MillionMills
Superstar
A strong relationship on both ends = yall move together
A weaker relationship = breakup
A weaker relationship = breakup
Relationship vs. Moving for a Better Job
- Thread starter Gus Money
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Why can't she move with you?
Try long distance if she's worth it and she views you as being worth it she will wait and or find a job in your area
Before people come with that ldr doesn't work. One of my friends married a dude she met in Jamaica while on vacation went back like 4 tikes in a year till they got married
Try long distance if she's worth it and she views you as being worth it she will wait and or find a job in your area
Before people come with that ldr doesn't work. One of my friends married a dude she met in Jamaica while on vacation went back like 4 tikes in a year till they got married
street heat
merchant of death
i did it..... i dont regret it 
Turk
Young, Gifted, and Black
Money goes even quicker. fukk you mean breh?
On topic. Which is it OP? Is it a job or is it school because that matters. What school you go to really doesn't mean shyt in most instances so if she's worth it then school would be a NO. A job however is part of a secured future and that is to be valued with the utmost regard. If the relationship is strong to a point where you see her as part of your future then long distance could work. With that being said though, if the relationship has a future and is strong then she would come with you soooo you can find yourself in a situation where if you are having to make a choice, then you already have your answer don't you?
School's one thing, but if it's for a better job, you better take it. If it's a very good job and you guys have a great relationship, she'll move with you. Otherwise, it wasn't meant to be. Do not pass up a great career opportunity though. That's foolish.
DaRealness
I think very deeply
Career opportunity ALWAYS. It's a no brainer. You pass this up, she could leave you for another dude a couple of months from now, then what?
Honestly, no for both questions. She has changed a lot since we first met, and not in a good way. I know it seems like a no-brainer but I just can't shake the guilt.Could you see yourself marrying this woman? Could you see her being the mother of your kids? If the answer to either of these questions is anything less than a clear/RESOUNDING yes (and that includes maybe), then pack your shyt immediately. There are billions of women in the world, breh, but career opportunities only come by ever so often
She's in school for the next 3 years so she wouldn't be able to move until she graduates. I just tried to talk with her about the whole situation and it turned into a nightmare. She is strongly opposed to long-distance but I can't just pass up this opportunity if it comes through. The writing is on the wall, I just need to me smart enough to read it.
Bunchy Carter
I'll Take The Money Over The Honey
I would go with the job and leave her.
Purse first ass last; get that money
Purse first ass last; get that money
See ladies, Da Gawd Reincar aint always hard on hoes. Team GMB got love for the ladies.
Yagirlcheatinonus
Icon Poster
Dont do the long distance thing. The minute you leave she will go to her friends to console her, then the club next thing you know another dude will be fukking her. Get this $
Paisley Darts
All Star
Depends on which is more important to you. But understand that a really good woman that will hold you down is extremely rare. I'm sure there will be more job opportunities in the future. But again...it depends which one means more to you. If yall have a strong relationship, somebody will compromise.