple bad nights, miscommunication, and some drinks. Best believe the next time you get mad at her you gon be thinking "I gave up a great job for this. fukk!"
 
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